I know we have a lot of readers who already know about fetishgear. You guys like to have fun in gear! However, we get new readers all the time who want to step out of the boxer brief doldrums and try something a bit more risque and out of the box for them. Well, that is the first step to embrace the change in undies! No more vanilla get some spice in your life.

A First step to get into Fetish: 

This may sound vanilla to many of you guys but if you only have worn boxers or boxer briefs, you don’t know the joys of other pairs and styles. I say get you a classic or fashion jock. It’s a different feel than you have ever experienced. It may not seem like a big deal but the first time you wear a jock with jeans, you will understand. It’s one of the most “classic fetish” pairs in existence. You may or may not like the jock but it gives you a point of reference.

Try other fabrics

Fetish fabrics can be just about anything these days. It’s no longer mesh of yesteryear. Depending on what you love you can get underwear made of neoprene, lace, satin, leather, rubber and more. The list goes on and on. Each of these fabrics will have their pluses and minuses. Neoprene doesn’t breath. The leather is not super easy to clean and more. Many of the brands we cover here have fetish lines and make underwear out of these fabrics and more! Just when I think i have seen it all we have a brand that comes out with something and I go “DAMN that’s amazing.”

Look into accessories

It may sound like I”m asking you about a watch or tie but in fetish that is not the case. Accessories are harnesses, armbands, slings (not the kind you are thinking) and more. These are like the icing on the cake. They don’t necessarily make the look but they add to it. If you don’t want to get a leather or neoprene harness, many underwear brands are making elastic or spandex harnesses now.

The next thing is getting the buy in from your partner. That’s a whole different post and we can’t help you on that one, you just need to sit down and talk to them.

First, let me say that that I didn’t know when I posted the form it didn’t show up. I moved to GSuite from Google and got a new Google Drive, however, in the newness I didn’t notice there is a switch you have to flip to let others answer the form. I went DOH, but it’s up and running.

Here are the results of the survey:

These are the responses, one of them maybe yours:

• If it feels good, wear it! If it LOOKS good, then own that shit! I’ve been wearing thongs for almost 7 years and I’ve definitely acquired a “thong fetish” owning well over 100 pairs. Gregg Homme, Joe Snyder and Prevail Sport are just a few of my favorites. I used to wonder how women could walk around with a string up their butt all day and not be uncomfortable, but they looked amazing so no guy in his right mind is going to rock the boat asking a stupid question like “aren’t those things uncomfortable?” Over the years I’ve asked different girl friends that question and the answer was ALWAYS “my God no, they’re so comfortable”. After wearing my very first thong that a girlfriend of mine ordered for me online I could firmly attest that thongs were by far the most comfortable underwear I had ever worn. Being somewhat of an amateur bodybuilder they were also the most flattering underwear for my physique – if you’ve got it, show it. A majority of women that I know say that a guy with a nice ass is very attractive and if a chick with a great ass wears a thong it’s considered hot by all genders, why then does that not apply to men? I’ve caught a lot of shit from women about wearing thongs. That same girlfriend that bought my first thong and saying how sexy it looked on me started hating my new found obsession for skimpy drawers and would make constant innuendo about being a closeted bisexual. I think she started getting jealous thinking that I looked better in thongs and g-strings than she did. With all of that being said, my response to the masculinity of thongs and those who wear them is simple: I’ll show you how masculine I am and afterwards you’re gonna feel like a real douche getting your ass kicked by a guy in sparkling pink bong thong. Cheers fellow thong lovers!! (3)
• Sexy as hell
• does it really matter?? If it makes you feel confident, then go for it
• They show off the male body more than any other underwear…the bulge and the butt.
• Put a piece of fabric up your ass
• A well cut thong shows off the gear in the front and the mussels in the back
• Thong was the first underwear men wore
• It’s a state of mind. A thong is just a clothing style, like jeans. They can make you feel whatever you want….sexy and masculine. I’ve had girlfriends that have bought me thongs, because they thought I looked sexy and very masculine in them. They liked the minimal look on me and so do i.
• Just because women wear them doesn’t mean they aren’t masculine.
• Yes I think they are . I like how minimal they are and they still offer great support.
• The ultra sexy nature of a thong can confuse a lot of guys. Most are used to much more coverage and the skimpy design of a thong is very sensual and exhibitionistic (even secretly and unseen). That’s not so typical a choice for dudes, as we live in what has turned out to be a very body-negative era (what happened?!). Some guys, like myself, love them. I find them to be very motivational—I want to make sure I look good in one. I do think that there is a sizable number of women who like seeing their guys in them.
• Depending on the silhouette, the image a thong creates ranges from dominant Alpha male to demure flower. The thongs I find most alluring create a bulge that is unquestionably masculine.
• The way they are made to support male anatomy.
• It just Is.
• They are comfy and sexy.

Do you guys have anything to add?

This year I have burned the candle at both ends and I never feel I give UNB enough time in long-term planning. Working full time, trying to get UNB Deals off the ground and trying to have a personal life, there aren’t enough hours in the day. One thing you guys say is that you want to see real guys in pictures and I have been actively recruiting guys!

We have one firm commitment from a reg guy, who is tall and kinda geeky but in a good way. I”m in talks with a few other guys. One is a cub and the other is just a “regular guy.” I want to do these on a regular basis, not just . one time deal. Which I think you guys would love.

My biggest problem is finding guys willing to show off to the world. Not everyone has a job they can be found in underwear on the net. Others do not want to to see negative comments on pictures posted. So this being said what type of guys do you want to see? Do you know someone who would be willing to model near the Atlanta area? If so, have them email us! Or reach out on social.

We hope to shoot this and get it up by the first of the year. But I wanted to update you guys and let you know that the surveys help us develop content and listen to you guys. SO we are listening and love to hear from you after we get the post up!

We posted about the new Wolf collection from Modus Vivendi and now you can shop. This video is hosted by Dead Good Undies so go shop them! Read more about the Wolf Collection.

#WhenInVegas

2018 is the Age of the Swim Thong and my experience in Vegas has shown me that Men can now join in the Swim Revolution. From my experiences, I have shared here and on my IG page, the most monumental and truly liberating experience was in Sin City! VEGAS BABY. From Hotel pool to the Wet Republic Day Club I braved the tides of judgment for revolutionizing men’s swimwear.

I have been experimenting, pushing the boundaries of fashion everywhere I have traveled in the last year and Vegas by far was the most rewarding. Maybe it’s the #whathappensinVegasStaysInVegas vibe or simply put, people are generally happy in Vegas celebrating something right? Why let a guy in a thong ruin that? What I learned is my carefree confidence to strut my stuff added to the magic that Vegas brings out of our ho-hum lives.

I was celebrating a birthday, and just like many times in my young adult life, friends bail last minute, even if you plan a year out. One of my best friends and my brother plus his girlfriend would elect to join along. The whole Vegas idea centered around a discounted stay at the Hilton Grand Vacation for a timeshare brief. I will leave those details at that. However, the hotel was a no frills but clean and accommodating hotel on the North end of the Strip. A little seedy outside the place, but inside, actually quite nice.

The pool was spread out in lagoon like fashion and I was excited to tan some cheeks and test out the Vegas thong experience. The first morning in Vegas I hit the pool. Turns out this pool consisted of mostly families. With families around, I have learned their attitude is: don’t-trust-the-guy-in-thong till proven otherwise. Not fair but a reality in America. This was no different, but very quickly people in my space felt that I truly was there for no one but myself. And when my buddy came to the pool to join me, any anxiety over my thong quickly evaporated.

My racy swim attire has not been truly expressed to my brother, however, much less his girlfriend, so that was actually a stressor for me on this trip. But I was adamant, if I can do this with friends and the public at large, I should at least be able to have a conversation with my brother about it. He has seen that I do wear thongs, and tights and I would say he wasn’t completely surprised but took some getting used to. His girlfriend, silent as usual, but I did come out and say “Hey I can go change if this is making you guys uncomfortable” but nope, my brother and his girlfriend supported me. I recommend to start a conversation about it. Let them have the green light to expressing concerns or support. What a relief.

The next day, my buddy and I went to Wet Republic. Now, I have worn swim thongs all over in public, but never to a club. This IS the place where people can kick you out BECAUSE THEY CAN. That fact was intimidating, so I reached out over email to the club to ask about thongs on men. I was given the green light as long as it was “tasteful.” FAIR enough right? I chose to wear my JOR Sunny Black Thong, somewhat conservative back and front, but still undoubtedly a thong. HERE WE GO.

With shorts and a t-shirt and a bag of our stuff we arrived. As we got closer, I didn’t realize the fact you really can’t bring ANYTHING with you into the club. That means no clothes other than a swimsuit. This was the moment of truth where I had to strip in line, store our clothes, sunscreen, wallet and phones with the club and then proceed to be frisked for contraband.

There were a couple of smirks as me and my cheeks were just hanging out in line with my buddy. Within seconds of actually entering the club, all eyes were on me and I could feel that I was now in the spotlight making a statement. This was the moment of uncertainty. Did I really outdo myself this time? Was I going to be asked to leave because someone complained about me? Was I going to be the butt(pun intended) of everyone’s joke that day? Even my friend, kept a little distance from me to watch the situation unfold.

The fog of uncertainty was broken when this girl and her friend came up and grabbed my butt and said “I LOVE YOUR SUIT!!!” The rest was history.

I was invited to private cabanas, asked to take pictures with bachelorettes, dudes who at first snickered were dumbfound at the amount of female attention I was getting. A girl who was, literally, across the entire club pointed at me and forced her way through the pool and booze to find me and tell me she had never seen someone so self-confident in her life. This was no hyperbole, but women were literally craving and competing for my attention. It got to the point where I had hands all over me in the pool and couldn’t keep track of whom they belonged too! INSANE.

My buddy, now was my ambassador, directing the flow of traffic to the aura of the Swim Thong Guy. He was the Remora to the wake of girls flocking to our space and had met some girls in the process. UN-FREAKING-BELIVABLE.

Best birthday of my life. That moment, in the sun, music, booze, and women flocking to me because I wore a swimsuit that people have laughed at me for wearing. Vegas not only accepted my swimsuit, it worshipped it.

If ANY of you readers out there STILL haven’t found the fortitude to go out and wear a swim thong or bikini in public- Please do. And if you need a place to do it, Vegas is it hands-down the best place I have been. It was one of the most liberating experiences of my life and I look forward to hearing your stories.

Heck, maybe I can get my boss here to throw a UNB get together in Vegas. Who wants a piece of the magic? Follow me @yourfavoritestallion