Now that the “Free the Bulge” moment is in full swing, I have heard from so many of you that this is a much-needed movement in the world of underwear, swimwear, and gear. I am very happy to hear that. I think it’s something we need to push more in our community, letting guys express themselves and wear whatever they want without fear or embarrassment.
I can’t do this alone, I will put. Our content is often about this, but I need your help. I need some of you guys to step up and tell your story. Tell how you came to love underwear and gear. And no, your story is not boring, simple, or ordinary. Each guy has their own journey, and there are some amazing stories out there that need to be told. In fact, many of the “my story is nothing special” guys are the ones who usually pull something amazing out of their hat while telling their story.
Why do you need to tell your story?
I know I am not alone when I was growing up and thought I was the only guy into underwear. No one else I knew even talked about underwear. However, I was fascinated by bikinis and jocks. I would buy them when I could with whatever money I could find. Then, in my 20s and with the internet, I learned there is a whole community out there. Guys who love the same things and different things, I would discover and fall in love myself.
It can be scary the first time you put your love into words. Being that open is always a risk, but at UNB/Brief Talk, we are here to support you and help other guys embrace their love. I like to set up a call to chat before any podcast is recorded, so you get comfortable with me, and I can explain the process. You can also ask me anything in return. I love talking to undies guys and am an open book. Once you open up and start telling your story, the nervousness goes away, and it feels like two old friends chatting.
Plus, you coming forward and telling your journey will inspire more to do the same. They may not come on the podcast right away, but they may open up to a friend and tell them their love. “Free the bulge” is about open communication and talking about what you love, even to friends who aren’t into it. It’s about making this the norm in our society. Which is a long road, but I’m here to walk it with you.
How do you tell your story?
First, get in touch with us. There is a form at the end of this post to fill out. First, you do not have to use your real name; you can use your IG name, nickname, or a made-up name. Your privacy is very important to me. I know there are many who can’t be open, show their faces, or even give their real names. Also, I do not share information with others unless I have permission. This means that if I know your Personally Identifiable Information (telephone number, email address, real name, etc.), I do not share it with anyone.
Next, we can do a blog post or podcast, depending on your level of comfort. I want to get more posts on the blog and am very open to written Brief Tales, and I know not everyone is comfortable with public speaking. You have a place at UNB!!
Lastly, if you do fill out the form, please email me back. I have had a good response to the form, but very few have replied to my email . I don’t know if it’s been caught in the spam filter or if people don’t check their emails often. I try to respond within a day or so. Sometimes it’s 48 hours, but I try to do it soon. If you don’t hear back from me, DM me or email me at feedback@brieftalkpodcast.com, and I will follow up.
I am going to create some merch for the Movement and podcasts. If you want anything in particular, let me know. The usual tees and mousepads will be on the menu, but if you want more, let me know.
One of the things I love most about Stretching the Truth is getting to talk with guys who truly understand the appeal of spandex gear. In this episode, I welcome back Scott from Fourway333, and we dive into a topic that doesn’t get nearly enough attention — short suits.
Our last conversation focused on long suits, and the response from listeners was amazing. A lot of you told me you loved hearing two guys really get into the details of gear — the fabrics, the fit, the brands, and why we love wearing it. So we decided it was time to flip things around and talk about the other side of the spectrum.
This episode is all about short suits, singlets, leotards, bodysuits, and athletic gear.
The Appeal of Short Suits
Short suits are one of those pieces of gear that sit right at the intersection of sport, style, and self-expression. They show off the body in a way that’s sleek and athletic, but they’re also incredibly comfortable when you find the right fabric and fit.
Scott and I talk about tri suits, which are often one of the easiest entry points into the world of short suits. These suits are designed for triathlon athletes, so they’re made with high-performance fabrics that stretch, breathe, and move with the body.
But beyond performance, they just look great.
The cuts are clean, the fabrics feel amazing, and many of them create that streamlined look that spandex fans love.
Wrestling Singlets and Athletic Gear
Of course, we couldn’t talk about short suits without getting into wrestling singlets.
Singlets have always had a strong following among gear guys, and it’s easy to understand why. They’re athletic, they’re bold, and they create a silhouette that really highlights the body.
We talk about some of the classic brands like Cliff Keen, ASICS, and Adidas, along with some newer options and custom pieces that are showing up in the gear world.
Singlets have this great mix of sport authenticity and gear culture, and that’s a big reason they’ve remained so popular.
Dancewear, Leotards, and Bodysuits
Another big part of the conversation focuses on dancewear and leotards, which are becoming more popular among guys who love spandex.
For years, these pieces were marketed almost exclusively toward dancers or gymnasts. But if you look at the fabrics, cuts, and designs, it’s easy to see why more guys are discovering them.
Some of these pieces are incredibly well made, with fabrics that stretch beautifully and designs that highlight the body in ways most traditional gear doesn’t.
Scott shares some great recommendations for brands to try, especially for guys who are curious but not sure where to start.
Gear Is Only Part of the Story
While we definitely geek out over gear in this episode, the conversation also turns toward something bigger — community.
One of the things both Scott and I believe strongly is that the spandex and gear world should be about more than just posting photos or collecting gear. It should be about connecting with other guys who share the same interests.
There’s something powerful about realizing you’re not the only one who loves this stuff.
When guys start talking openly about it, it creates a space where people can feel comfortable being themselves.
And honestly, that’s a big part of what Stretching the Truth is about.
Building the Spandex Community
One of the themes that came up during the episode is the idea that we need a stronger spandex community here in the U.S.
There are incredible groups and events around the world where gear guys can meet, connect, and share their interests. We’d love to see more of that happening here.
Whether it’s online conversations, gear trades, meetups, or just connecting with new friends, building those relationships makes the community stronger.
And who knows — maybe someday we’ll even get that spandex resort Scott joked about.
Listen to the Episode
If you love spandex, singlets, leotards, bodysuits, or just hearing two gear guys talk about what makes great gear, you’ll definitely enjoy this episode.
MODUS VIVENDI presents its new Spring/Summer 26 Collection that captures the liberating spirit of 1970s fashion, translating the decade’s fearless attitude and sensual confidence into a modern vision of menswear. The SS26 collection explores the evolution of masculinity through bold design, expressive color palettes, and versatile silhouettes that seamlessly move between underwear, swimwear, and ready-to-wear.
The 1970s represented a turning point in men’s fashion, a moment when clothing became a vehicle for individuality, personality, and sensuality. Men embraced bolder silhouettes, expressive colors, and garments that celebrated the body rather than concealing it. This philosophy resonates strongly with contemporary menswear trends for 2026, where self-expression, fluid styling, and body-positive design continue to redefine the modern wardrobe.
The Spirit of SS26: A New Direction in Fashion
Ultimately, the MODUS VIVENDI Spring/Summer 2026 collection is a celebration of confidence, sensuality, and individuality. By revisiting the liberated aesthetic of the 1970s and reinterpreting it through contemporary design, the collection embraces a vision of masculinity that is strong yet expressive, bold yet refined.
Through its balance of color, texture, and silhouette, SS26 invites people to explore a wardrobe where freedom of style meets modern sophistication. The collection is designed for those who live unapologetically, dress confidently, and embrace the evolving landscape of fashion.
The collection also explores the emotional language of color through four key palettes that define the season:
Minimal & Warm – Soft neutrals such as dust grey, ash brown, and camel evoke understated elegance and timeless sophistication.
Industrial & Cool – Muted blues, pale greys, and deep black introduce a sleek, architectural mood rooted in modern precision.
Earthy & Botanical – Muted olives, khaki tones, and deep evergreen bring organic calm and grounded masculinity.
Soft & Romantic – Gentle pinks and rosy tones introduce warmth, intimacy, and emotional softness.
Together, these palettes reflect the diversity of the modern male identity—strong yet sensitive, classic yet progressive.
Underwear: The Foundation of the Modern Wardrobe
Underwear forms the foundation of the SS26 collection, celebrating both timeless masculinity and contemporary sensuality. The designs reflect the idea that underwear is no longer simply functional but an essential expression of personal style.
Classic silhouettes such as briefs, boxers, jockstraps, and thongs are reimagined through modern fits and premium materials that offer exceptional comfort and flexibility. Elasticated cotton fabrics provide a soft yet supportive feel, while innovative mesh and ultra-smooth textiles introduce new levels of lightness and breathability.
The collection explores a variety of textures and visual effects, from minimal athletic aesthetics to sheer fabrics that subtly reveal the body beneath. These design directions capture the growing trend in menswear toward sensual transparency and confident self-expression, where underwear becomes a powerful symbol of individuality.
Complementing the underwear silhouettes are fashion tops, sleeveless designs, and long-sleeve pieces that blur the boundaries between underwear and ready-to-wear. This layering concept reflects the modern approach to dressing, where intimate garments can effortlessly transition into everyday styling.
Swimwear: Confidence, Provocation, and Summer Freedom
Swimwear in the SS26 collection reflects the same spirit of freedom and confidence that defined 1970s beach culture. Designed for those who embrace bold style and expressive design, the swim pieces balance athletic performance with daring aesthetics.
The silhouettes range from low-rise bikini cuts and classic swim briefs to thong styles and athletic short-length swimsuits, offering multiple options that celebrate the male form. Each design is crafted from quick-drying fabrics that enhance comfort, durability, and freedom of movement. Print design plays a significant role in the swimwear offering. Vibrant graphic motifs and playful compositions create striking visual statements that capture attention under the sun. At the same time, sleek minimalist pieces introduce a more provocative dimension through high-shine textures and bold metallic details that add an element of rebellious sophistication.
Together, these designs create swimwear that is playful yet powerful, provocative yet wearable, embodying the modern man’s desire to express confidence and individuality in every environment.
Ready-to-Wear: When Underwear Meets Fashion
Expanding beyond underwear and swimwear, the SS26 collection introduces ready-to-wear elements that reinforce MODUS VIVENDI’s vision of a complete contemporary wardrobe.
Muscle shirts, sleeveless tops, T-shirts, and lightweight fashion pieces create versatile garments that can be styled both casually and as statement items. These pieces continue the collection’s emphasis on body-conscious silhouettes and comfortable fabrics, ensuring effortless movement and modern appeal.
The ready-to-wear designs reflect the shift in men’s fashion toward fluid styling, where garments associated with underwear become basic components of everyday outfits. This approach allows men to create layered looks that express personality.
The MODUS VIVENDI SS26 collection ultimately reflects a broader cultural movement redefining masculinity in fashion. The modern human is no longer confined to rigid definitions of style; instead, he embraces contrast, emotion, sensuality, and individuality. By merging retro inspiration, innovative fabrics, expressive prints, and versatile silhouettes, the collection creates a wardrobe that celebrates every dimension of modern male identity.
Body Positivity, Speedos & Content Creation with Zac Goes Places
In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim sits down with Zac (Zac Goes Places) — a travel-loving content creator based in Orlando who mixes body positivity, swimwear confidence, and a little thirst-trap fun into his social media presence.
What started as a personal journey toward confidence turned into a powerful message that every body deserves to feel good in what they wear — including Speedos.
Zac shares how he went from never posting a shirtless photo to becoming a content creator encouraging others to embrace their bodies and take risks in life.
This conversation covers everything from Andrew Christian being a gateway brand, to the realities of content creation, social media algorithms, and body image in the gay community.
And yes… there are plenty of Speedo stories.
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In This Episode
Zac’s Background
• Orlando-based content creator focused on travel, LGBTQ life, and social media content
• Shares adventures around Florida, theme parks, cruise ships, and nightlife
• Mixes travel content with underwear and swimwear confidence
The First Pair of “Gay Underwear”
Zac talks about discovering Andrew Christian underwear as a closeted teen and how the brand served as a gateway into the world of sexy underwear for many gay men.
Because let’s be honest…
A lot of us had that moment discovering underwear that made us feel confident.
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The Reality of Content Creation
Zac breaks down what many people don’t see:
• Editing photos and videos
• Constant posting to feed the algorithm
• Managing multiple social platforms
• The time and financial investment behind content
Content creation may look simple, but there’s a lot of work behind every post.
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From Self-Doubt to Body Positivity
One of the most powerful parts of the episode is Zac’s body positivity journey.
After quitting a toxic corporate job and hitting a personal low point, Zac decided to take control of his health and confidence.
He set a goal to lose weight and eventually wear a Speedo publicly — something he had never done before.
When he finally posted his first Speedo photo online, the response was overwhelming.
Thousands of views and messages from people saying:
“You inspired me to post my Speedo photo too.”
That moment helped Zac realize something powerful:
Every body is a Speedo body.
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Swim Briefs & Confidence
Zac and Tim talk about:
• The comfort of swim briefs
• Wearing Speedos beyond the pool
• Finding brands that balance comfort and style
• Why more men should try them
Because once you find the right pair…
You may never go back.
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Living Life Without Waiting
One of the biggest takeaways from this episode:
Stop waiting.
Whether it’s wearing Speedos, traveling, creating content, or chasing your goals — life is too short to hold yourself back.
As Zac says:
“We only get one life. If it’s not hurting anyone, just do it.”
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Follow Zac
You can find Zac across social media at:
@ZacGoesPlaces
Instagram
Twitter / X
BlueSky
Patreon
Snapchat
JustForFans
All of Zac’s links can be found through his social media bio.
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Final Thoughts
This episode is a reminder that confidence isn’t about hitting some imaginary “perfect body.”
It’s about owning who you are right now.
Whether you’re rocking boxers, briefs, thongs, or Speedos…
Wear what makes you feel good.
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Support UNB
If you enjoy the podcast, please support the platforms that make it possible.
We take you back to 2014, and this is a pair of amazing swimwear from 2EROS. I loved this print and think they do an amazing job in swimwear. They still do, and go check out their new swim.
Sometimes you just have to hit record and talk honestly.
In this Editor’s Note episode, UNB Tim pulls back the curtain on what’s happening behind the scenes with Underwear News Briefs, the podcast, and the growing Free the Bulge movement.
This episode is about transparency, community, and the future of everything we’re building together.
Two major things are happening right now:
• The launch and growth of the Free the Bulge movement
• Expanding the Patreon community to support the shows and future projects
UNB Tim shares the inspiration behind the movement, the long-term vision for building real community, and how listeners can be part of it.
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The Free the Bulge Movement
Free the Bulge isn’t just about underwear, swim briefs, or spandex.
It’s about confidence, acceptance, and community.
For years, UNB Tim has heard the same thing from guys in the underwear and gear communities:
• “Where can I meet other guys like me?”
• “How do I find friends who understand this side of me?”
• “Why does society shame men for enjoying what they wear?”
Free the Bulge is about changing that.
It’s about creating a space where all men are welcome — gay, straight, bi, curious — anyone who loves gear and wants to feel confident in their own skin.
Because when guys talk about underwear, gear, or swimwear, something amazing happens:
Their faces light up.
And that joy deserves a community.
The long-term goal is simple:
• Build a supportive community
• Encourage body confidence
• Normalize men enjoying what they wear
• Eventually create real-world meetups and events
This movement has been in the works for years, and now it’s finally time to make it happen.
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What’s Coming Next
The Free the Bulge movement is rolling out in phases.
Some things already underway include:
Weekly Free the Bulge Posts
Every Monday on Underwear News Briefs, UNB Tim will post:
• personal stories
• thoughts about confidence and body positivity
• updates on the movement
• future community ideas
Some posts will be personal.
Some may include guest voices.
But they’ll all come straight from the heart.
Live Podcast Discussions
Another upcoming feature is interactive live shows.
Using Riverside, listeners will be able to:
• join live recordings
• call in
• share their stories
• participate in honest conversations
Because the best discussions happen when the community is involved.
Listener Stories
One of the most exciting parts of the movement is hearing from listeners.
Through the new contact form on the site, guys can:
• share their stories
• talk about confidence
• discuss how gear became part of their identity
Some stories may appear on the blog.
Others may turn into podcast interviews.
The goal is simple:
Let real guys tell their stories.
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Future Meetups & Trips
One of the long-term goals of the movement is something many listeners have been asking for:
In-person community events.
UNB Tim is exploring ideas like:
• community meetups
• gear-friendly travel trips
• group travel to places like
• San Diego
• Chicago
• Miami
• Palm Springs
• Puerto Vallarta
• even international destinations
Imagine traveling with a group of guys who share the same interests and confidence.
That’s where this movement is headed.
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Supporting the Podcast Through Patreon
Running the blog and podcast takes time, resources, and tools.
UNB Tim shares exactly how Patreon support currently helps keep things running.
Monthly costs include:
• Podcast hosting
• Canva for graphics
• Riverside for recording
• website storage and infrastructure
Right now Patreon brings in about $115–$135 per month, which essentially covers the core expenses of running the show.
But growing Patreon would allow the show to expand even more.
Future goals include:
• hiring an editor
• compensating regular co-hosts
• producing more shows each week
• recording podcasts on location at events
One piece of gear UNB Tim is looking at is a portable podcast recorder that would allow live recordings at events like Kink Down South and other gatherings.
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Patreon Perks
Joining Patreon helps support the podcast and unlocks bonus content.
Patreon members may get:
• extended conversations
• behind-the-scenes discussions
• bonus segments
• experimental shows and topics
The main podcast will always remain free, but Patreon helps make additional content possible.
There’s also a free Patreon membership option, which will act as a newsletter for updates about:
• Free the Bulge
• new podcast episodes
• blog updates
• community plans
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Why This Community Matters
The underwear and gear community has always existed.
But it hasn’t always had a place to connect.
Free the Bulge is about creating that space.
A space where guys can:
• share their interests
• build friendships
• feel confident
• talk openly without shame
And that community only exists because of you — the listeners.
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Listen to the Upcoming Shows
Two episodes are dropping this week:
• Brief Talk Podcast with Zach
• Stretching the Truth — Short Suits in Spandex with Scott (Fourway)
I came up with an idea for a movement, campaign, or initiative—I’m still working on the best term for it. My goal is to encourage men to feel more confident and open, especially around issues society tells us to hide. The podcast became the catalyst for what I now call the “Free the Bulge” movement, focused on normalizing male body confidence and breaking taboos. After thinking it over for two years, I decided it was time to take action. I have many posts drafted and realized, “We need to take this further, and I need to take some risks.”
In 2025, I experienced some of my lowest points—wrestling with self-doubt, poor body image, and mental health struggles. The podcast became my outlet. Hearing from guys who feel inspired and less alone means a lot to me, especially on tough days. These feelings have lingered, and I’ve often felt lost. While I’ve shared these experiences with close friends, I’m working on being more open with the podcast audience, even when it feels uncomfortable. I know real friends care, even if society says not to burden others.
Exploring AI has ignited new inspiration for me. I now use it as a creative tool to make images and videos and to organize my romance novel. As someone with dyslexia and other challenges, getting thoughts on paper is tough. Creating fun, positive underwear and Speedo content with Sora has been a recent highlight. When ‘bikini club’ came up, it resonated as the movement I wanted to launch but had held back.
Bikini Club began with a line from a random video, which I expanded into a space where ‘bros’ and regular guys come together—all are welcome to wear swim briefs. (No thongs yet, as Sora doesn’t allow them.) It’s basically what if swim briefs were the norm and everyone wore them. I’ve created a lot of Bikini Club content, some of which I’ll share here, with a full post to come. My goal is to grow Bikini Club into an inclusive space for underwear/swim/spandex/gear enthusiasts. AI helps me bring these ideas to life, and I’m embracing my unique approach, focusing on what works for me.
I’ve noticed that whenever we share personal stories on the blog or podcast, they resonate deeply. Honest conversations—beyond simple preferences—show men they aren’t alone. Feeling sexy is a right every man should have. Too often, LGBTQ+ individuals are pressured to hide this or are dismissed as trivial by partners. Underwear is more than clothing; it’s about identity and confidence. It helps us take risks and present ourselves authentically, despite societal messages saying men shouldn’t. I no longer worry about others’ opinions—my underwear is a vital part of who I am.
Looking back, I’ve never been the most confident person. As an introvert and former people-pleaser in my 20s, I often struggled to see my own worth. A quote from my favorite movie, Muriel’s Wedding, asks: “Do you ever think you’re nothing? Sometimes I think I’m nothing. Useless.” This line struck a chord with me in the theater, as I knew what it felt like. My learning disabilities made me question my value. I never want anyone to feel as I did, which is one of the subconscious reasons I started UNB and Brief Talk—to put myself out there, to hear guys say, “OMG, I feel that too,” and to invite guests who share similar paths.
Now we enter Phase 1 of “Free the Bulge.” The main message: I need your support for this movement to transform men’s lives by building a more open, supportive, and honest community. Your engagement is key to this change. Here’s how you can help:
Reach out—share feedback and what inspires you on the podcast. Send in ideas or guest suggestions. Your feedback truly matters, and I want to hear from more of you. There’s a new contact form to reach me!
Share our content—this really matters. When we post a show or a “Free the Bulge” update, please share it on your social media. Every share makes a difference. Social media is fickle, so your support has a real impact.
Support us—First, with moral and emotional encouragement as listed above. Second, with monetary help. We have a Patreon I’m working to grow by over 100% this year. Running a podcast carries costs—last year, I worried about hosting, but made it work. I’m looking to expand and get more equipment. I’m not aiming for anything fancy—the travel and in-person gear I want is under $400 (on sale).
Be vocal—I encourage guys to share their stories. You don’t have to come on the podcast; write it, and I’ll post it on UNB. I want more stories from people of color, straight/bi guys, and bigger/beefier guys; everyone is welcome. You may think your story isn’t special, but you will inspire others. That’s an amazing feeling.
This movement is heartfelt —not just words—it’s about fostering a supportive community where all men can be authentic and confident. Let’s commit, together, to honesty and openness as we redefine what underwear means for us.
Meet the DOLPHIN TIGHTS — the pair that’s sexy as all get out. Designed with a sleek, pouch-free front that still shows you off like you’re wearing one, these tights cradle and highlight your goods in all the right ways. Made from super stretchy, ultra-thin fabric, they move with your body whether you’re lifting at the gym or snapping a confident mirror selfie at home.
Available in three hot colors, these versatile tights bring comfort, style, and attitude together in one bold look. Want to take things even further? Add a C-strap for extra enhancement and an even more striking profile
The Japanese underwear market is incredible. They approach design in a way that’s bold, creative, and not afraid to push boundaries. One brand I always love keeping an eye on is EGDE Japan. They consistently put out some truly amazing gear. The colors pop, the fabrics are innovative, and the cuts are sharp and modern. It’s the kind of underwear that reminds you how exciting design can be in this space.
If you’re someone who appreciates great gear—or just want a little inspiration—it’s definitely a brand worth checking out.
In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim brings back the popular swim brief discussion with returning guests Sam from SB Swimwear and Matthew (Matt’s Trunks). The trio dives into why swim briefs deserve a comeback, how attitudes toward them differ across cultures, and why more men should give them a try.
From comfort and confidence to tan lines and travel packing strategies, the conversation explores what makes swim briefs such a unique part of men’s swimwear culture and why they are slowly gaining popularity again in North America.
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Guests
Sam – SB Swimwear
Founder of SB Swimwear and long-time swim brief wearer who shares insights from designing and selling swimwear to men around the world.
Matthew – Matt’s Trunks
Underwear and swimwear enthusiast who documents brands and styles on his Instagram fashion page.
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Episode Topics
The Swim Brief Comeback
The episode opens with Tim celebrating the return of the swim brief show and discussing the slow resurgence of swim briefs in the United States. While they were common decades ago, American men largely shifted to board shorts. Now, fashion trends and growing confidence are bringing them back into the spotlight.
Sam explains that in many parts of the world swim briefs have always been normal, but in the U.S. they have sometimes been unfairly labeled as “taboo” or associated only with the LGBTQ community.
The guests agree that visibility and confidence are key to changing perceptions.
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Why Guys Should Try Swim Briefs
The group shares the biggest reasons men should consider switching from board shorts to briefs:
Comfort
Swim briefs allow much greater freedom of movement in the water and on land.
Quick drying
Unlike board shorts, briefs dry quickly and don’t hold water.
Better mobility
They don’t balloon with water or restrict movement during swimming or exercise.
Cleaner tan lines
One of the biggest perks discussed is the crisp, defined tan line that swim briefs create compared to the uneven tan lines from shorts.
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Swim Briefs and Confidence
The discussion touches on the social side of wearing briefs. Many men hesitate to wear them because of family reactions or social pressure.
The hosts encourage listeners to simply try them.
The general consensus:
Most people stop caring within minutes.
Matt even shares a story about learning that his father used to wear Speedos years ago—something he never expected to hear.
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Buying Your First Swim Brief
The group offers tips for men trying swim briefs for the first time.
Things to look for include:
• A secure drawstring waistband
• Front lining for comfort and coverage
• Proper fit for your body shape
• Trying them in person if possible
They also explain that not all swim briefs are the same—cuts can vary from sporty to fashion-forward, with different side widths and pouch designs.
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Favorite Swim Brief Brands
Each guest shares some of their personal favorites.
Sam
• SB Swimwear (his own brand)
• Arena swim briefs
Matt
• Sykus Wear
• Weldon Athletic
• Kovarex
• Stolen Bones
Tim
• Bear Threads
• Speedo
• Various prints and bold color styles
They also talk about the fun of collecting different styles and prints.
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Travel and Swim Brief Packing
The conversation turns to vacations and swimwear packing strategies.
Tim admits he often packs dozens of pairs for trips so he has options throughout the day.
Matt shares that he plans to bring plenty of briefs for an upcoming trip to Panama, emphasizing how different styles match different moods and activities.
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Where to Wear Swim Briefs
The hosts discuss favorite places to wear swim briefs, including:
• Beaches
• Resort pools
• Lake cottages
• Workouts and athletic events
• Travel destinations like Miami and Southern California
Sam even describes competing in an athletic event while wearing swim briefs without any issues, highlighting their mobility and durability.
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Bonus Content
After the main episode ends, the conversation continues with a Patreon-exclusive segment where the hosts play a “Would You Rather” game, moving from lighthearted questions to more spicy topics.
Listeners can hear the extended conversation by joining the podcast’s Patreon.
This episode celebrates the confidence, comfort, and fun of swim briefs while encouraging more men to give them a try. Whether for swimming, tanning, travel, or simply feeling good, the message is clear:
WildmanT was on the podcast recently, and it’s always great to have a conversation with a brand. He’s been making his brand of undies for over 10 years and if you are a guy who needs it, you just know!!! Go check out all this amazing undies.
Do you remember when Colt, the porn studio had swim briefs? This takes you back to 2015!! I remember this vividly, and even reached out to them to have them talk about the swim wear. I wish I would have scored that interview. But, we are on to bigger and better things.
One company I haven’t profiled in a while is Gregg Homme. How can I forget about them? Gregg Homme makes some of the most amazing underwear on the planet. They can go from simple and every day wear to some of the most erotic and fun pairs on the market.
Hunkmenswear has done a campaign inspired by Heated Rivalry. I am addicted to the show and the books and I’m glad to see a brand take it to the ice. I don’t know how they did this and where this rink is but wow, I tip my cap to this. Keep it up Hunk!
Last week, I introduced the “Free the Bulge” campaign. This movement is here to help guys feel confident in themselves and what they wear. It’s not just a one-time thing; it’s ongoing. Some of you have asked what’s next, so I’ve outlined the different phases of the movement.
Community Participation
I’m sharing my plans for “Free the Bulge” and what’s coming up. Some parts of the movement are already underway.
Every Monday, I’ll post a “Free the Bulge” update to talk about the movement, what I’m working on, and what we hope you’ll join in too.
We’ll host live shows on Riverside, where we can have real conversations and regular guys can call in to talk about different topics.
Brief Tales will feature men sharing their stories to inspire others to feel confident in their favorite gear. You can share your story in writing or on the podcast.
First Time Experiences: Share about the first time you wore a Speedo, tried spandex without shorts, or wore fun underwear to the gym, doctor, or anywhere else.
Body Image and Acceptance: Guys can talk about their struggles and successes with how they see their bodies. It’s not always easy, but the more we share, the more we can normalize these experiences.
To make this work, I need your help! We need more guys to step up and share their stories. I already have a great group of regulars, but I hope many more of you will join in, be brave, and open up. If you’re thinking, “I don’t think I can share this,” remember how you feel when you hear someone else’s story and how it inspires you. Your story can do the same for others. Even if it feels ordinary or unremarkable, I promise it will inspire someone out there.
Books and more.
I’ve wanted to write a book about underwear for a long time. It started as a photo book idea, then became a book about underwear from our perspective. After seeing how great the Thong book was, I thought we could do something similar for other styles or for underwear in general. Here are some ideas I’ve had:
Underwear 101: The basics every guy should know about underwear.
History of Men’s Underwear: How styles have changed over time and what they say about our culture.
Collections of short essays: Personal stories from guys about body confidence, how underwear has changed their lives (yes, it happens), and more.
I’ve already announced it, but I’m writing a romance novel centered around underwear. There’s a lot of myself in the story. I don’t have a title yet, and progress is slow because of work and school, but I keep working on the outline and timeline. The story is more about what could have been than what actually happened. I also have two more romance book ideas in mind, and I’m outlining one of them now. I hope you’ll enjoy them.
Real Life Meet Ups
I’ve been planning meetups and trips for a while now. I want to start a travel club so we can go places together, feel safe in a group, and wear Speedos or thongs at the pool or beach, even if it’s not always the most welcoming environment. Here are some of my ideas: Atlanta, where I live
Live Podcasting – At events and when we travel
Domestic Trips – Planned trips to San Diego, Palm Springs, Vegas, Puerto Rico, Porta Viarta, Miami, and more
International Travel – Trips to attend Grip in London, Tight Storm in Austria, Australia (many things to mention), Tokyo, and more.
Real-life meetups are essential for moving this forward. It can’t just be an online community. We need to spend time together and really get to know each other in person. Meeting face-to-face makes our connections much stronger. There are so many people I want to meet, and I know there are many I haven’t met yet.
A big goal would be an event that UNB could host and enjoy, similar to a public Magic convention. For those who don’t know, Magic is a trade show in Vegas where brands used to showcase their new collections. This would be tough to organize since we’d need brands and guys to join and have fun activities. It’s probably for a later phase, but I like the idea of a yearly event like this. It may not happen, but it’s fun to plan!
Want to share your story or get involved fill out the form below.
Documentaries
I want to take the books a step further and create documentaries from our point of view. One idea I’ve had for a long time is a documentary about N2N Bodywear—their history, how the brand influenced the underwear and gear community, super fans sharing their thoughts, and models talking about working with N2N Bodywear. I have a full outline for this and have even talked to Andrew about doing it as a podcast. Why not take it to the next level?
Other documentary options include:
Brands – how they affected the community
Body issues and how underwear/gear helped.
This is a long-term journey, and I’ll need your support along the way. I hope you’ll share your stories and, if you can, help out financially. I plan to expand my Patreon to help cover these projects. Most of all, I’d love to hear your feedback and ideas. I don’t get much feedback now, but I know you’re up for it, and I’m excited to make more friends who love undies and gear.
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We take you back to February 2009, before UNB was a year old! This is a picture done by Tom Cullis for Timoteo. It’s hard to believe that this was 16 years ago, it seems like yesterday.
Introducing the LUST COLLECTION by HUNK — a fashion-forward expression of modern male sensuality.
This isn’t about loud logos or over-the-top details. It’s about intention. Every piece in the LUST Collection is designed to highlight the male form with ribbed textures that contour the body, subtle tonal accents that elevate the look, and minimal branding that keeps the focus exactly where it belongs — on you.
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During an Instagram chat, I told a friend to “free the bulge.” He suggested launching it as a campaign and creating a logo. I took the challenge, expecting just a fun logo and post. But the more I thought about it, the more it felt integral to UNB. It’s about confidently wearing what you want, loving what you love, and having support.
About 10 years ago, I tried the Swim Brief Challenge. It didn’t take off, partly due to my lack of promotion and the timing. Now, I’m looking for new creative ways to share what UNB is about. This campaign fits perfectly. It covers much of what we post and discuss. So, “Free the Bulge” was born.
Before I dive in, answer these questions for yourself.
When did we start hiding ourselves? In the 80s, Speedos were a regular sight—on beaches, on TV, and everywhere in between. Men wore them openly back then.
What are we afraid of? When you talk to some guys, wearing bikinis to the gym, and having other guys see you sends them into a panic attack. Having anyone see them in something that isn’t “normal” is terrifying.
Do we care more about what strangers think than what we think? Why do we put so much weight on what strangers think about what we are wearing and censor ourselves for others’ approval?
What “Free the Bulge” Actually Means
By “Free the Bulge,” I don’t mean showing off in shock-value spandex or being an exhibitionist. It’s not sexual. It’s about removing shame from men showing their bodies and rejecting toxic masculinity.
Let’s look at the gear I am talking about, Swim Briefs or “Speedos” are made for swimming. Guys use these to swim laps, compete, and win gold medals in Speedos (well, they used to in the Olympics). Compression gear like Under Armour is made for working out, playing sports, and training. Cycling kit is made for cycling and spin classes and serves a purpose. Lastly, spandex has a long history as a fabric for aerobics, dancing, sports gear, and more.
What do all these things have in common? Guys wear them for the perspective activity without shame or worrying what others say about them. Seeing a guy standing on a starting block in googles, Speedo, and a swim cap, you don’t bat an eye. If you go to a college and see the football team in compression gear, it’s part of the game. Seeing a guy standing beside a bike in his cycling kit is just part of being a cyclist. And lastly, you see a guy in spandex dancing, it’s not something you go, “What is he wearing?”
I want us to get to the point where we can go out, run errands in our tights, and no one even cares. Or we wear our Speedos to the local pool or beach, yank our shorts off, and just enjoy the day. Where we don’t give it a thought, and we can live our lives to the fullest. I know from my sexuality that having to hide who you are from everyone is tiring. It’s its own coming out process in a way, not as serious as sexuality, but I know plenty want to be open with their love. Some guys even hide it from the people closest to them, like family, friends, and even partners.
The Confidence Ladder: Practical Ways to Start
How can we fix this? I’m not saying that we break out the swim briefs tomorrow and say “HERE I AM!” We have to advance in our own comfort zones. I have created some ways to help you ease into wearing what you love.
Vacation Mode – Low Risk Environment
If you go on vacation, even to another nearby city, pack the swim briefs and just wear them. You don’t know anyone there and will probably never see them again. Drop the shorts, lie out, and just enjoy the sun.
In short
· Pack Swim Brief
· Travel to the destination – beach, cruise, or resort.
· Put on swim briefs – maybe with a pair of shorts over.
· Get to the beach or pool, remove shorts, and enjoy the sun!
You may give another guy the confidence to break out the swim brief they packed. He wants to do the same thing, and seeing you wear it gives him permission to break his out! The more we do this, the more guys will join in.
Why is this low stress
· It’s freeing to be anonymous – you may remember this experience as a life-changing event, but most people won’t remember or recall you or that you wore a Speedo.
· Most People Don’t Care – In reality, most people don’t care, and if you listen to the Brief Talk Podcast, very few people have any negative experiences. It’s rare that someone comes out and says anything to you.
· You get a confidence boost – You may be nervous about dropping your shorts for the first time, but after a day in the sun, when you forget all about wearing swim briefs, it will give you even more confidence next time. This is real power, because all those ideas you had built up in your head were just anxiety and not reality.
Friendly Territory – Normalize It
If you want to wear something and want to do it without worry, go somewhere friendly. A place where you know guys will be wearing the same things or, in many cases, a lot less. One great example is Hollywood Beach in Chicago, where Speedos and thongs are not only welcome but also encouraged. You know, going there, it’s part of the culture to wear smaller swimwear. In fact, in that situation, it’s perfectly normal, and I would dare to say that wearing boardshorts would get you the reaction you would expect wearing a Speedo to a family event.
Other places to wear:
· Speedos – LGBTQ+ beaches, Resort pools, Nude beaches, countries where they are accepted (Australia, parts of Europe, and more).
· Spandex – Cycling groups, spin classes, gyms (especially bodybuilding gyms), running groups, and other fitness activities. It’s about the activity, not the gear, so you can stop stressing about the gear and focus on other things.
· Underwear – wear something not so “classic” to the gym. Wear colored briefs in a bolder color like green, orange, or yellow instead of white, grey, black, or navy. Wear a bikini in a classic color, no one will notice the bikini because it’s one of those four colors.
It’s about taking your mind off the anxiety and focusing on what you are doing. The more you do this, the less you will worry. This will give you confidence to get to the point where you are wearing exactly what you want without any hesitation or anxiety.
Again, the more we make this normal and a part of life, the more guys will wear what they want because it’s scary to be the first person to break out of the mold. It’s natural to fit in and not rock the boat, but we need these “rule breakers” to give guys permission to be themselves.
Safety in Numbers – Go With Friends
This one is not for everyone. If you are lucky enough to have friends who love the same thing you do, and even if they have been brave enough to wear what they want, it gives you the power to step out in numbers. If you see a group of guys in Speedos, you don’t worry about what others will say because very few will confront a group rather than an individual.
You can also match gear, and make it a theme, and each of you breaks out something fun! Plus, this creates a shared experience where you can feed off each other’s confidence. If you or one of your friends starts to express doubt, the others can encourage them to stick with the plan and do it, because they are not alone.
Imagine six guys going to the beach. They look like ordinary guys, in tees/tanks, shorts, and sunglasses. Then, all of a sudden, the shirts and shorts come off, and instead of feeling on full display, you have a great day with friends who all look like you. That is power right here; it’s almost like a brotherhood that bonds you. It will soon become something normal for all of you!
Gym Strategy for Beginners
The gym can be scary for numerous reasons. As someone who wishes I had time to join a gym and get in better shape, it’s anxiety-inducing to me. Walking into a place where there are buff bods and everyone knows what they are doing, when I couldn’t tell you what most machines do in the gym. Add on the anxiety from wearing spandex, and it can be panic attack territory.
When I was younger and in much better shape, I used to wear singlets and tees, spandex tights, thongs under my spandex, and more. I was bold as fuck back then. Now I’m not so confident in wearing those to the gym. I have issues with these things as well. But we both have a way to make this happen.
· Wear darker colors – if you are going to wear spandex, wear tights that are black, navy, or similar dark/classic colors. It won’t draw attention to the spandex, and probably most people won’t notice what you are wearing.
· As you get comfortable, add in a racing stripe or some color. I’m not saying rock the vintage ’90s Nike Tights, but just buy things you feel comfortable wearing and being seen in. You may never reach the point where you put on the neon striped tights, but if you do, rock it and own it. It’s about building that confidence over time.
Addressing the Fear Directly
Let’s address it if the worst happens. If someone comments, complains, or even your own doubts get into your head. The last is normal, and I face it all the time.
· What does someone look like? People look at others; sometimes it’s just people watching, with no judgment intended. In fact, some may go, well, he looks great in those. We need to imagine the good comments as well.
· People are going to judge me – Most people just don’t care, and those who will judge you have their own insecurities that make them judgmental. So if they say something, just say thanks for your opinion and move on; don’t let their opinion dampen your confidence.
· I don’t have the perfect body – Let’s be frank, guys, even if they are fitness models or bodybuilders, they have issues with their bodies as well. I know very few people who are happy with their bodies; we always point out the flaws that no one else sees. I am totally guilty of this all the time. We need to be kinder to ourselves, myself included.
The Bigger Theme: Masculinity & Shame
Let’s take on the big topic here: masculinity and shame. Why is it that we, as men, are taught to hide ourselves and not feel like sexual beings? Women can be objectified and wear sexy clothes, but men are supposed to be stoic and not wear anything that makes them stand out. I love it when I feel sexy in what I am wearing, and it makes me so confident.
One thing I’m constantly tired of hearing in our society today is “A real man wouldn’t…” To that, I say a real man would do whatever the fuck he wants. He doesn’t care what you think about him, his sexuality, or his masculinity. He’s comfortable in who he is. Instead of policing me for not being manly enough, we need to encourage men to be their authentic selves.
Lastly, there is the clothing double standard. When you go to Miami and see all the women in thongs, no one bats an eye; in fact, it’s encouraged that they wear as little as possible. But when a man wears a similar cut, he’s being vulgar, a show off, and feminine. Clothes do not define sexuality, masculinity, or femininity. It’s just fabric, and it’s up to the person wearing it to define what it means for them.
Breaking this down further, there are things gay and straight men face that are different. On the gay side, we have the “we need the perfect body.” That is, we must have abs, pecs, and perfect everything. And the toxic masculinity comes into play here as well. The whole “masc4masc” and no femms come to mind. If you know, you know. We still face these issues that have plagued the community for years. I think gay men can have some of the most toxic masculinity ideals of any other group.
As for straight men, they face a challenge that, because they are wearing something “not masculine,” their sexuality should be questioned. As if wearing sexy undies or tight spandex will turn one gay. And this is their way of coming out, when in fact it’s their way to express what they like and enjoy. It’s frustrating that guys have to go through either of these situations. It’s time we set our own rules and not follow stifling rules imposed by others.
FREE THE BULGE
This summer, Free the Bulge. Wear that brief to the gym you’ve been putting off. Skip putting those shorts over your spandex; wear that Speedo/thong you have been dying to wear. It is just taking up space for that “one day” you will wear it. Make today the day you wear it. Lastly, showing up in any of these is showing up as yourself. It shows the world that you enjoy your choices and are confident in them.
I would love to hear your experiences with taking that first step to wear what you love! It could have happened 20 years ago or 20 minutes ago. There is no shame in when it happened; all that matters is that it happened. Or if you haven’t done it, share with me why you haven’t. I am here to listen and encourage you to take that next step. I won’t judge you or make you feel less than because you didn’t do it yet; the time wasn’t right for you. Let’s find that right time and make it happen.
Depending on the feedback, I may include this in the podcast. I think these stories are some of the most empowering we have to tell. Even admitting you’re anxious about doing it is power. Let’s build an amazing, supportive community. Here’s what we can do to make that happen:
· Support – when someone does something for the first time, congratulations are in order. Also post postiive comments on social media for guys taking risks and pushing the envelope.
· Share – Share your own story. I don’t think we open up about our insecurities and anxiety often enough. Let’s get rid of the shame and let people in the future not think about this, and just do it.
· Lead by Example – if you already have the courage, lead by example and show yourself in situations that others may find difficult. Like the only guy in a speedo on eeh beach. Wearing bold colored tights to the gym, or that hot lace thong under your business suit. Confidence is contagious and will spread.
Let me know your thoughts, and let’s keep building this community bigger and better.
Let me introduce you to the pair that made me stop scrolling.
You already know I can’t resist shiny, bold underwear. If it glows, shimmers, or looks like liquid metal, I’m in. The new N2N BODY GLOSS TITAN SPORT is seriously hot.
This collection features a slick, high-gloss finish that shines from every angle. It’s bold, confident, and made to stand out. The fit uses their special pouch system to keep everything lifted and front and center, so you get a strong, sculpted look without losing comfort.
What sets this pair apart is its modern codpiece-inspired pouch. It’s bold, daring, and true to N2N’s style. The elastic inner support adds structure, and the snap-front detail brings an edgy, playful touch. It’s designed to enhance but also moves with you.
This underwear isn’t for blending in. It’s made to turn heads and make a statement.
If you love underwear that’s glossy, bold, and a bit daring, the BODY GLOSS TITAN SPORT will be tough to pass up. Get ready to shine.
This is a full bodysuit. It’s not a gimmick or a costume. It’s a sleek, performance-focused piece that makes a statement from head to toe. The suit hugs and smooths in all the right places, and you feel taller as soon as you zip it up. It’s athletic, bold, and unapologetic.
I’m honestly blown away by it.
You guys know I love great spandex. I love compression that actually compresses. I love gear that looks hot but still feels functional. This hits all of that. It’s the kind of piece you wear to train hard, show off a little, or just remind yourself that confidence is part of the uniform.
And yes, I want this suit. Probably just as much as you do.
Hung Out Dry keeps finding that balance where performance meets style without ever feeling forced. The Based Suit feels thoughtfully designed. It has clean lines, a strong silhouette, no extra details—just pure power.
If you’ve been looking for something different, something that feels both protective and inviting, this could be the one.
Now, excuse me while I figure out how many I need.
Quick heads up: Timoteo Tight End Swimmer Jock just dropped and it’s exactly what I didn’t know I needed. This sleek, streamlined swim jock takes classic jockstrap energy and turns it into something you want to show off at the pool, the beach, or anytime you want to make a statement.
It’s built with a supportive mesh pouch and solid elastic that hugs your shape just right. The minimalist vibe lets what matters be the focus. It has a bold but simple look that feels timeless yet fresh. Honestly, I’m blown away by how good it looks.
I want this jock. Probably as much as you do.
If you’ve been waiting for that piece that feels like confidence when you put it on, this might be the one.
We take you back to February 2022 with this amazing pic from Modus Vivendi. They have such amazing pictures and always deliver. I hope we see a lot more of them in the coming year.
Deep-fitting bikini that hugs the built body with slim sides Army design & mesh material Billpan bikini. GX3 makes some great undies with a touch of mesh.
If you love skimpy, there is no better brand than Egde Japan, they are known for their small and revealing pairs of underwear. This is the REBOOT RE SAVERS super low-rise swim bikini. Now if you are bold enough to rock this, wear it proudly.
