UNBTim did a post called “Showing A Bulge? Is It Too Much?” Before that post, Tim and I had a conversation on it, so it inspired me to join him with my own post. We both think there is a line where we personally think it is okay to show the bulge and not to. That line is pretty similar for us.
Like Tim quoted me in his post, Women have the push up bras for cleavage boosting, so why shouldn’t we be able to have some enhancement to our bulge. Now I do believe there is a point of too much for the public eye. For your partner, I say the more the merrier. I know my wife likes seeing some bulge coming from under my clothes.
I’m a bikini and thong wearer and I find that a good fitting snug pair will give a boost without them being an enhancing pair. The fact that they lift the sack up and out gives you a bit more of the bulge. Along with them keeping everything in place front and center.
Personally I don’t really pay much attention to my bulge factor. I haven’t come across any awkward situations related to showing a bulge. None of my pairs are what I would call enhancing. Yes, some of my underwear pouches do give more lift than others.
I think the bulge factor comes down to intent. I see giving yourself a little boost to the package as a way to increase confidence, which is an enhancement plus. If your sole purpose is just to show off and get the biggest boost possible then I see that as a negative. Yes, it is fine to show off to your partner or maybe clubbing. Most other times I don’t think it is necessary.
My biggest pet peeve with bulge showing off is with swim briefs or smaller swimwear. Enhancing the bulge in swimwear is one of the biggest things that I think is hurting their acceptance. People seem to have a hang up on the male anatomy being accentuated by lycra and defining it more is just making it worse.
To bulge? or not to bulge? is the end question. To that I say use common sense. Bulge at the appropriate times and places. Do not over enhance and hurt the image of men’s bikinis, thongs, and other undies along with the swim brief. There still is a long ways to come in their acceptability and inappropriate bulging can set them back even more.