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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Jake, a lifelong male thong enthusiast and moderator of the subreddit ‘Straight Guys and Thongs.’ Jake shares his journey of self-acceptance and the importance of community for men who enjoy wearing thongs. The conversation delves into the challenges of discussing thong-wearing with partners, the double standards in societal acceptance of male and female swimwear, and the significance of finding a supportive community. Jake emphasizes the need for men to embrace their preferences and encourages open discussions about body positivity and self-expression.

Takeaways

  • Jake is a lifelong male thong enthusiast who found community on Reddit.
  • The subreddit ‘Straight Guys and Thongs’ serves as a hub for men who enjoy wearing thongs.
  • Jake became a moderator to help maintain the subreddit and support its members.
  • He encourages men to be open about their thong-wearing preferences with their partners.
  • There is a double standard in societal acceptance of thong-wearing between genders.
  • Jake believes that men have the right to feel sexy in their clothing choices.
  • He emphasizes the importance of acceptance from partners regarding thong-wearing.
  • Jake shares his personal experiences of thonging at various beaches.
  • The community provides a sense of belonging for men who feel isolated in their preferences.
  • Jake advocates for breaking down stereotypes associated with men wearing thongs.

Titles

  • Celebrating Body Positivity: Men in Thongs
  • Challenging Gender Norms: Thongs for Everyone

Sound Bites

  • “I’m a lifelong male thong enthusiast.”
  • “The subreddit is called Straight Guys and Thongs.”
  • “Men have just as much right to look and feel sexy.”

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It seems like the site Leon runs (yes, that’s on purpose) is becoming a ghost town for gear guys. When I go through my feed, I see fewer posts from guys I used to interact with regularly. I have been trying to get guys to move to BlueSky for a few months, and I wanted to share a few things that differ from Twitter. 

Spicy Content is ok!

Spicy content is okay, but when you post it, you can select whether it’s nudity, suggestive, or adult. Note that you only see this once you upload media (picture or video). If you forget to do this, BlueSky will automatically label it. You didn’t have to do this on Twitter, but it’s one of the quirks here. You can also set your profile to view spicy content as well automatically. To do this: 

  • Go under Settings
  • Click Moderation 
  • Scroll down till you see “Content Filters.”
  • Then, you can select which you want to see:
    • Adult Content
    • Sexually Suggestive
    • Graphic Media
    • Non-sexual Nudity

This is where the labels mentioned above come into play. They aren’t there to limit or censor people; they make sure those who want to see spicy or graphic content can see it, and those who don’t won’t. 

Now that you signed up for BlueSky, how do you find people to follow? There are several ways to find others. 

  • Sky Follower Bridge—If you use a Chrome browser (including Edge), this extension is a quick way to find people you follow on Twitter. Granted, if you haven’t deactivated your account already, you follow the instructions. The extension will show you people, and you can follow them directly from the extension. Note that it’s not perfect; if some names match on both services, it’s not the same person. 
  • Starter Packs—You will see this a lot on BlueSky. Each person can create a Starter Pack listing people others suggest you follow. I recommend everyone create one. My Starter Pack is o.bsky.app/CG6HpBA. To make one (or several), go to your profile and click the “starter pack” at the top. It’s simple to create and share. As mentioned above, you can share as many as you like. 
  • Lists—I have created lists for “Underwear, Spandex, Kink, Brief Talk Studs” (our podcast, guys) that you can follow and find many of the guys you know on Twitter. It’s a work in progress, and I add to it daily. 
  • Feeds—Feeds are new, and I’m trying to figure them out. You can follow many feeds created. I’m trying to figure out how to do a gear-centric feed, but I haven’t had time to do so yet. 

Some Basic posting information you guys might find helpful is: 

  • Pictures – You can post pictures just like any other social site. 
  • Videos – This is relatively new to BlueSky; the videos must be under 60 seconds. They will add longer videos soon; I am unsure if it will be paid or a free service. 
  • DMs – just like other services, you can direct message people and turn it on or off. 
  • Threads—I don’t think they are available yet. A thread is a series of linked posts. I didn’t see the option; if I am wrong, someone will correct me. (It appears you need an App to do Threads)

I hope this helps explain the service; while it’s a lot like Twitter, there are some differences. I don’t think any of them are too hard to come over, but navigating if you are new can be confusing! 

If you have any questions, reach out to me on BlueSky. My DMs are open, and I will answer you as soon as possible! Welcome to a place where the skies are bluer and the conversations are better. 

 In this episode, Tim shares a personal update regarding his busy life, including financial challenges and the impact on his podcasting schedule. He discusses various ways listeners can support the podcast, including Patreon, one-off donations, and merchandise purchases. Tim also outlines his future plans for new projects and emphasizes the importance of community engagement, especially in light of recent social media changes. He expresses gratitude for his listeners and reassures them that the podcast will continue to thrive.

Takeaways

  • Tim is currently juggling multiple jobs due to financial difficulties.
  • Listeners can support the podcast through Patreon and one-off donations.
  • Engagement through comments and shares is crucial for growth.
  • Tim is planning to create new shows and collaborate with other podcasters.
  • There is a shift towards using Blue Sky as a preferred social media platform.
  • Tim is open to mentoring new podcasters in the community.
  • The podcast will continue despite current challenges.
  • Tim appreciates the support from Patreon members and listeners.
  • Future plans include in-person shows and new content.
  • Tim emphasizes the importance of community and connection.
  • deleted by the social media site. 

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Over the last few days, I have considered continuing to use Twitter as an active platform. I have been trying to decide whether to focus time on it.

In full transparency, this is not related to the recent events but was further fueled by the owner and what voices are amplified on the platform. I used Twitter to market the UNB store, but since the ownership transition, my efforts on the platform have stayed the same while my results have significantly decreased. I would post and interact well with likes, comments, and shares. Not to mention, clicks to the store have all been reduced to 1-2 likes a post, and there are virtually no clicks on most posts, and the ones that drive traffic are 1-2. At this same time, my referral traffic went from Twitter, the top referer, to falling out of the top 5, and Reddit became the top referring social media site. In September, I dropped all effort for the Unb Store on Twitter.

The following change allows people whom you block to see your posts. This should be a fundamental, essential feature on all social media platforms. I have blocked people I don’t want to see my content or interact with, and their reasoning for this change doesn’t make sense.

The last reason is the ownership and how Twitter is being run. I am going to get political here for a minute: the content that is being pushed on the platform is not in the best interest of a gay man. My vision for the country and the current ownership do not intersect. And I, in good conscience, support a company that is working against the best interests of the LGBT community.

One example is that I recently posted about dumping Twitter on my UNBTIM account, and it got very little interaction. I’m not going to come right out and say the algorithm blocked or made my post less visible, but being a free speech platform, it appears that some speech is more equal than others.

I want to start sending out or sharing undies/gear guys so you know who is on the platform and make it a better community for gear guys. Here is why I think BlueSky is the best alternative

  1. Allows spicy content—Much like Twitter, it allows users to post suggestive and spicy content without fear of having their posts deleted or their accounts banned.
  2. Similar interface – if you are familiar with Twitter, BlueSky is very similar, and there is less of a learning curve. Firmer Twitter Employees created the service, and it has a lot of work and needed features to be implemented, but the recent addition of video and DM makes it a more compelling service
  3. One of BlueSky’s most striking features is its friendliness. Since joining, I’ve noticed a significant reduction in insults and misinformation. This welcoming environment is ideal for building a gear community where everyone feels comfortable and respected.

One key reason for my decision to shift to BlueSky is the company’s stance on social issues. Twitter’s current ownership has supported causes that threaten the rights of LGBT people and people of color. As a member of these communities, I can not in good conscience support a company that does not actively work to protect our rights.

If you do join, send me a DM or public message. I plan on sharing all the gear guys on BlueSky. I want to facilitate building a massive community of guys who love underwear, speedos, spandex, and other gear. By the way, I am UNBTim there before I forget.

Several guys already joined BlueSky, and I hope to see more of you there.

Follow me: UNBTim
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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, the hosts and guests discuss the growing popularity of thongs among men and how to overcome the stigma associated with them. They explore various objections that men have towards wearing thongs, share personal experiences, and highlight the importance of representation in media and retail. The conversation emphasizes the need for more accessible options in mainstream stores and the potential for thongs to become a normalized choice in men’s underwear fashion. In this engaging conversation, the hosts and guests explore the evolving perceptions of thongs, particularly in the context of sports, personal experiences, and societal acceptance. They discuss the growing trend of men wearing thongs, the role of women in purchasing underwear for their partners, and the misconceptions surrounding thongs, including their association with sexuality and comfort. The discussion highlights the importance of comfort and support in underwear choices and emphasizes that thongs can be for everyone, regardless of body type or gender.

Takeaways

  • Thongs are becoming increasingly popular among men.
  • Many men still have objections to wearing thongs, often due to comfort concerns.
  • The stigma surrounding thongs is gradually decreasing as more men wear them.
  • Media representation plays a significant role in shaping perceptions of thongs.
  • Accessibility in retail is crucial for normalizing thong usage among men.
  • Crossover appeal from swimwear to underwear could help normalize thongs.
  • Personal experiences and social media can influence men’s willingness to try thongs.
  • The conversation around men’s underwear needs to be more open and less stigmatized.
  • Brands need to market thongs in a way that appeals to a broader audience.
  • Changing societal norms can lead to greater acceptance of diverse underwear choices. Thongs are becoming more accepted in sports and popular culture.
  • Women are significant consumers of men’s underwear, including thongs.
  • Personal experiences with thongs vary widely among individuals.
  • Acceptance of thongs can differ between genders, with women often being more open-minded.
  • Comfort and support are key benefits of wearing thongs.
  • Misconceptions about thongs often stem from outdated stereotypes.
  • Thongs can be worn by anyone, regardless of body type.
  • The market for thongs is expanding, with more options available.
  • Understanding and communication are essential in discussing underwear preferences.
  • The conversation around thongs is evolving, reflecting broader societal changes.

Titles

  • Thongs: Not Just for Women Anymore!
  • The Thong Revolution: Comfort Meets Style Personal Stories: Embracing Thongs
  • The Acceptance of Thongs Among Women

Sound Bites

  • “How do we get them interested in thongs?”
  • “Thongs are for everybody, not just for girls.”
  • “Isn’t that uncomfortable?”
  • “OnlyFans is not just for everyday people.”
  • “Your underwear doesn’t define your sexuality.”
  • “Women like butts too.”

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In this episode of the Brief Talks podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Alex and Chris, producers of the unique musical ‘Undressed,’ which features improvised performances in underwear. The conversation explores the show’s inception, the dynamics of audience participation, the diverse cast, and the themes of body positivity and improvisation in live performances. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights into the creative process behind the show, emphasizing the fun and spontaneity of musical improv. In this engaging conversation, Alex and Unb Tim explore themes of vulnerability, body positivity, and the unique experiences of performing in underwear. They discuss the evolution of their personal relationships with body image and underwear, the importance of health and personal growth, and the dynamics of their theatrical performances. The conversation also touches on the logistics of their shows, sponsorship opportunities, and the excitement of connecting with audiences in New York City.

Takeaways

  • The show ‘Undressed’ is an improvised musical performed in underwear.
  • Audience participation is a key element, with stories provided by the audience.
  • Each performance is unique and cannot be replicated.
  • The cast is diverse in body types and backgrounds, enhancing the show’s appeal.
  • Body positivity plays a significant role in the performers’ experiences.
  • Improvisation allows for spontaneous creativity during performances.
  • The live band contributes to the musical experience, improvising alongside the cast.
  • The show has been running for about a year and plans to tour in the future.
  • Performing in underwear becomes a non-issue once on stage.
  • The show aims to create a supportive and fun environment for both performers and audience. Embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth.
  • Body positivity is a universal struggle, regardless of body type.
  • Underwear choices can reflect personal style and self-acceptance.
  • Health journeys often involve significant lifestyle changes.
  • Theater can be a platform for exploring deeper themes of identity.
  • Sponsorship opportunities can enhance theatrical productions.
  • Performing in underwear challenges societal norms around body image.
  • The importance of community and support in the performing arts.
  • Planning shows in accessible locations can increase audience engagement.
  • Theater offers a unique blend of entertainment and personal expression.

Titles

  • Meet the Diverse Cast of ‘Undressed’
  • Undressed: A Unique Musical Experience Underwear: More Than Just a Garment
  • Body Positivity: A Journey of Self-Acceptance

Sound Bites

  • “It’s a musical and it’s about underwear.”
  • “We actually make it up on the spot.”
  • “Every show is unique. You’re going to see a one of a kind show.”
  • “I want to do the show. That’s right up my alley.”
  • “I’m not super ingrained in like the gay naked scene.”
  • “Everyone hates something about their body.”

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In a recent episode of the Brief Talk After Dark podcast, UNB Tim dives deep into the intriguing world of sports gear fetish with Zac, a content creator with a shared passion for the scene. Their conversation explores the allure of sports gear, the personal journeys that led them to embrace it, and the nuanced relationship between kink, self-expression, and the LGBTQ+ community.

Getting into Gear:
Zac reveals that his fascination with gear began in his youth, shaped by his experiences in high school sports. For him, sports were more than a hobby—they offered a way to explore masculinity and connect with his sexuality. He reflects on the sense of community and camaraderie that came with being around teammates and the appeal of jock culture, describing how gear became an extension of his identity.

The Connection between Kink and Gear:
Tim and Zac explore how sports gear ties into broader aspects of kink. For Zac, it’s not just about the gear itself but also the power dynamics and dominant/submissive roles it can symbolize. They discuss how sports gear offers an unconventional way for men to express their kinks while navigating society’s often rigid views on masculinity.

Gear Collections and Managing “Storage Problems”:
The duo shares humorous anecdotes about their growing collections. While Zac admits to needing a storage system for various pieces like jockstraps, socks, and jerseys, Tim finds a unique satisfaction in shopping for items that blur the line between sportswear and fetish wear.

Finding Authentic Connection in the Kink Community:
They highlight the importance of friendship and shared interests within the kink world, stressing that it’s not always about sex. For Zac, the best part of being active in this community is finding friends who respect boundaries and understand the complexities of kink.

Creating Content and Building a Niche:
The episode concludes with Zac sharing how he and his partner Austin turned their passion for sports gear into a successful content venture. Choosing a niche allowed them to connect with a like-minded audience, while also strengthening their relationship. Through humor, candid discussions, and shared experiences, Tim and Zac offer listeners a glimpse into a world where kink is both a personal journey and a bridge to community