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In this episode of Brief Talk, I sit down once again with Paul Williams-Ferns, founder of Dante 7 Underwear, along with three of his models — Will, Jamie, and Leigh — for a conversation that goes far beyond fabric and photography. What started as a follow-up about his brand launch quickly turned into an honest discussion about vulnerability, confidence, masculinity, and the unexpected bonds formed during a shoot.

Paul shares why he intentionally chose everyday men over influencers or OnlyFans models, looking instead for personality, depth, and even vulnerability. He explains how building Dante 7 is about more than underwear — it’s about art, philosophy, storytelling, and creating a sense of belonging. We talk about what it takes to prepare first-time models for such an exposed experience, especially in a social media world that can be both empowering and brutal.

Will opens up about battling self-doubt and how stepping in front of the camera helped rebuild his confidence after personal loss. Jamie talks about turning 40 and deciding to take chances instead of living with regret, and how modeling has reignited something in him creatively. Leigh shares his perspective as the straight guy in a gay-centered brand and how quickly orientation became irrelevant when it came down to camaraderie, laughter, and mutual support.

We also dig into the reality of modeling — the physical strain of holding poses, the mental exhaustion of long shoot days, and the discipline behind getting the perfect shot. Paul discusses the importance of premium fabrics, sustainability, and why he wanted honest feedback from the guys before ever wearing the product himself.

At its core, this episode is about stepping outside your comfort zone, supporting each other, and finding confidence in unexpected places. It’s a reminder that sometimes the boldest move you can make is simply saying yes.

Guest Links

Will

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willjboys_2

Jamie

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeofjimjamipt

Leigh

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dante7leigh/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dante7leigh

Paul Williams-Ferns

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulwilliamsferns

Dante 7 Underwear

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dante7underwear

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Dante

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim sits down with Paul, founder and designer of the upcoming luxury underwear brand Dante Seven. What starts as a conversation about launching a new brand quickly turns into a deep dive into art, literature, religion, shame, sexuality, and the power of storytelling in men’s underwear.

Paul shares his journey from corporate digital marketing into fashion, how working behind the scenes for a major underwear brand pushed him toward creating something of his own, and why he felt compelled to design a brand that speaks to older men, diverse bodies, and lived experience—rather than chasing trends or OnlyFans aesthetics.

Inspired by Dante’s Inferno, sculpture, religious iconography, and the Seven Deadly Sins, Dante Seven is built as a fully immersive, premium experience. Paul walks through the philosophy behind the brand’s three launch collections—Inferno, Purgatorio, and Paradiso—the creation of the Gabriel Collection, and how sins are reimagined as affirming, empowering traits rather than sources of shame.

The conversation also explores community building, chosen family, transparency in manufacturing, and why storytelling matters more than hype. Paul opens up about his background, his motivation for creating a Founder’s Circle, and his vision for underwear as art, identity, and connection.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in underwear culture, independent brands, creative risk-taking, and building something meaningful in a crowded space.

Topics Covered

• From corporate marketing to launching an underwear brand

• Creative burnout and choosing a new path

• Why Dante’s Inferno inspired Dante Seven

• The Seven Deadly Sins as empowerment, not shame

• Using religion and iconography to challenge norms

• Luxury branding vs. price-driven underwear

• Designing for older men and real bodies

• Founder’s Circle and community-first branding

• Transparency in production and pre-order launches

• Fetish, subtle sexuality, and cinematic storytelling

• Why underwear culture thrives on connection

Guest Links

• Website: https://www.dante7.com

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dante7underwear

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Episode Synopsis

Jock returns to Brief Talk After Dark for an in-depth and candid conversation about the continued growth of his underwear brand, Wear Tighties. Tim and Jock dive into the upcoming third collection, the importance of community feedback, and why classic white briefs with a fly continue to resonate so strongly with underwear fans.

The episode explores the design philosophy behind Wear Tighties, including the highly requested “Wedgie Me” waistband, mid-rise fits, thoughtful branding choices, and how listener input directly shapes future collections. Jock also shares behind-the-scenes details about selling out collections faster than expected, navigating inspiration respectfully, and why small brands thrive when authenticity and passion lead the way.

Beyond product talk, the conversation touches on content creation, social media risks, handwritten thank-you cards, underwear nostalgia, and why underwear culture is ultimately about confidence, connection, and community.


What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • Why Wear Tighties’ white briefs keep selling out
  • Details on the third Wear Tighties collection launching January 2026
  • The story behind the long-requested “Wedgie Me” waistband
  • Why mid-rise, fly-front briefs remain essential
  • How community feedback shapes design decisions
  • Respectful inspiration versus copying in underwear design
  • Personalized handwritten thank-you cards for customers
  • Expanding content creation and social media presence
  • Future ideas including bikini briefs, themed drops, and bold designs
  • The importance of supporting independent underwear brands

Key Quotes from Jock

“It all comes down to people being willing to try something new and form their own opinion.”

“I really appreciate feedback. Some of the best ideas come directly from the community.”

“The ‘Wedgie Me’ waistband has been requested for years. It was time.”

“You can be inspired by other creators, but you still have to make it your own.”

“The thank-you cards are my way of showing appreciation. It’s never just two sentences.”

“We’re probably bigger than we think we are. It’s a small world.”


Follow Jock

Wear Tighties

Website: https://weartighties.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weartighties

Jock Embarrassed

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jockembarrassed

Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/jockembarrassed


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Brief Talk Podcast – Featuring JD from BearThreads

This week on the Brief Talk Podcast, Tim sits down with JD, founder of BearThreads, a swimwear brand designed to celebrate bigger bodies, confidence, and self-expression—without compromise.

JD shares the personal journey that led him to launch BearThreads, born out of frustration with how traditional swimwear is graded for larger waists but not real bodies. What started as a mission to create better-fitting shorts evolved into bold, body-positive swim briefs that center comfort, fit, and—yes—the pouch.

The conversation dives deep into why pouch design matters, how BearThreads balances showcasing without exaggeration, and why men of all sizes deserve swimwear that makes them feel confident and seen. JD and Tim also talk openly about masculinity, body image, American swimwear culture, and the freedom that comes from wearing what you actually want—not what society says you should.

They explore:

  • Why most swimwear flattens instead of celebrates
  • The difference between Speedos made for competition and fashion swim briefs
  • Why confidence—not body type—is the key to pulling off bold swimwear
  • Mini briefs vs. classic cuts and how different styles change proportions
  • How swim briefs can spark connection, conversation, and community
  • Giving yourself permission to wear what you love, at any size

JD also shares advice for guys who are curious about swim briefs but hesitant to try them, encouraging listeners to stop negotiating with themselves and start choosing what truly makes them feel good.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in swimwear, confidence, masculinity, or redefining how men show up—at the beach, the pool, and in their own bodies.


Find BearThreads

  • Website: https://bearthreads.com/
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bearthreadsclothing/
  • BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/bearthreads.bsky.social

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Every once in a while, a guest comes on Brief Talk and the conversation just flows. No walls. No posturing. Just two people talking honestly about how gear, kink, and confidence show up in real life.

That’s exactly what happened when I sat down with Pup Hermes.

What starts as a conversation about thongs quickly becomes something much bigger. We talk about discovering underwear and fetish gear at a young age, growing up in a conservative environment, and what it means to lean into the things that make you feel confident—especially when the world around you tells you to tone it down.

Pup Hermes shares what it was like wearing thongs in high school (yes, really), how underwear became a private source of confidence before it ever became public, and how that confidence grew once he found spaces where being different wasn’t just accepted—it was celebrated.

We also talk about San Francisco, working at Mr. S Leather, winning Mr. San Francisco Rubber 2017, and how being surrounded by like-minded people can completely change how you see yourself. When you’re no longer the “only one,” everything shifts.

But one of my favorite parts of this episode is that it doesn’t stay focused only on sex or gear.

We get into the idea that fetish spaces don’t have to be just about hooking up. That there’s room for friendship, chosen family, movie nights, gym buddies, and community—without losing the sexual energy that brought everyone together in the first place.

We talk about keeping the gear on.

We talk about creativity in play.

We talk about knowing your audience, reading the room, and owning your confidence without apology.

And honestly, it’s refreshing.

This episode isn’t just for thong guys. It’s for anyone who’s ever felt like their interests were “too much,” or who struggled to find people that really get them. It’s a reminder that when you own who you are, you don’t just change your own experience—you give other people permission to do the same.

If you love gear, kink, spandex, or just real conversations that go deeper than the surface, this is one you don’t want to miss.

Give it a listen.

Get to know Pup Hermes.

And maybe take a little inspiration into your own life.

Brief Talk Podcast — Brief Tale with Jason (“Plays Both Sides”)

In this episode of Brief Talk, Tim sits down with Jason—known online as Plays Both Sides—for an open, honest, and refreshingly candid conversation about underwear, masculinity, sexuality, and self-expression.

Jason is a straight guy who discovered thongs, jockstraps, and cheeky underwear later in life—and never looked back. What began as curiosity turned into confidence, community, and a full-on underwear lifestyle. Together, Tim and Jason unpack what it really means to feel sexy, why underwear doesn’t define sexuality, and how exploring personal style can unlock self-acceptance, better health, and deeper connections with others.

Episode Highlights

• Jason’s late-in-life discovery of thongs and jocks after years of wearing boxer briefs

• The moment he realized underwear could make him feel sexy, not just be functional

• How curiosity turned into collecting, researching brands, and engaging with the underwear community

• Why underwear choice has nothing to do with sexual orientation

• Navigating underwear exploration while in a long-term straight relationship

• Support, openness, and humor from Jason’s girlfriend—and where she draws the line

• Finding confidence, motivation, and improved health through feeling good in what you wear

• The surprising role of Jason’s gay brother and the Houston leather and kink community in his journey

• From Reddit friendships to in-person meetups—and even being gifted a bag of underwear

• Favorite brands, styles, colors, and the move from thongs into classic jockstraps

• Curiosity about lingerie, lace, corsets, and pushing past traditional ideas of masculinity

• Why more straight men are openly embracing underwear, jocks, and swimwear today

• Advice for guys who are curious but hesitant: try it—your underwear doesn’t define you

Why This Episode Matters

This conversation breaks down outdated ideas around masculinity and underwear. Jason’s story shows that exploring what makes you feel good—whether that’s thongs, jocks, or lingerie—is about confidence, not labels. It’s about doing something for yourself and finding community along the way.

Follow Jason

You can find Jason online under the handle Plays Both Sides on:

• BlueSky – https://bsky.app/profile/playsbothsides.bsky.social

• Reddit  – https://www.reddit.com/user/No-Economy-1361/

• FetLife

He’s friendly, approachable, and always happy to talk underwear, fit, brands, and style.

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Feedback & Questions

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, Tim sits down with Sam, the founder of SB Swimwear, to talk about his lifelong love of Speedos, how CrossFit helped spark a viral moment, and what led him to launch his own swimwear brand—designed and manufactured in Italy.

Born and raised in Italy, Sam grew up wearing Speedos as the norm, from childhood beach days to swimming workouts. That early comfort carried into adulthood, CrossFit training, and eventually competition—where a Speedo-only workout in Miami went viral and helped grow his Instagram following.

From there, the idea for SB Swimwear was born. Sam shares how he worked closely with an Italian manufacturer in Tuscany, leaned on family support, and refined a classic swim brief cut designed to work just as well for swimming laps as it does for beach lounging. The result is a clean, confident design launched first in red, followed by white and blue—colors that nod to both his Italian roots and American identity.

The conversation also dives into:

• Why Speedos are more functional than board shorts

• How body confidence develops over time

• Wearing swim briefs beyond the beach (including competitions and hiking)

• Customer reactions from around the world

• The slow cultural shift toward swim briefs making a comeback

• Advice for guys who want to wear Speedos but feel hesitant

Sam also opens up about what success looks like for him—not just sales, but seeing customers feel more confident in their own skin.

If you’ve ever thought about wearing a swim brief, designing your own gear, or challenging outdated ideas around masculinity and swimwear, this episode is for you.

Follow SB Swimwear:

Find SB Swimwear through Sam’s Instagram http://www.instagram.com/SamuelBaiano 

SB Swimwear – https://puhxyx-ue.myshopify.com

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim welcomes Matthew, who shares his personal journey with underwear, from his early experiences to his current collection of over 500 pairs. Matthew discusses the evolution of his style, the impact of COVID on his creativity, and the importance of supportive relationships in embracing his passion for underwear. He also shares stories about his wedding, Speedo adventures, and future aspirations for his collection and closet organization.

Takeaways

Matthew just got married last month, marking a significant milestone.

He has a passion for storytelling, reflected in his love for books and movies.

Matthew graduated with benefits and a pension at 22, allowing him to focus on creativity.

He has a collection of over 500 pairs of underwear, showcasing his journey in fashion.

Matthew’s first experiences with jockstraps and thongs were pivotal in his underwear journey.

Supportive relationships have played a crucial role in Matthew’s acceptance of his underwear passion.

He recently wore a Speedo around his in-laws, embracing his confidence.

Matthew wore a JM bikini brief at his wedding, highlighting his unique style.

He is open to exploring new brands and styles in his underwear collection.

Matthew aims to organize his collection and dreams of a walk-in closet. 

Titles

The Underwear Journey of Matthew

From Boxers to Briefs: A Personal Evolution

Sound bites

“I love books, movies, TV.”

“I wore them to my new job.”

“I need to do a brand audit.”

Links:

  • Social
    • Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/mattstrunks/
  • NOTE – if reading this after the show has dropped, sometimes the account gets deleted by the social media site. 

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In this lively and candid episode, UNB Tim sits down with Tim Wildman, founder of WildmanT, to discuss the evolution of his brand and how he became the go-to creator of big-pouch underwear. The conversation dives into how the Big Dick Underwear Company was born, how marketing restrictions shaped the brand’s voice, the challenges of producing in the U.S., and the surprising demographics of his customer base.

The two Tims explore the rise of pouch-focused underwear, being copied by competitors, the unexpected popularity of thongs among straight men, and the growth of the modified/pumpers community that helped shape WildmanT’s Monster Cock line. The episode also touches on social media censorship, customer needs, limited-edition drops, and upcoming product ideas like leggings and swim thongs.

Funny, brutally honest, and packed with insider industry insights, this episode highlights the importance of solving real problems for real men—and the sometimes wild world of men’s underwear design.

Takeaways

Brand Origins & Strategy

• WildmanT started in 2009 with novelty items but pivoted after consistent copying and marketing limitations.

• When ads weren’t allowed, he turned keywords into his main advertising strategy—using language big brands couldn’t.

• Search terms like “big dick underwear” became a goldmine because buyers were already looking for exactly that.

Building a Unique Market

• WildmanT intentionally targeted underserved men in middle America who struggled with comfort in standard underwear.

• His brand became one of the first fully dedicated “big pouch” companies, not just a single product line.

Challenges of Social Media & E-Commerce

• Platforms like Facebook, TikTok, and Amazon routinely flag men’s underwear images regardless of compliance.

• Even mannequin photos are often rejected, forcing the use of “ghost” product shots.

• Automated content moderation is inconsistent, making it difficult for underwear brands to operate normally online.

Product Evolution

• Customer demand continually pushed for bigger pouches—today’s “Big Boy” is nearly double its original size.

• The Monster Cock pouch was born from needs of the modified/pumpers community.

• Limited editions (Halloween, upcoming Santa brief) sell out immediately and won’t be reproduced.

Manufacturing Philosophy

• All WildmanT products are made in Fort Lauderdale, FL, which increases costs but maintains quality and control.

• The team is exploring leggings, but pricing and production costs remain a barrier.

• Swimwear thongs may return soon.

Customer Insights

• 60–70% of WildmanT customers are straight men seeking comfort solutions.

• Doctors who perform implants and scrotal enhancement surgeries recommend WildmanT to patients.

• Big dick underwear isn’t just about vanity—many buyers struggle with long-term comfort and mobility issues.

Industry Commentary

• Copycat designs are rampant in the underwear market.

• Smaller brands often lose out when competing companies mass-produce their ideas.

• Despite growing acceptance, men’s underwear is still difficult to market due to censorship and social taboos.

Sound Bites

• “My raunchy mouth is what made me the king of big dick underwear.”

• “People searched for big dick problems—but nobody marketed to them until I did.”

• “There are things out there bigger than I ever thought possible.”

• “If you’re hard, you should probably take your underwear off and start fucking.”

• “I make everything in the U.S. because I want perfection—and oversight.”

• “Some people buy my underwear not because they need it, but because it makes them feel good.”

• “Everything I make is designed for support and comfort first. Fun comes second.”

• “Many of my customers have spent 20, 30, sometimes 40 years trying to find underwear that finally fits.”

• “The Monster Cock pouch was created because the modified community needed an off-the-shelf solution.”

• “I can’t hide from my Southern family what I do—they see the site and think it’s wild.”

Links:

Store – 

www.wildmant.com

Social

Twitter – https://x.com/BigBoyPouch

YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/user/wildmantonline

Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wildmantim

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/wildmantonline

NOTE – if reading this after the show has dropped, sometimes the account gets deleted by the social media site. 

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Pantied Prince


n this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim interviews Pantied Prince, known as the Painted Prince, who shares his journey of self-expression through lingerie. Dale discusses how he discovered his love for lingerie, the evolution of his underwear preferences, and the importance of supportive relationships. He emphasizes the need for safe spaces for self-expression and the impact of social media on his journey. The conversation also touches on confidence boosters, the exploration of bodysuits, and the influence of past experiences on current choices. Dale shares his wish list for future purchases and concludes with thoughts on the importance of embracing one’s identity.



Takeaways



  • Pantied Prince is known as the Painted Prince, showcasing his love for lingerie.

  • His journey into lingerie began with a friend’s encouragement.

  • Dale’s first purchase was a set of black lace panties and accessories.

  • He now has a collection that includes more feminine lingerie than traditional men’s underwear.

  • Dale wears lingerie daily, finding comfort in it.

  • He has participated in local underwear nights, showcasing his confidence.

  • Dale’s husband is supportive but not particularly interested in lingerie.

  • He has created a safe space for others to explore their interests in lingerie.

  • Dale initially hesitated to show his face on social media but eventually embraced it.

  • He has a wish list of lingerie items he hopes to purchase.



Titles



  • Embracing Lingerie: The Journey of the Painted Prince

  • Breaking Boundaries: A Conversation with Pantied Prince



Sound Bites



  • “I’m the pantied prince.”

  • “I love all of it.”

  • “He’s been a trooper.”




Links:




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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, hosts UNB Tim, Erik, and Andy discuss the cultural perceptions

surrounding thongs and body image. They explore the myths that thongs are only for those with perfect

bodies, the impact of social media on body positivity, and the role of brands in promoting inclusivity. The

conversation emphasizes the importance of embracing diversity in body types and encourages listeners to

wear what makes them feel confident, regardless of societal standards. The hosts also share personal

experiences and insights on overcoming negative comments and fostering a supportive community.

Takeaways

Thongs are often associated with ideal body types due to media representation.

Social media has helped normalize diverse body types wearing thongs.

It’s important to embrace and celebrate different body shapes and sizes.

Brands that promote inclusivity are more likely to gain support from consumers.

Wearing a thong can significantly boost self-confidence.

Negative comments about body image should be ignored and blocked.

Community support is crucial for encouraging body positivity.

Real-world connections can enhance online relationships within the community.

Everyone should feel empowered to wear what makes them happy.

The thrill of wearing sexy underwear can diminish over time, but the confidence remains.

Sound bites

“Thongs are only for perfect bodies.”

“You can wear it and be accepted.”

“We need more real-world meetups.”

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Keywords

underwear, straight guys, social media, masculinity, body image, fashion, self-expression, community, conversations, masculinity norms

Summary

In this episode of the Brief Talk podcast, the hosts engage in a lively discussion about why straight men often avoid talking about underwear. They explore the societal norms surrounding masculinity, the lack of variety in men’s underwear, and the challenges of discussing such a personal topic. The conversation also touches on the role of social media in shaping perceptions of underwear and the importance of building a supportive community where men can freely express their preferences and experiences. The hosts share their personal journeys with underwear, the reactions they’ve received from peers, and their hopes for a more open dialogue about men’s fashion choices.

Takeaways

Underwear is often seen as a private topic for many straight men.

There is a lack of variety and excitement in men’s underwear options.

Social media plays a significant role in shaping discussions about underwear.

Many men do not buy their own underwear, leading to a lack of personal choice.

Engaging women in conversations about men’s underwear can be challenging.

The ideal world would have more open discussions about underwear among all genders.

Building a community around underwear can foster support and understanding.

Men often feel judged for their underwear choices, especially on social media.

There is a need for more representation of diverse underwear styles for men.

Conversations about underwear can lead to deeper connections and friendships.

Titles

Breaking the Silence: Straight Guys and Underwear

Underwear Uncovered: A Conversation Among Men

Sound bites

“Most men don’t buy their own underwear.”

“It’s all about comfort and style.”

“We need more guys to talk about underwear.”

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim welcomes Adam, an online personal trainer and gear enthusiast from Northern Virginia. Adam shares his journey from discovering various types of underwear in college to embracing his love for gear and swimwear. He discusses the importance of community, personal style, and self-expression, as well as the impact of photography on his confidence. Adam also highlights his favorite pieces in his collection and the evolution of fashion within the LGBTQ community.

Takeaways

  • Adam is an online personal trainer specializing in the LGBTQ+ community.
  • He discovered a passion for gear and underwear during college.
  • Community events like conventions play a significant role in self-expression.
  • Adam emphasizes the importance of feeling comfortable in one’s own skin.
  • He has a diverse collection of underwear and gear, with around 60-70 pairs of underwear.
  • Photography helped Adam embrace his love for gear and showcase his body.
  • He encourages others to celebrate their unique styles and interests.
  • Adam’s journey reflects a shift towards inclusivity in fashion.
  • He believes in the power of self-expression through clothing and gear.
  • Adam’s collection includes pieces from various brands, showcasing his personal style.

Sound Bites

  • “I want to feel that again.”
  • “I love wearing his swimwear.”
  • “This is how I stand out.”

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In this special editor’s note, Tim shares an honest behind-the-scenes update on life, podcasting, and what’s coming next for UNB and the Brief Talk Podcast.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

Life updates & health challenges – Tim opens up about recent dental surgery, recovery struggles, and how it’s impacted podcast scheduling .

Podcast production reality – From recording to editing to promotion, Tim walks through the 10–15 hours of work it takes to create each episode and why delays sometimes happen .

New show ideas – A sneak peek at Second Skin, a spandex & lycra-focused show, plus dreams of a dedicated thong podcast in the future .

Support & sustainability – Why Patreon support is critical to keeping the shows going, new perks like bonus segments, and possible ad placements .

Writing & blogging – Updates on blog plans, writing with dyslexia, and tools like Grammarly that make publishing possible .

Life pivot – Tim’s big decision to return to school in January to pursue a Master’s in Cybersecurity, and what that means for the podcast .

Call for contributors – An open invitation for listeners who might want to guest or even host future shows .

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In this engaging conversation, UNB Tim  and Jthonger  discuss the vibrant world of underwear, particularly focusing on thongs. They explore Jens’s journey from a curious teenager to a prominent advocate for thong culture, emphasizing the importance of community and connection among underwear lovers. The discussion also delves into the challenges of social media censorship, the evolution of underwear brands, and the significance of personal recommendations in a market flooded with options. Jens shares insights from his interviews with various brands, highlighting the passion and creativity behind the designs. The conversation wraps up with reflections on the future of underwear and swimwear, emphasizing the need for accessibility and quality in the industry.

Takeaways

  • The underwear community thrives on connection and shared experiences.
  • Many individuals feel isolated in their interest in thongs and underwear.
  • Finding the right thong can be a journey of trial and error.
  • Social media has transformed how underwear lovers connect globally.
  • Censorship on platforms affects how underwear content is shared.
  • Brands often have unique and personal stories behind their designs.
  • Smaller brands may hesitate to engage with audiences despite their passion.
  • Quality and accessibility in underwear pricing are crucial for consumers.
  • Personal recommendations carry more weight than paid endorsements.
  • The creativity in the Asian underwear market is particularly noteworthy.

Titles

  • Exploring the Underwear Community
  • The Thong Journey: From Curiosity to Advocacy

Sound Bites

  • “I started wearing Thongs exclusively.”
  • “I love talking to people there.”
  • “It’s never boring out there.”

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In this latest Brief Talk Podcast – Brief Tale, UNB Tim sits down with Simon, a self-described Lycra enthusiast whose love for spandex goes back to his teenage years. What started with the influence of superhero TV shows and the allure of tight athletic gear has grown into a full-on passion that’s now a part of his everyday life.

From Superheroes to Cycling Shorts

Simon’s first introduction to spandex came through superhero shows as a kid, but it wasn’t until he was about 16 that he bought his first piece—running tights he spotted in a store. From there, he moved into cycling shorts, Speedos, and any other snug, stretchy gear he could find. Over time, his appreciation evolved into both a fetish and a lifestyle, fueled by discovering small online communities of like-minded spandex fans.

Wearing Spandex Out and About

For Simon, spandex is not just for home or the bedroom—he often wears it to cycle to work, exercise, or attend fetish events like Darklands. He’s found creative ways to make it gym-appropriate, like wearing shorts over tights, and enjoys the freedom of being in spaces where his love for spandex is accepted and celebrated.

One of his most memorable recent additions? A green and rosy running suit—perfect for everything from lounging at home to navigating a night out without struggling in the bathroom. He also recently purchased a striking red suit, which quickly became a favorite.

Community, Confidence, and Connection

While Simon mostly shares his spandex side within the fetish community, social media platforms like Instagram, Blue Sky, and Spandex Party have helped him connect with other enthusiasts. He’s noticed that spandex is becoming more visible in fetish scenes, especially when mixed with leather or other gear, and encourages guys to enjoy whatever style makes them feel confident and sexy.

Sneakers, Speedos, and Future Goals

Simon admits he’s a sneaker fan too, pairing them with his spandex when possible, although he doesn’t have the budget to perfectly coordinate every outfit. His Speedo collection doesn’t get much use these days due to living far from the beach, but he’s always open to adding more gear to his collection.

For Simon, the joy of spandex is about comfort, expression, and community. Whether it’s a skin-tight bodysuit, cycling kit, or gym tights, the gear makes him feel good—and that’s what matters most.

Where to Find Simon Online:

  • Instagram: lycra_job
  • Blue Sky: cyclist_job
  • Spandex Party: cycling

Listen to the full episode to hear Simon’s stories and insights on living the spandex life, navigating public wear, and finding your tribe in the world of gear lovers.

This time, Stevie flips the script again, putting Tim in the hot seat to dig even deeper into his personal journey with underwear, body image, the impact of Brief Talk Podcast, and the real story behind running a blog and store. Expect laughs, vulnerability, insight, and some behind-the-scenes tea.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • Tim gets candid about the emotional impact of listener stories and how the podcast evolved into something more powerful than he expected.
  • The ups and downs of reviewing underwear, and why honest feedback matters more than ever.
  • A discussion on the real power of micro-influencers vs. thirst-trap culture in today’s social media landscape.
  • The true cost of running an underwear store and how social platforms have changed the game.
  • Tim’s evolving relationship with body image and how underwear helped him find confidence (and how that confidence sometimes still wavers).
  • Iconic “unicorn” underwear picks that surprised him — in a good way.
  • The price tag debate: does higher cost always mean better quality in underwear?

Quotes to Remember:
“Underwear empowered me back then. It made me feel sexy, it made me feel special.” – Tim
“Even the muscle boys have body image issues – it’s not just a bigger guy thing.” – Tim
“A little delusion goes a long way.” – Stevie

Also in this episode:

  • Why Tim won’t wear boxers again (ever).
  • His favorite ergonomic pouches and why “ball lifters” are a hard no.
  • The $100 pair of undies he didn’t have to pay for – and was it worth it?
  • The underwear brands Tim still dreams of finding again (RIP, Jockey Scants and Undergear classics).
  • The real reason Tim rarely posts selfies—and the pep talk he got from Stevie.

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim welcomes Eric, a long-time guest, to delve into his personal journey with underwear. They explore Eric’s early discoveries, influences from family, and the evolution of his underwear preferences over the years. The conversation touches on the impact of social media on underwear culture, the intersection of underwear and sexuality, and the practical challenges of maintaining a growing collection. Eric shares insights on the importance of body positivity and self-expression through underwear, while also discussing the future of underwear trends and styles.

Takeaways

  • Eric’s fascination with underwear began during puberty.
  • The early days of underwear shopping were filled with excitement.
  • Quality underwear brands like Calvin Klein and Tommy Hilfiger were aspirational.
  • Family influences can shape one’s underwear choices.
  • The growth of an underwear collection often happens post-family life.
  • Everyday wear can include both practical and stylish underwear.
  • Underwear can be a reflection of one’s sexuality and identity.
  • Social media has changed how people express their love for underwear.
  • Locker room experiences can be both thrilling and anxiety-inducing.
  • Organizing an underwear collection can be a practical challenge.

Titles

  • Exploring Eric’s Underwear Journey
  • The Evolution of Underwear Preferences

Sound Bites

  • “I can get stuff like this at TJ Maxx.”
  • “Underwear lets you do that.”
  • “It’s not easy to do.”

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In this engaging conversation, Tim and Jay delve into the world of underwear, exploring personal experiences, influences, and the journey of self-acceptance as an underwear lover. Jay shares his early influences, the excitement of purchasing his first pairs, and the confidence boost that comes from wearing different styles. They discuss the importance of community, the challenges of coming out as an underwear enthusiast, and how underwear can impact one’s confidence in various aspects of life. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of engaging with brands and the significance of being open and honest in discussions about underwear.

Takeaways

  • Jay’s early interest in underwear was influenced by his father’s choices.
  • The excitement of buying underwear for the first time is a memorable experience.
  • Trying new styles can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking.
  • Confidence in wearing underwear can translate to other areas of life.
  • Community plays a crucial role in embracing one’s love for underwear.
  • Social media has helped Jay connect with other underwear enthusiasts.
  • Honesty and openness in discussions about underwear are appreciated.
  • Wearing sexy underwear can boost confidence in daily activities.
  • Engaging with brands requires genuine interest and authenticity.
  • The journey of self-acceptance as an underwear lover is ongoing.

Titles

  • Unveiling the Secrets of Underwear Enthusiasm
  • The Journey of an Underwear Lover

Sound Bites

  • “It’s a natural sort of progression.”
  • “I want to show off what I’m wearing.”
  • “Underwear has made me feel more confident.”

Links:

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Episode Summary:

In this unfiltered and deeply personal Editor’s Note, UNB Tim catches listeners up on a chaotic and emotionally draining month. From battling a resurgence of migraines to grieving the sudden loss of a friend, this candid episode offers a behind-the-scenes look into the life of the man behind UNB and the Brief Talk Podcast. Despite setbacks—including the unfortunate cancellation of the August Chicago meet-up—Tim shares his renewed focus on creating meaningful content, exciting plans for new podcast series, and ways listeners can get involved.

Whether you’re a longtime fan or a new listener, this episode is a powerful reminder that community matters and that building a safe, inclusive space around underwear, spandex, and self-expression is more important than ever.

What’s Inside This Episode:

  • Migraine struggles and finding medication that works
  • Grieving the loss of a longtime friend
  • Cancelled Chicago trip and how you can still connect with the community
  • Content creation updates: blog schedule, writing projects, and seeking contributor input
  • Two new podcast ideas in the works:
    • A kink-focused podcast exploring fetish, identity, and relationships
    • A spandex-only podcast spotlighting gear, community, and confidence
  • Thoughts on perfectionism, ADHD, and podcast production behind-the-scenes
  • A call for listener feedback, ideas, and contributors
  • UNB Reader Survey 2025 is now open – share your thoughts and help shape future content

Listener Involvement:

Want to contribute to the blog or podcast? Tim is building a panel of guys to share quick thoughts on fun underwear or spandex questions weekly. Interested? Reach out.

Also, take the 2025 UNB Reader Survey – it helps shape blog and podcast content, discovers new brands, and better represents the community.

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  • “I want us to have a place where we can talk about our love without shame.”
  • “If you know, you know—migraines are no joke.”
  • “Life came crashing down all at once in June—but July feels like a reset.”
  • “The podcast is growing and evolving, and I want to keep pushing it further.”
  • “You don’t have to be on the podcast to be part of the community—just reach out.”

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Episode Summary

In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, UNB Tim is joined by Scott, a straight man and long-time thong and spandex wearer, for a deep dive into masculinity, societal expectations, and the uneven playing field between gay and straight men when it comes to self-expression. Together, they unpack the cultural double standards that dictate what straight men can and can’t wear, how those rules stem from patriarchal control, and the emotional journey many men go through in embracing their authentic selves.

Scott opens up about his journey from high school football lineman and military Blackhawk pilot to body-positive advocate and unapologetic spandex-wearing gym-goer. He shares his near-death experience that led him to reevaluate his relationship with masculinity and stop living for others’ approval. This conversation touches on the societal discomfort with men expressing sexiness, why straight men face harsher criticism for non-traditional clothing choices, and how control, not attire, lies at the heart of these reactions.

Whether you’re gay, straight, or somewhere in between, this episode is a wake-up call to examine how masculinity is policed—and how liberating it is to break free from those constraints.

Notable Quotes

“Men fear the most the things that set them free.” – Scott

“It’s not the thong they’re offended by—it’s what the thong represents to them.” – UNB Tim

“You’re only as manly as the last thing you did. So if you’re not doing manly things, people start to question who you are.” – Scott

“Straight men want to be in control of everything in their life… and when they can’t control another man, it terrifies them.” – Scott

“What you wear doesn’t make you a man. But needing to control what other men wear? That says more about you than them.” – Scott

“If you look someone in the eye with conviction and show them you’re not afraid, bullies back down. They don’t know what to do with that energy.” – Scott

“Most people are too busy with their own lives to care what underwear you’re wearing. The fear is in your head.” – Scott

“You may lose some friends, but you’ll gain better ones. Burn out the deadwood. What you gain on the other side is worth it.” – Scott

“This isn’t just about underwear. This is about saving men from themselves—and the violence that grows from unchecked masculinity.” – Scott

“For anyone wanting to explore this more, read For the Love of Men by Liz Plank. It shifted my entire mindset.” – Scott

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In this engaging conversation, Unb Tim interviews Stevie, also known as Undies Cub, exploring his journey of self-discovery, body image, and confidence through the lens of underwear culture. They discuss the challenges of navigating relationships, the double standards in swimwear, and the importance of self-expression in a world that often imposes restrictive norms. Stevie shares his experiences of embracing his identity and inspiring others to feel confident in their own skin, regardless of societal expectations. The conversation highlights the need for more open discussions about body positivity and the celebration of diverse expressions of masculinity.

Takeaways

  • Stevie’s journey began with a lack of support from his partner regarding his love for underwear.
  • Body image issues are prevalent, especially among men, and can be exacerbated by societal standards.
  • Confidence can be built through self-expression and embracing one’s identity.
  • The persona presented on social media can differ from real-life personality traits.
  • Underwear culture is evolving, with more acceptance of diverse body types and styles.
  • Self-discovery often involves challenging societal norms and expectations.
  • The importance of community support in navigating body image and self-acceptance.
  • Men’s underwear choices are often limited compared to women’s lingerie options.
  • There is a growing trend of underwear parties that celebrate body positivity and confidence.
  • Conversations about body image and self-expression need to be more prevalent in society.

Titles

  • Unveiling the Undies Cub: A Journey of Self-Discovery
  • Breaking Barriers: Body Image and Confidence in Men

Sound Bites

  • “My everyday is also my sexy”
  • “I think we should have more of that”
  • “I think we should have more of that”

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Cisco from Yocisco, a brand that originated as an online magazine for gay men of color and evolved into a successful underwear line. Cisco shares his journey from being a go-go dancer to launching his brand, discussing the challenges of representing people of color in fashion, the importance of body diversity, and the current trends in men’s underwear. The conversation also touches on masculinity, gender expression, and the need for inclusivity in the fashion industry. Cisco emphasizes the brand’s commitment to confidence and representation, while also sharing insights from his experiences in the go-go dancing scene.

Takeaways

  • Yocisco started as an online magazine in 2007.
  • Cisco transitioned from go-go dancing to entrepreneurship.
  • The brand focuses on catering to gay men of color.
  • Challenges include representation and inclusivity in fashion.
  • Body diversity is a key focus for Yocisco.
  • The brand offers a range of products including swimwear.
  • Cisco emphasizes the importance of confidence in fashion.
  • The conversation highlights the evolution of masculinity.
  • Less judgment in the community is needed.
  • Future collaborations and discussions on masculinity are planned.

Titles

  • From Go-Go to CEO: The Yocisco Journey
  • Breaking Barriers: Fashion for Gay Men of Color

Sound Bites

  • “I lost everything, man.”
  • “I saw a hole in the market.”
  • “We just need less judgment.”

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim and Stephen delve into the complexities of masculinity as portrayed online. They discuss the pressures of maintaining a masculine persona, the impact of social media on self-identity, and the fantasies that often accompany these portrayals. The conversation explores the evolution of masculinity, the reality behind the images, and the societal expectations that shape how individuals express their identities. They also touch on the importance of authenticity and the challenges of navigating personal and public personas in a world that often conflates the two.

Takeaways

  • The online persona can differ significantly from reality.
  • Many men feel pressured to portray a hyper-masculine image.
  • Social media complicates the authenticity of self-expression.
  • Masculinity is often tied to physicality and societal expectations.
  • The fantasy of masculinity can overshadow personal identity.
  • People project their desires onto public figures, creating unrealistic expectations.
  • Authenticity is crucial for mental well-being and self-acceptance.
  • The evolution of masculinity reflects broader societal changes.
  • Rebranding can be a powerful tool for personal and professional growth.
  • Understanding the complexities of masculinity can foster empathy and acceptance.

Titles

  • Unmasking Masculinity: The Online Persona
  • The Struggle for Authenticity in a Digital Age

Sound Bites

  • “You gotta be your authentic self.”
  • “It’s about their sexual fantasies.”
  • “There is room for many more types.”

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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim interviews David, one of the authors of the Manatinga book, which focuses on the cultural significance and history of thongs. The conversation explores the journey of writing the book, the challenges of masculinity associated with wearing thongs, and how they can serve as a form of self-expression. The authors aim to break down prejudices surrounding thongs and encourage men to embrace this style of underwear as part of their identity. The discussion also touches on the research process behind the book and the importance of wearing thongs with pride. In this engaging conversation, Felix and UNB Tim delve into the themes of sexuality, the aesthetics of thong photography, community engagement among thong lovers, the importance of quality in underwear production, and the future of their book project. They discuss the Kinsey Report’s findings on male sexuality, the positive feedback from contributors to their book, and the necessity of high-quality materials in underwear manufacturing. The conversation emphasizes the normalization of discussions around thongs and sexuality, aiming to create a more inclusive community.

Takeaways

  • The Manatinga book is a fun and informative read about thongs.
  • Thongs have a rich history and cultural significance.
  • The authors aim to break down prejudices against men wearing thongs.
  • Wearing thongs can be a form of self-expression and identity.
  • The book encourages men to embrace their choice of underwear.
  • Cultural perceptions of thongs vary significantly across countries.
  • Thongs are not just a fashion item; they represent personal identity.
  • The research for the book took two years and uncovered many insights.
  • Men often face societal pressure regarding their choice of underwear.
  • Wearing thongs with pride can help normalize their acceptance. The Kinsey Report reveals significant insights into male sexuality.
  • Many men have hidden homoerotic experiences.
  • Photography plays a crucial role in showcasing thong aesthetics.
  • Engaging the community is vital for thong lovers.
  • Quality in underwear production is often overlooked.
  • A good thong should be treated with care for longevity.
  • The book serves as a comprehensive guide for thong enthusiasts.
  • The project is a nonprofit initiative aimed at spreading awareness.
  • Positive feedback from the community encourages further engagement.
  • The book is well-received in Europe and aims to reach a wider audience.

Titles

  • Unveiling the Manatinga Book: A Thong Journey
  • Breaking Prejudices: The Thong Revolution
  • Thongs and Masculinity: A Cultural Exploration
  • The Art of Self-Expression Through Thongs

Sound Bites

  • “There’s a book about thongs?”
  • “Thongs are part of masculinity.”
  • “Don’t be a thong idiot in public.”
  • “It’s a spectrum of sexuality”
  • “The book is like a Bible for thongs”
  • “You can’t expect quality for $2”
  • “This is a nonprofit project”
  • “The reaction is great in Europe”
  • “Get the book, it’s amazing”

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