If you are all about comfort and underwear that makes you feel amazing, then Ergowear is the brand for you. They have four different pouches that will give you the support you crave and need. Check out all the Ergowear at the UNB Store.
Did you hear our BodySuit show featuring John from BodyAware? One new Bodysuits is the ribbed thong bodysuit. You can get this directly from the BodyAware site. This post contains an affiliate link
The SHEER X is BACK! N2N’s most sexy and scandalous underwear collection EVER! Our full-on see-thru, super soft and stretchy micro-mesh bikini with uber thin waist will make you wanna raise your COCK-tail and celebrate this fabulous holiday season!
I went to work and when I came home I found out that Skin Fit is going out of business at the end of the year. This was a shock to me, I never bought any (due to my height) but everyone I know, including the Bricklayers, loved SkinFit. If you have waited to get some now is your time. Do it before it’s too late.
Even Egde Japan has singlets, they are going world wide and if you look close in the pic you can make out a bikini or thong under the singlet.
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In this episode of the Brief Talks podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Alex and Chris, producers of the unique musical ‘Undressed,’ which features improvised performances in underwear. The conversation explores the show’s inception, the dynamics of audience participation, the diverse cast, and the themes of body positivity and improvisation in live performances. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights into the creative process behind the show, emphasizing the fun and spontaneity of musical improv. In this engaging conversation, Alex and Unb Tim explore themes of vulnerability, body positivity, and the unique experiences of performing in underwear. They discuss the evolution of their personal relationships with body image and underwear, the importance of health and personal growth, and the dynamics of their theatrical performances. The conversation also touches on the logistics of their shows, sponsorship opportunities, and the excitement of connecting with audiences in New York City.
Takeaways
- The show ‘Undressed’ is an improvised musical performed in underwear.
- Audience participation is a key element, with stories provided by the audience.
- Each performance is unique and cannot be replicated.
- The cast is diverse in body types and backgrounds, enhancing the show’s appeal.
- Body positivity plays a significant role in the performers’ experiences.
- Improvisation allows for spontaneous creativity during performances.
- The live band contributes to the musical experience, improvising alongside the cast.
- The show has been running for about a year and plans to tour in the future.
- Performing in underwear becomes a non-issue once on stage.
- The show aims to create a supportive and fun environment for both performers and audience. Embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth.
- Body positivity is a universal struggle, regardless of body type.
- Underwear choices can reflect personal style and self-acceptance.
- Health journeys often involve significant lifestyle changes.
- Theater can be a platform for exploring deeper themes of identity.
- Sponsorship opportunities can enhance theatrical productions.
- Performing in underwear challenges societal norms around body image.
- The importance of community and support in the performing arts.
- Planning shows in accessible locations can increase audience engagement.
- Theater offers a unique blend of entertainment and personal expression.
Titles
- Meet the Diverse Cast of ‘Undressed’
- Undressed: A Unique Musical Experience Underwear: More Than Just a Garment
- Body Positivity: A Journey of Self-Acceptance
Sound Bites
- “It’s a musical and it’s about underwear.”
- “We actually make it up on the spot.”
- “Every show is unique. You’re going to see a one of a kind show.”
- “I want to do the show. That’s right up my alley.”
- “I’m not super ingrained in like the gay naked scene.”
- “Everyone hates something about their body.”
Links:
- Website
- https://www.undressedmusical.com/
- NOTE – if reading this after the show has dropped, sometimes account get deleted by the social media site.
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Ergoewar makes some of the most amazing pouches on the market. If you haven’t tried them, I hope yo will get a pair or two and try out the Max or X3D fouches.
The Todd Sanfield micro brief is designed to have a strong sex appeal. With the minimal design, shaped cut, and premium, flexible fabric, they were able to produce a sophisticated, masculine brief that comfortably form-fits to your body.
In a recent episode of the Brief Talk After Dark podcast, UNB Tim dives deep into the intriguing world of sports gear fetish with Zac, a content creator with a shared passion for the scene. Their conversation explores the allure of sports gear, the personal journeys that led them to embrace it, and the nuanced relationship between kink, self-expression, and the LGBTQ+ community.
Getting into Gear:
Zac reveals that his fascination with gear began in his youth, shaped by his experiences in high school sports. For him, sports were more than a hobby—they offered a way to explore masculinity and connect with his sexuality. He reflects on the sense of community and camaraderie that came with being around teammates and the appeal of jock culture, describing how gear became an extension of his identity.
The Connection between Kink and Gear:
Tim and Zac explore how sports gear ties into broader aspects of kink. For Zac, it’s not just about the gear itself but also the power dynamics and dominant/submissive roles it can symbolize. They discuss how sports gear offers an unconventional way for men to express their kinks while navigating society’s often rigid views on masculinity.
Gear Collections and Managing “Storage Problems”:
The duo shares humorous anecdotes about their growing collections. While Zac admits to needing a storage system for various pieces like jockstraps, socks, and jerseys, Tim finds a unique satisfaction in shopping for items that blur the line between sportswear and fetish wear.
Finding Authentic Connection in the Kink Community:
They highlight the importance of friendship and shared interests within the kink world, stressing that it’s not always about sex. For Zac, the best part of being active in this community is finding friends who respect boundaries and understand the complexities of kink.
Creating Content and Building a Niche:
The episode concludes with Zac sharing how he and his partner Austin turned their passion for sports gear into a successful content venture. Choosing a niche allowed them to connect with a like-minded audience, while also strengthening their relationship. Through humor, candid discussions, and shared experiences, Tim and Zac offer listeners a glimpse into a world where kink is both a personal journey and a bridge to community
There are two things that I love in underwear. Well, there are more than two, but this new pair from N2N Bodywear has two things that are always top of my list. First, Bikinis are my favorite style. I love the way they fit and feel on. Second, Modal is the best for hot climates and being active. It breathes with you. Check out the N2N Micro Modal Bikini.
MODUS VIVENDI Introduces the Fur Line and the “Otherwise Romance” Campaign for FW 24/25 Collection
MODUS VIVENDI is excited to unveil its latest Fur Line from the Fall/Winter 2024/2025 Collection, blending timeless luxury with bold, contemporary designs. The collection embraces winter with a striking palette of black and white, featuring fur accents on both underwear and apparel.
Accompanying the launch is the “Otherwise Romance” campaign, a romantic, gothic exploration of sensuality and style. The campaign showcases a man adorned in elegant fur designs that echo the cool, stark contrasts of winter nights. Shot in black and white, the imagery evokes a mysterious allure, capturing the essence of romance in a goth-inspired atmosphere.
The Fur Line redefines winterwear, focusing on comfort and opulence. The pieces are crafted to elevate both your loungewear and streetwear wardrobe, offering fur-trimmed underwear and apparel for those who seek warmth without compromising on style.
Incorporating luxurious textures, the collection includes black and white fur accents on signature pieces that embody a minimalist yet daring aesthetic. Whether worn to lounge or layer, these designs reflect the MODUS VIVENDI ethos of high-quality craftsmanship paired with fashion-forward vision.
The “Otherwise Romance” campaign draws inspiration from gothic romance, weaving a narrative of intimacy, darkness, and the allure of the night. Shot against moody, dreamlike backdrops, the visuals feature sleek fur-trimmed garments in monochrome tones, highlighting the contrast between light and shadow. The campaign embodies the power of individuality, merging vulnerability and strength through a modern, romantic lens.
The man featured in the campaign is the epitome of enigmatic elegance. The fur, a symbol of warmth and protection, paired with the starkness of black and white, creates an aesthetic that is both inviting and untouchable. It’s a celebration of contrasts—softness and strength, passion and restraint—perfect for the winter season.
Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s FW 24/25 Collection, available now for purchase on www.e-modusvivendi.com. For more information about the line and the campaign, please contact us at marketing@e-modusvivendi.com.
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Panos Misailidis
Model
Anestis Vasilleiadis
Location
Thessaloniki, Greece
2EROS wnats you to have an adventure in their swimwear. We agree this year and wnt you to rock your swim briefs or thongs anywhere and everywhere this year! Make 2025 the year you bring out the smaller swimwear and rock it like you own it.
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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim interviews John, an underwear enthusiast with an impressive collection of 1,400 pairs. They discuss John’s journey of discovering his love for underwear, the evolution of his preferences, and how travel influences his collection. John shares insights on the underwear market, customer service experiences, and his current favorite brands. The conversation also touches on John’s personal life, including his husband’s views on his collection, and concludes with recommendations for listeners.
Takeaways
- John has a collection of 1,400 pairs of underwear.
- He discovered his love for underwear at a young age.
- Traveling allows him to explore new underwear stores.
- He enjoys the interaction with people about underwear.
- John prefers bikinis, briefs, and thongs over loose boxers.
- He values customer service and brand loyalty.
- Todd Sanfield’s customer service is exceptional.
- John’s husband is not into underwear but supports his collection.
- He has around 200 new pairs that he hasn’t worn yet.
- Underwear tourism is a fun way to collect unique pieces.
Titles
- From Tighty-Whities to Thongs
- Navigating the Underwear Market
Sound Bites
- “I have 1,400 pairs of underwear!”
- “Underwear tourism is a thing!”
Links:
- Instagram
- https://www.instagram.com/undiesrfun/
- NOTE – if reading this after the show has dropped, sometimes account get deleted by the social media site.
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In a recent episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, hosted by UNB Tim, a captivating conversation unfolded with TimSwitch, a Canadian model who is carving out a space for himself in the world of underwear modeling. His journey is compelling by intertwining self-discovery, overcoming physical and emotional challenges, and his passion for self-expression through underwear fashion. His story speaks to the power of embracing one’s body and one’sng confidence in the unlikeliest of places—starting with the perfect pair of briefs.
A Path to Confidence After Setbacks
TimSwitch, 33, shared that he got into modeling recently, spurred on by a personal recovery journey from a severe spinal injury. His search for a way to regain confidence and self-assurance paralleled the long road to physical recovery. Modeling provided him with that outlet, allowing him to reclaim a sense of physical strength and embrace his body through the lens of fashion and photography.
Modeling became more than just a job for him; it became a way to rebuild his confidence after such a challenging experience. He expressed that wearing underwear gave him a heightened sense of self-esteem. The soft material and the supportive cuts of his favorite pieces, like jocks and low-cut briefs, added to the overall experience of feeling good in his skin.
The Appeal of Quality Underwear
When asked about his favorite type of underwear, Tim Switch didn’t hesitate to express his love for jockstraps and low-cut briefs. For him, it’s not just how they look but how they feel. He emphasized the importance of comfort, noting that nothing compares to the feeling of slipping into a high-quality pair of underwear. He’s a strong advocate for thick, structured waistbands, which enhance a pair of briefs’ overall comfort and durability.
While many men have strong preferences for or against waistbands, TimSwitch clarifies that a suitable waistband adds value by providing comfort without being overly restrictive. His journey in modeling has exposed him to various brands and styles, helping him refine his taste for underwear that doesn’t substitute for style. He mentioned that he prefers colorful and bold designs, with bright yellows and greens among his favorites. For TimSwitch, the brighter, the better—an idea that resonates with his outlook on life.
The Emotional Toll of Loss
The conversation also delved into a more personal chapter of TimSwitch’s lifTimSwitch’sment fire that destroyed nearly everything he owned, including his beloved underwear collection. He was left with only the pair he was wearing at the time of the fire. Reflecting on this event, he described the emotional weight of losing everything and the challenge of rebuilding not just his physical belongings but his emotional resilience.
Despite the devastation, TimSwitch maintains a remarkably positive outlook. He emphasizes the importance of finding silver linings and keeping a positive attitude even when life throws unexpected challenges your way. His story of loss, resilience, and his journey back to confidence in his modeling career inspires anyone struggling with setbacks.
Navigating Content Creation
Another exciting aspect of TimSwitch’s carTimSwitch’srole as an online content creator, which has given him a deeper understanding of the complexities of managing a personal brand in today’s digitaltoday’shile some might view modeling and content creation as glamorous jobs, TimSwitch highlights the hard work, logistics, and legal complexities involved. He primarily uses platforms like LoyalFans and Sex Panther to share his work, explaining that OnlyFans doesn’t meet doesn’t due to its limitations around content safety and terms of service.
His insight into the nuanced world of online content creation was eye-opening. He discussed the challenges of producing “spicy” content,” navigating” rules and staying compliant with platform policies. It’s not as simple as just uploading a few photos; it involves understanding legal contracts, promoting work, and maintaining a professional image.
Embracing Authenticity and Individuality
One of the most striking aspects of the conversation was TimSwitch’s appTimSwitch’sdividuality and self-expression. Whether it’s through his underwear choices or his bold decision to share his journey publicly, he embraces his authentic self. He makes no apologies for the career he has chosen, and he encourages others to do the same. His advice is to embrace what makes you feel good and confident, whether a vibrant pair of underwear or deciding to pursue a path that defies societal norms.
The podcast ended with UNB Tim praising TimSwitch for his resilience, creativity, and positive energy. It was clear that TimSwitch was growing, discovering, and on an ongoing journey toward self-expression and confidence.
Conclusion
TimSwitch’s Brief Talk Podcast is a testament to the power of finding confidence through adversity. From overcoming a spinal injury to rebuilding after a devastating fire, his journey has been marked by resilience. His modeling career, combined with his passion for comfortable and bold underwear, has allowed him to turn a simple item of clothing into a form of personal empowerment. Whether you’re a fan ofyou’reut briefs or jocks or love a great waistband, TimSwitch’s stoTimSwitch’sus that fashion is more than just fabric—it’s about how it makes us feel.
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I love the designs that Egde Japan has and the amazing cuts they have. This bikini is one I would love to wear this Is the LEEP BIKINI Color:Volcano
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Hey everyone, I’m currently juggling three jobs. I know it’s a lot, but I’m doing what I have to do. I’m looking for a full-time job again, but I haven’t had any success so far. I’ve been going to interviews, but I haven’t received any offers yet. (That’s a whole other story I won’t bore you with.)
I’ve been thinking about the direction of UNB since it’s just me, and my time is limited. I’ll be writing more in-depth about the podcast topics we cover. Don’t worry, I’ll still showcase some of the newest underwear, but considering my time constraints, I think this is the best solution. Plus, I can delve deep into topics I want to cover and share my opinions.
I’m moving away from the more journalistic approach that UNB has taken and toward a more personal and opinion-based approach. I’m creating a positive space for underwear guys to come together and share in a place that understands and supports them.
In the past few weeks, I’ve been physically and mentally drained of creativity. It’s not burnout; it’s just that there’s so much going on that when I get home, I crash. I’m constantly coming up with ideas and topics for podcasts and posts, but implementing them is impossible with my schedule.
Speaking of implementation, I’m trying not to podcast much in December since it will be hectic. I’ve already recorded a lot and plan to record more this month. Don’t worry about me skipping weeks without shows; I’ll have plenty.
Also, I want to hear what topics you guys want us to discuss. I have a fantastic group of regulars, which makes me really happy. They have so many diverse views and opinions. I’ll always be adding more guys too.
I’ll also keep you up to date.
We are in the middle of a Presidential election and it’s time to be patriotic, wear some patriotic briefs to the polls. Wear the Liberty String bikinis.
MODUS VIVENDI Launches Corduroy Line from FW 24/25 Collection: The Perfect Fusion of Timeless Minimalism and Futuristic Appeal.
MODUS VIVENDI is excited to announce the launch of Corduroy Line, a standout feature in the Fall-Winter 2024/2025 Collection. The campaign, named “Futuristic Simplicity”, draws inspiration from the seamless merging of past and future, creating an aesthetic that speaks to the modern man seeking style, comfort, and versatility.
The Corduroy Line redefines simplicity with a futuristic twist, featuring a refined selection of corduroy designs in velvet-like fabric with bold relief stripes that add a textural element to every piece. These designs come in monochromatic tones of black, grey, and off-white, offering a sophisticated palette that complements any wardrobe. This collection isn’t just about fabric—it’s about creating a tactile experience that combines the rich softness of velvet with the timeless allure of corduroy, providing unmatched comfort and sleek style.
The Corduroy Line was created for the man who values understated elegance without compromising on comfort. The relief detail in the fabric gives each piece a subtle, yet impactful look that is both modern and timeless. Our goal was to design garments that feel as luxurious as they look, while remaining versatile enough to adapt to any occasion.
Key Features of the Corduroy Line:
· Velvet-like corduroy with relief stripes for a textured, luxurious feel
· Monochromatic black, grey, and off-white
· Minimalistic, futuristic, and versatile
· Soft and form-fitting, designed to enhance your silhouette while ensuring ease of movement
Whether it’s the sharp cuts of the jackets, the tailored feel of the pants, or the relaxed elegance of the tops, every design in the Corduroy Line is crafted to provide both structure and fluidity. Each piece wraps the body in softness, enhancing your silhouette while offering freedom of movement.
The campaign imagery showcases a bold vision of the future—clean, minimalist, and distinctly modern—featuring model styled in sleek corduroy outfits that bridge the gap between contemporary and futuristic fashion. The luxurious textures, combined with the monochromatic hues of black, grey, and off-white, offer endless styling possibilities, whether paired with bold accessories or worn as stand-alone statement pieces.
As part of the Fall-Winter 24/25 Collection, the Corduroy Line highlights MODUS VIVENDI’s commitment to creating garments that follow today’s trends while standing the test of time. This collection promises to become a cornerstone for men who want to embrace both minimalism and luxury. The “Futuristic Simplicity” campaign embodies the spirit of a man connected to the present but looking ahead to the future.
Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s FW 24/25 Collection, available now for purchase on www.e-modusvivendi.com. For more information about the line and the campaign, please contact us at marketing@e-modusvivendi.com.
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Panos Misailidis
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Fanourios Papaleon
Location
Thessaloniki, Greece
Candyman is all about trying something outside your comfort zone. I have a few of the body suits and have loved them so much. It’s a mix of the masc and fem and it goes together so well. Check them out and enjoy this playful brand.
I think you def should have fetish gear that reflects your personality. I am so glad we are seeing lots of colors and designs come into the world of Fetish wear. One company that blows me away is Sparta’s Harness, they make gear that will reflect any guys personality.
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In this episode of the Brief Talk podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes John from BodyAware to discuss the rising popularity of bodysuits among men. They explore John’s background in the underwear industry, the fun and challenges of photoshoots, and the practical benefits of bodysuits. The conversation delves into the evolution of men’s underwear fashion, breaking gender norms in gym attire, and the differences between BodyAware and X-Dress bodysuits. John shares customer feedback and preferences, and they discuss the future of bodysuits and new designs. The episode concludes with a special promotion for listeners. Use code UNB20 till October 23rd
Takeaways
- Bodysuits are gaining popularity among men for their comfort and style.
- John has over 10 years of experience in the underwear industry.
- Photoshoots for bodysuits can be challenging but fun.
- Bodysuits offer practical benefits like staying tucked in.
- The sexy side of bodysuits is becoming more accepted.
- Men are increasingly exploring lingerie and bodysuits.
- Bodysuits can be worn in various settings, including the gym.
- BodyAware and X-Dress offer different styles of bodysuits.
- Customer feedback is essential for product development.
- The bodysuit market is expanding with new designs and trends.
Titles
- The Sexy Side of Bodysuits
- Bodysuits: Comfort Meets Style
Sound Bites
- “This is my first pod experience in any arena.”
- “Bodysuits are amazing!”
- “You can rock and roll with it.”
Links:
- Bodyaware
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If you have been blessed by junk in the trunk and a bulging pouch, Hunk men’s wear new thongs are for you. It’s for the guy who has front and back. This is the PrismaCroc Hybrid thong that will show off all your assets.
I’ve been more active on my Twitter this year, sharing more photos than ever before. In my younger days, I used to post pictures of myself in various stages of undress and underwear all over the internet. However, over the past decade, I gained weight and started feeling bad about myself. I hated the way I looked and didn’t feel attractive when I looked in the mirror.
I know that I’ve posted pictures and received positive responses from guys, but I wasn’t happy with the way I looked. I know many of you out there can relate. Whether you’re in great shape or struggling with weight like me, we all have our issues, and let’s face it: I still have mine. These issues won’t just disappear overnight.
In January 2024, I was diagnosed with pre-diabetes and had to decide whether to make changes now or deal with serious consequences later. I chose to make changes now and focus on my health to avoid potential problems in the future. I have family members with diabetes, and I’ve seen the impact it can have on the body. I decided to let this diagnosis motivate me rather than scare me, knowing that it’s possible to reverse these conditions. It hasn’t been easy, but I know that I’m doing this for myself and not for anyone else.
I’ve set a goal for myself, and I’m proud to say that I’ve already lost 60 pounds and dropped three pants sizes. This is a significant achievement, but my main goal is to maintain this progress and reach my target weight of 225 pounds. At 6’4″, I believe this is a healthy weight for me. I started at 337 pounds and I’m currently at 270. As Lady Gaga says, “I’m on the right track, baby.”
One of the biggest victories for me has been switching from XL to Large underwear (in most major American brands). While it’s bittersweet to outgrow my favorite clothes, I’m excited about being able to wear new brands that I couldn’t fit into before.
I still don’t take as many photos as Stevie or others on the podcast. I admit, I’m not great at taking selfies. JD, who has been on the podcast, says I can improve, but it takes practice. I appreciate the positive feedback I receive when I post photos, but I still struggle with seeing myself as an overweight guy who doesn’t look good in anything. Will this change? I don’t know, but I hope it will as things move in a better direction.
I also want to address how other issues can affect body image. I have a lot of stress in my life, with two part-time jobs and the search for a full-time job. Dealing with underemployment is stressful, and when I add body image concerns to the mix, it becomes all-consuming. I tend to hyper-focus on my body because it’s something I feel I can change, and it distracts me from other problems. Is this healthy? Probably not, but it’s a habit I’ve developed. When the rest of your life feels like a mess, it amplifies the body issues I have.
It’s important for us to come together as a community and have open conversations about this, regardless of our size, shape, or anything else. Even muscular guys and larger guys have their own body image issues, and we shouldn’t dismiss their struggles. Body image issues aren’t always rational; they’re often fueled by anxiety. We need to support all guys who are dealing with these issues. If you’re struggling, you can always reach out to me. My schedule may be busy, but I can make time to chat and provide a safe space for you to open up. It’s not easy to talk about these things for the first time, and you might feel like your issues are insignificant, but they’re not. They are unique to you and can have a real impact on your mental health.
Like you, I’m working through my own challenges and doing my best. I try to be open and share my true self with you—the good and the bad—because it’s important for you to see that even on days when I’m excelling with the podcast, I might be struggling mentally (like I was the other week). It’s okay to say, “I’m not okay.” I’ve done it many times. It doesn’t mean you’re not strong; it means you need someone to support you. When I know I have that support, I feel much better.
Sorry for rambling. I just wanted to share this with you. I’m trying to write more in the blog, but it’s been tough with my schedule and the podcast. I promise to do more soon.
Coyote is a really great company that so many of you guys love. Their new like is hot and has an incredible singlet.