I know we have a lot of readers who already know about fetishgear. You guys like to have fun in gear! However, we get new readers all the time who want to step out of the boxer brief doldrums and try something a bit more risque and out of the box for them. Well, that is the first step to embrace the change in undies! No more vanilla get some spice in your life.
A First step to get into Fetish:
This may sound vanilla to many of you guys but if you only have worn boxers or boxer briefs, you don’t know the joys of other pairs and styles. I say get you a classic or fashion jock. It’s a different feel than you have ever experienced. It may not seem like a big deal but the first time you wear a jock with jeans, you will understand. It’s one of the most “classic fetish” pairs in existence. You may or may not like the jock but it gives you a point of reference.
Try other fabrics
Fetish fabrics can be just about anything these days. It’s no longer mesh of yesteryear. Depending on what you love you can get underwear made of neoprene, lace, satin, leather, rubber and more. The list goes on and on. Each of these fabrics will have their pluses and minuses. Neoprene doesn’t breath. The leather is not super easy to clean and more. Many of the brands we cover here have fetish lines and make underwear out of these fabrics and more! Just when I think i have seen it all we have a brand that comes out with something and I go “DAMN that’s amazing.”
Look into accessories
It may sound like I”m asking you about a watch or tie but in fetish that is not the case. Accessories are harnesses, armbands, slings (not the kind you are thinking) and more. These are like the icing on the cake. They don’t necessarily make the look but they add to it. If you don’t want to get a leather or neoprene harness, many underwear brands are making elastic or spandex harnesses now.
The next thing is getting the buy in from your partner. That’s a whole different post and we can’t help you on that one, you just need to sit down and talk to them.