Wapo Wear shared their latest photo-set by Roman photographer Simone Arrighi of model Antonio Raji Latella.
Antonio is wearing swimwear by latest swimwear collection available worldwide with free shipping on www.wapowear.com
This week’s pair is the Light V-Neck Tee is the $12 Tuesday. Also last year’s light colors are on close out at 50% off so y can pair a Light Brief or Low-Rise Trunk with their tee for $9.75 and $10.25 respectively (limited sizes and colors as these are close out). Also, you can also see at the brand new 2017 colors which make fun combinations with the V-Neck Tee
We hope you caught our interview with Jon Pastor. He’s one of Andrew Christian’s models. If you missed it make sure you check it out.
Nasty Pig introduced more boys in our Second Nasty Pig Spring/Summer 2017 Power Struggle Commercial shown during RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 9 on VH1
Modus Vivendi has their own way of doing things This is the newest swimwear called Sporty Swimwear. Make sure you check out the line
This swimwear Sunday is for the guy who’s super comfortable wearing a swim brief. In fact you want something that will show off on the beach. Bring attention to yourself or just express your personality. One brand that makes such pairs described above is Slick It Up. They have made some super fun pairs over the years. The pair we choose was the Pink Panther.
This leopard print suit has pink, orange, yellow and black. Slick It Up says this pair can not be tamed. And I would agree with that statement. It’s a little over the top but if you’re going to wear this pair, you’re not going to mind at all. You have a personality over the top, we would assume The pair is lined and is made from a 4-way stretch spandex material.
Where would you wear this pair? Well, if you have the personality to pull it off I would say anywhere. If you’re a bit more subtle in your personality and don’t want to draw attention to yourself on a public beach, you may consider this a great swim party pair. Many of us are much more likely to put this on for a swim party rather than a beach.
If you love this pair we suggest you head over to the Slick It Up Site. They have this and a few more fun swim pairs. We love profiling them and note that all their products are made in the USA in Manhattan.
BRAND: Slick it Up
PAIR: Pink Panther Swimsuit
COLORS: AS seen
FABRIC: 4-Way stretch spandex
SIZES: Small – XL (but see the size chart!!!)
COST: $68.00
Get ready for Summer with aussieBum’s brand new beachwear collection. Bright and bold beach shorts, retro inspired singlets and a stylish linen shirt will have you kitted out for any summer event. Shop now!
It’s swimwear Sunday! We bring a brief distraction featuring Teamm8 swimwear. We think you guys need to check out the entire new collection.
Elegant and luxurious, the Modus Vivendi Handcrafted line is a perfect example of meticulous craftsmanship and attention to detail. The brand has designed minimalistic styles elevated with gold accents, made with the finest cotton and sewn entirely by hand. This line comprises five styles of underwear (two styles of briefs, two styles of boxers and jockstraps) and tank tops, all available in black or white elevated with stylish golden accents.
The campaign is inspired by the work of Italian painter Caravaggio. The striking, artistic images were captured by top Greek fashion photographer Vangelis Kyris in Athens. Model, Nikos Solis is posing with elegance in the new, outstanding designs of the brand.
Credits
Underwear, tank tops: Modus Vivendi
Photographer: Vangelis Kyris
Model: Nikos Solis
Location: Athens, Greece
Jockstrap Central just launched Cellblock 13’s latest, the Fullback Jockstrap – an all new and improved sports jock inspired by the classics of yesteryear with a respectful nod to the Bike #10. Following in the footsteps (and success) of Cellblock 13’s Locker Jock (now discontinued), this new jockstrap has everything you want in a sports jock and more. With a tough and masculine 3 inch wide waistband complete with traditional micro sports striping and as expected, a woven mesh pouch.
Like all good sports jocks, a two-way stretch polyester/nylon pouch is woven to ensure air circulation and to wick moisture and it’s a bit softer to the touch than it’s predecessor. It’s slightly contoured with a center seam and is sturdy enough to keep things in place during a rigorous workout.
As mentioned, the ultra-masculine full 3 Inch wide waistband is built tough with classic sport jock pinstripes running horizontally through the elastic. Respecting its roots, the white rectangular care label is on the outside front and center with the make-a-statement Cellblock 13 logo, the size and care instructions displayed for all to see.
Finally, solid one-inch elastic leg straps not only frame your ass but ensure everything stays in place.
Don’t be misled by the name – whether you’re playing fullback, quarterback or linebacker this jock will do but if you’re a receiver then you’ll have your teammates lining up for your end zone.
Available in five bold colors and modeled by Jockstrap Central models Oscar and Seamus so be sure to check out all the eye candy over at their website.
When you think White jock, you may think one o two things. Either classic or boring. However, the Sukrew jock is a new take on the classic and is anything but boring. They have an amazing jock you need to check out.
There’s nothing like a long weekend – and too much chocolate – to allow the partners at DGU the chance to do a bit of navel gazing. Or, in fact, review the milestones that led them to spring 2017. Adam and Jane are very hands-on at Deadgoodundies.com in the UK, taking pride not just in selling the best men’s underwear from around the world, but also providing brilliant customer advice, service and speedy shipping. Several brands have a special place in their hearts…
HOM – for those who don’t already know, the origins of Deadgoodundies lie in a previous website called Justhom, because that’s all it sold, HOM men’s underwear and swimwear. This brand remains a cornerstone of DGU’s extensive selectin of undies, swimmers, socks, tops and t-shirts.
JOE SNYDER hit the ground running from day one. This collection never fails to inspire and intrigue men who appreciate high fashion – and very sensual – underwear for men. Is it all about the shapes? The colours? The fit? Oh yes, all three.
JOE SNYDER CANDY BULGE BIKINI 01 GBP25.00
ERGOWEAR was DGU’s first major step into ergonomic male underwear and today, whether you want subtle or maximum enhancement, their designs retain a strong and loyal following. Ergowear’s Suave is a masterpiece.
ERGOWEAR MAX SUAVE BIKINI BRIEF GBP18.00
OBVIOUSLY recently made a stunning return to DGU. An updated and upgraded collection has proved so popular Adam can hardly keep up with orders! Today’s fresh designs provide different pouch capacities and always the same ‘lift and separate’ fit that’s so addictive.
OBVIOUSLY ORIGINALS ANATOMAX HIPSTER BRIEF GBP16.75
DOREANSE – Deadgoodundies has a reputation for finding interesting new collections. The Doreanse range from Turkey is extensive and constantly changing, so DGU keeps up, keeping favourites in stock and frequently introducing new styles and colours.
DOREANSE 1330 MICRO MODAL ECO THONG GBP7.00
SAXX is the latest addition to the DGU family. With patented BallPark™ pouch technology, these undies have TWICE been acclaimed as the ‘best men’s underwear in the world’. Another iconic addition to the UK-based website – with more new brands lining up to make their DGU debut later this year.
SAXX PLATINUM BOXER FLY GBP27.00
CREDITS:
Underwear: HUNK2
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hunk2_official/
Website: https://hunk2.com
Model: Bradley Brooks
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bradleyjbrooks/
Photographer: Armando Adajar
Website: http://www.armandoada
Looking for some awesome boxer briefs in some great colors and prints? Then you need to check out the new Hawai brand. You can find it at the Candyman Fashion site!
Part two of D.HEDRAL’s ‘DH12‘ editorial with Dubai-based Brazilian soccer player turned personal trainer, Alexsandro Duarte.
Alexsandro’s story inspired D.HEDRAL as he found strength through adversity to carve a career that has (and is) seeing him live his dream of travelling the world.
At the age of nine Alexsandro lost his father. The same time he started focusing on playing football. His strength and passion for the game saw him reach professional level as a teenager, playing for top teams in Brazil. That was until the age of 19 when an injury cut short his career. This forced him to focus on a different path but he didin’t give up. Some luck, and more hard work paid off a
s he is now a qualified personal trainer and model, living his dream!
Alexsandro models D.HEDRAL’s new ACE underwear range – for the active man. Super lightweight, quick-dry micro cotton seamless underwear. Classic in design with sportswear properties.
Let’s go all out full thong on this Thong Thursday! Thongs are all about feeling sexy and confident. One of the newest is the PPU 1605 Asymmetrical Thong. I call it a mix of a g-string and thong. You will see why in a few minutes. PPU is known for creating innovative and different underwear.
The thong has a full waistband on one side and a thin string on the other. It’s a really cool design you don’t see every day. The solid waistband has a complimenting color in the band. Also, the back is made up of the same string as the waistband. It continues down from the band to attach to the pouch.
It’s an asymmetrical design. Meaning, as you see, it’s not symmetrical. It’s a little off center. I really like designs such as this, it gives you something different in the world of underwear. Not everything has to go according to plan.
It comes in four different colors. They are black, white, red and Green. Made out of a 93% Nylon 7% Spandex blend fabric. This pair retails for $18.00 at the Candyman Fashion site.
BRAND: PPU Underwear
PAIR: 1603 Thong
COLORS: Black, white, blue, or red
FABRIC: 93% Nylon 7% Spandex
SIZES: Small – X-Large
COST: $18.00
LINK: PPU 1603 Thong
We have a blast from the past for you guys. Do you remember the Raider Singlet from N2N Bodywear? This was a singlet we covered back in April of 2011! The Raider was a mesh that came in a few different colors but the Pink was one that I remember most. Maybe this line will make a comeback this year! Time will tell
One brand that really knows how to mix great underwear with an incredible sex appeal is back for another collection. Gregg Homme released part one of their collection this week. It’s part 1 of the collection. This is the first time I remember them splitting up the collection. But that’s good news for us for the rest of us, there will be more Gregg Homme this year!
Vigor
Gregg Homme introduces the VIGOR brief, our newest fashion group. Made with a soft Italian mesh combined with a silky microfiber pouch and a V-insert in fine mesh and a 2 tone elastic waistband. Those who want a more subtle style while staying sexy, this group will be yours.
X-OTIK
Gregg Homme introduces X-OTIK our newest Sexy See-through group. This fun and avant-garde style will enhance your package with an integrated adjustable cockring while contouring your curves with funky royal blue binding, soft delicate Italian mesh and textured black jersey. You know you want it!
Lust
Gregg Homme introduces LUST, our newest sexy animal print group. Made with a fine European mesh and paired with a leopard textured velvet and detachable clips. This fun group will reveal your butt cheeks but keep your package nicely tucked away until you decide to release it!
Grip
Gregg Homme introduces GRIP, our newest racy and playful group. This fun group is made with the very popular 8 way stretch knit, that will guarantee the most comfortable wear. Paired with a contrast color waistband, functional detachable clips with the Gregg Homme logo and 3 binding straps to keep you in.
Soiree
Gregg Homme introduces SOIREE, our newest Elegant See-through group. This edgy and avant-garde style will enhance your senses with it’s ultra soft and silky microfiber, fine mesh and unique embroidery design. This is one of a kind design, only for you!
Reveal
Gregg Homme introduces REVEAL, our newest sexy fetish group. Made with a European super light weight jacquard that has a metallic finish. Paired with detachable front pouches and inserts, this group will not only be very playful but comfortable.
Bonded
Gregg Homme introduces BONDED, our newest fetish group for your inner wild side. This group consist of harnesses for the upper and lower body in genuine 100% leather. Paired with a faux leather thong to complete the look, this fetish group will leave you as the main attraction wherever it is that you will go! Dare to wear it!
See all these lines on the Gregg Homme site!
The N2N Bodywear Onezee is super popular! Ever since the release of the style, it’s been one of the most sought after “long underwear” on the market. First, it’s super sexy, Second, it’s super comfy. And lastly, it will keep you warm. Granted we are moving out of the winter months and into spring. The shortish sleeve and legs will make it perfect for lounging around the house.
The new colors are Olive, Navy, and Burgundy. All will look great on you! But hey, that’s not all. They have added Jade Dream robe to the Lounge series. Just note, if you want this robe you better get it now because once it’s gone, it’s GONE!
This year marks the 20th Anniversary of N2N Bodywear. There will be a lot of styles released throughout the year. We have a lot planned especially in May, the month of the anniversary. But note that styles will drop with little warning. Even I don’t know what is going to drop and when!
The Onzee is $60.00 and the Dream Robe is $46.00
We love the swimwear that Marcuse does every year. This year is no different. If you missed the pics of the 2017 Marcuse collection, see our previous post.
Looking for some great workout wear? We interviewed Eric Turner the guy behind Oryx! Here is the info about the new collection
When we last spoke, you had just launched your underwear line. Have there been any updates to the underwear line?
We launched a limited collection last year called the Blue Stitch Collection. It’s full of fun colors with blue stitching to add a bold contrast. And we’re in the process of supplying some new styles right now, hoping to launch them before summer.
You have a very classic designed collection. What styles have become your best sellers?
Our biggest sellers are our trunks- red, then black. They have a great fit and feel to them, and a high percentage of those who buy them are repeat customers.
How has the underwear line grown and matured since you started?
I think as far as what the brand is, it’s stayed exactly the same. Oryx is a lifestyle brand, and our entire strategy hinges on that lifestyle. So as far as the brand itself maturing, we spent a lot of time before launching to establish what the Oryx lifestyle was, and if anything it’s growing into that.
In the later part of last year you released a work out collection. I know this is something you wanted to expand the brand too. did you draw on your fitness background to design the collection?
Yes. Our Athletic line combined Oryx with my fitness background by adding sophisticated athletic apparel. I think there is a lot of fitness gear on the market that’s great for showing off your body, but not nearly enough of it that allows you to do so while still looking mature. My experience that I utilized the most was my experience as a personal trainer. As a trainer, I’ve always looked to wear clothing that was athletic yet still professional. And that’s what our Athletic line is all about.
Tell us about the fitness line. What do you currently offered in the fitness line?
We have two athletic shirts: The Trainer Shirt and the Go Shirt.
The Trainer Shirt– available in charcoal, navy, and cranberry retails for $49.50. The cut is designed to flatter your physique with a thicker, stretchy material.
The Go Shirt– available in cloud grey, percy pink, and blue steele also retails for $49.50. It’s a much thinner fabric than the Trainer Shirt, and it got its name from the idea we had when we designed it: to make it look good no matter where you go. It’s the perfect shirt to wear to workout and then to grab a bite to eat afterwards.
The Trainer Short– available in black, grey, and red retails for $49.50. It’s designed to complement the Trainer Shirt to give that ‘sophisticated trainer’ look. It has a liner inside to help make it more comfortable to athletics, and has a hide-a-away pocket in the liner to hold your keys while you go for a run.
The Rugby Short– available in black or blue and retails for $49.50. The Rugby Short is a classic take on rugby shorts, but we added pockets. It has a shorter inseam and is great for guys who want to see their legs while they work them. I think most men’s gym shorts are entirely too long, and so I designed the Rugby Short to fight back!
The Silhouette Tank adds a bold chartreuse piping silhouette to a muted colored tank. It’s available in charcoal, silver, and blue and retails for $34.50. It’s a simple cotton tank top. The kind you wouldn’t mind wearing out.
The Poser Tank– available in red, green, or blue retails for $36.50. The Poser Tank is perfect for the guy who wants to check himself out in the mirror while he’s working out. We’ve all done it, so I designed this simple muscle tank to flatter the physique and give optimal movement during the workout.
What has been the feedback from customers on the newest additions? They love them. In fact, they love them so much that the first weekend we launched our Athletic line we nearly sold out and had to rush-order more from our factory!
Since your background is in fitness, you always look great in the pictures you post in new wear. Is it for the average guy?
Our line is for body-conscious guys, whether they have their ideal physique or not. I’m not at my peak physique year-round, and I designed the line to feel comfortable the rest of the year too.
What has been the biggest obstacle you overcame starting the brand?
I made a couple of bad business, against my better judgement, because of other people’s suggestions. The biggest obstacle I’ve found is other people’s opinions. I know exactly what I want this brand to be, and despite my fitness and modeling background, I also have a business background as a senior district manager from A&F in its prime days. So I understand what it takes to get your branding spot on. So the biggest obstacle is not allowing other people’s short-sightedness deter me from making Oryx what I want it to be.
Now you’re in underwear and fitness gear, will swimwear be next?
Next, we have some more underwear and athletic wear to further solidify what exactly the Oryx brand is, and then Oryx Swim will be ready to go.
Find all these pairs and awesome underwear at Oryx.
NOTE: Eric has given us a code ‘unbblog’ expires May 20. Will get 20% off any athletic wear including kits
We love doing the Swim Brief Challenge every year. More and more guys are starting to wear them. In fact, a few guys are skipping the briefs and going straight to thongs. We asked you guys if you currently wore them or if you are planning to wear swim briefs this summer. And to find out why you will wear them and which Brands you love.
Here are the results.
This surprised me in the guys who responded. 33% of you already wear them and another 33% wear them occasionally. But 14% are planning to brief up for the first time. Only 6% said they aren’t planning to wear them at all.
You guys wear swim briefs mainly to public beaches and pools. As well as private pools. Only a few will wear them to a water park. I don’t know if I”m brave enough for that, so hats off to you guys who do wear them there!
Most of you guys are willing to grab a pair of thongs and rock them on the beach along with swim briefs. I think guys like Jayinca are influencing others to say “fuck it” and just do it!
Most of you already wear them and here is why a few of you said you are finally taking the plunge!
- Want to join in on the fun, looks more comfortable than board shorts
- I bought a house that has a pool so I will take the first step before going public!
- I’ve been working out.
- Be different
Here awesome of the reasons you guys love swim briefs:
- Freedom and the feel of having one on. Reminds me of swim days, and always fits in place. They make the best underwear and when a swim breaks out, you’re prepared!
- Comfort in and out of the water, quick drying, sun exposure
- A better tan! Shows off my bum better!
- Free moving, quick dry after swimming, tanning
- They’re far easier to swim in because there’s not all the extra fabric of a trunk/board short to get in the way. They also hold everything in place much better than board shorts.
- The tan I get when wearing them and the freedom I feel in the water and walking around.
- No readjusting and the ones I wear are often less revealing than a clingy pair of trunks or board shorts.
- Makes lap swimming easier. Dry Faster. Boosts
- comfy, dry fast, show off my legs (which are amazing )
The most mentioned brands include N2N Bodywear, Andrew Christian, Speedo, and aussieBum.
Thanks for taking the time and tag us if you take the challenge for the first time or the 100th time.
Jockstrap Central is known for taking “real” guys and making them underwear models. We love this about them. This is their Model Oscar in Papi underwear. We hope you enjoy this expanded gallery instead of a Brief Distraction.
Are you a fan of basics? If you said yes or if you need some basics in your drawer. You’re in luck! The $12 Tuesday pair this week is the Baskit Urban Basic Boxer Brief. Just available in Black and White. Remember it’s just on sale today!
It’s important to note that women are the biggest buyers of men’s underwear. With our readers, I think it’s reversed. No matter what your sexual orientation most guys who read this blog buy their own underwear. I know we have had women readers over the years and thought we needed to talk to this market. Many of you know Jayinca, he’s written a few things over the last few months. He’s a big fan of thongs and bikinis. So we wanted to ask his wife a few questions
Hi Tim, I am so happy that you asked these questions and although I am not the witty and creative writer that my husband is — I am always happy to answer questions and help out in any way that I am able! I love the idea of bringing the women’s perspective along for the ride!
When you first met Jayinca, when did you find out about his love of underwear/swimwear? What did you think? (surprised, shocked, didn’t phase you?)
I believe it all started with dating and realizing that Jayinca was most definitely a “butt guy”. It was not a secret it was his favorite body part on a woman and that he enjoyed seeing women’s butts in a thong. I knew he loved women in thongs. I know early on in our dating I believe he had mentioned something about having worn a thong in the past. I definitely saw that as unique but really did not ask many more questions or pay much attention to it; which reflecting back is pretty strange because I am the person that would then ask fifteen detailed and in-depth questions after a guy reveals that he has worn a thong before. Months of dating passed and then one day I discovered in one of his drawers a bag that was full of thongs. I think I was a bit in shock, but also felt some stirring of excitement and maybe even a little jealousy of why this had been kept a secret in a bag.
I immediately said, “put one on, I want to see!” What I saw was quite sexy and I made sure to let him know that I liked what I saw! I’m sure I then bombarded him with tons of questions about this secret bag of goodness.
I’m not sure I would say at this point he “loved” to wear sexy underwear but maybe more of an openness or a curiosity in himself. I also have to admit that I still felt somewhat odd about the whole thing, but it quickly turned to loving him wearing them for me.
Have you encouraged his love of underwear? If so do you buy him undies from time to time?
Encouraging him to wear sexy underwear is probably an understatement. Demanding him to wear sexy underwear is probably a little closer to the truth! I DESPISE boxers and boxer briefs. I have changed though because when we first started dating I believe that my preference would have been boxers. However, seeing his amazing backside in thongs or even briefs just made me realize that boxers and boxer briefs really are the furthest thing from sexy that you can be. I have shared with him that I love for him to wear thongs every day and if not thongs then briefs. I have secretly thrown away boxers and also have hidden them. I LOVE looking at thongs or briefs to buy for him and imagining him in them and then I get super excited for them to arrive. We are separate from each other at work for most of the day, so I also will ask for pictures to be sent so that I can see him in them. Sometimes we will shop for them together and I will put my vote in for my favorites and sometimes I will just buy them for him.
He’s posted pictures of you two in thongs on the beach, how do you react to people who see your husband in a thong?
We are still experiencing new things with underwear and thongs, so it is only recently that he has worn a thong publicly at the beach. This was a pretty exciting thing for us both and a pretty big deal. So I only have a handful of people that I have seen react to him in a thong. Part of me feels a little nervous and protective because people can just be so mean. He is really putting himself out there to wear them publicly and so it would really hurt me if someone hurt him. That being said, so far I feel like the people who have walked by that I noticed react fell into the following categories:
1. OMG, I think I just saw a guy in a thong, I will immediately look away and never look back again! Didn’t see it, didn’t happen….watch me walk along with a serious face and act as if my eyes were never drawn to his ass. 2. SHOCK resulting in laughter or facial expressions – one young guy walking with a woman starting laughing, looked pretty shocked and then said “Nice” (not sure if that was sarcastic, or I’m super uncomfortable and so the word Nice just came out of my mouth, or if he actually thought Nice – rock on dude with your sexy ass!) 3. Disapproval/Disgust – a clear facial expression displaying disapproval and maybe looking at the person next to them and scanning for their reaction hoping that it is also one of disapproval!
2. SHOCK resulting in laughter or facial expressions – one young guy walking with a woman starting laughing, looked pretty shocked and then said “Nice” (not sure if that was sarcastic, or I’m super uncomfortable and so the word Nice just came out of my mouth, or if he actually thought Nice – rock on dude with your sexy ass!) 3. Disapproval/Disgust – a clear facial expression displaying disapproval and maybe looking at the person next to them and scanning for their reaction hoping that it is also one of disapproval!
3. Disapproval/Disgust – a clear facial expression displaying disapproval and maybe looking at the person next to them and scanning for their reaction hoping that it is also one of disapproval!
I approve of all positive reactions, I don’t mind if women or men think he is sexy, hot, or amazing….because he is! As long as they keep their hands off – those are my buns!
What is your favorite men’s underwear style on your husband? What don’t you like?
My favorite style is by far thongs – shows the sexiest part of him off! I’m a pretty open person so I’m not sure if there is anything brief or thong that I don’t like. I guess I would say those super feminine undies on men are not really something that I have found myself to be attracted to, but hey …never say never! Oh, I will say for colors that I am less attracted to black, gray, navy blue type colors that I consider more boring. I like bold, bright, designs etc.
Jayinca has written a few things for us, did you read them? What did you think of the posts?
As far as I know I have read everything he has written and I think he is an amazing writer and I thoroughly enjoy reading what he writes and also hearing him talk about things that make him feel good. I believe that for him it feels pretty amazing to inspire others to be themselves and I imagine that he is doing that for so many people!
What is your advice for men who have been hiding their love of underwear from their wives/gfs?
This is a great and tough question and I rarely answer things briefly so watch out! If they have just never shared that they love sexy underwear then they have some goals right now to set for themselves. Being our true and authentic self is how we attract the right kind of people into our lives. If we hide or lie about who we are to the person that is our partner we are in some ways being a fraud and letting our fears make our decisions for us – I feel this is a shame. Plus it may be doing a disservice to everyone involved because it is possible that the other person would also really enjoy sexy underwear on their partner. A great example is that if I would have never found Jayinca’s lovely bag of thongs and if he would have kept that secret and felt ashamed, I bet he wouldn’t be writing for a blog and wearing sexy underwear; that means I would have missed out on a lot of joy in seeing him in them. I didn’t come into the relationship loving thongs, but his openness and bravery combined with my openness led to where we are today. Hiding those things would have been a disservice to us both!
I do however recommend that starting slow and gradual would be important. I think that societal norms in our culture are such a huge huge part of what we determine is sexy. It is almost like being brainwashed. Since we are so conditioned this way, I would recommend starting out by discussing things that both people think are sexy. Maybe hinting a little that wearing sexy underwear is something that feels good to you. I think reading how the other person responds at that point is a great guide in where to go from there. I think if the person shows interest and asks more questions or hints that they like this idea or would be interested in seeing that, then this is a good green light for you. I also think that if someone freaks out or thinks it is disgusting this may not be the right person. This probably depends very much on how important wearing sexy underwear is to you. Personally, I am very open minded and very much can develop new interests or things that I think are sexy if I know that it is a turn on for my partner. So remember, I did not come into the relationship all hot over guys in sexy briefs or thongs! This was something that developed by trying things out and being motivated by what turns each other on. I believe for us underwear is quite sexual, however, it doesn’t need to be a “turn on” to enjoy each other in underwear that is not just boring ol’ tighty whiteys or super boring boxers that cover up every part of potential sexiness.
I also think that even if a partner’s first reaction is not one of – throw you down on the bed and rip your clothes off – all is not lost. I think some things take time and as long as there is some level of openness and some desire to make each other happy then there is some room here for growing gradually. Communicate with each other and be vulnerable, maybe there is something that your partner would like you to get into or approve of too. This is the perfect opportunity to at least try out what the other person is interested in. We can’t force ourselves to love or even like what our partner does, but we can at least give something a try.
Remember our brains have been trained to respond negatively to men in sexy underwear. Don’t even get me started on men wearing board shorts to the beach!!! YIKES!! Huge double standard — women show every possible bit of skin you have and tan it — men cover up as much as possible, as baggy as possible, and get the strangest 1/2 leg tan that you can!!
The most important thing I can say is that you are not a weirdo for wanting to wear sexy underwear. Be you! Own it, rock it, love it, thong it! There are other great people out there just like you. My husband and I LOVE talking about undies, shopping together for them, seeing each other in them, and even writing about it! Surround yourself with someone that allows you to be who you truly are. We won’t please everyone, not everyone will like us, but when you are your true authentic self that’s when you know the people who are around you are the best possible people for you! Thong on men!