In the latest episode of Brief Talk After Dark, UNB Tim dives deep into the shiny, stretchy world of spandex with special guest Ryan, also known online as The Dapper Doberman. A proud spandex aficionado and collector based in Ontario, Ryan shares his journey into gear, fetishwear, and the thriving underground community that embraces it all.
From childhood fascinations with superheroes and Saturday morning cartoons to nervously purchasing his first Speedo in a department store, Ryan recounts his earliest memories of discovering his love for spandex. Like many gear lovers, he shares the familiar narrative of exploring his identity in secret, sneaking time online to research this mysterious, shiny material and navigating the challenges of purchasing and hiding gear from parents.
What makes Ryan stand out in the spandex community is his extensive collection of rare Olympic gear. He’s personally messaged hundreds of athletes to acquire authentic suits—bobsled, luge, speed skating—you name it. His passion is both in the gear itself and the “thrill of the hunt,” as he describes reaching out and building a unique, often irreplaceable collection.
But it’s not just about the sleek looks or exclusivity—Ryan and Tim bond over how empowering spandex can feel. They reminisce about the early days of gear obsession, the excitement of trying it on for the first time, and how confidence can grow through embracing self-expression in gear. Ryan also dives into his love for “gaudy gear”—bold colors, tacky patterns, and 80s-inspired prints that turn heads and spark nostalgia.
They also discuss how spandex still exists in a sort of kink limbo. Often overlooked or underrepresented at traditional fetish events, spandex isn’t always taken seriously. But Ryan sees that changing, especially with brands like Amoresy, Strap Metal, and MR S Leather beginning to embrace more flashy, fetish-friendly styles. He also drops tips for finding custom prints and working with independent creators, championing a more inclusive and creative gear culture.
The conversation touches on everything from cosplay suits to collegiate wrestling singlets, from thrift store hacks to why more guys need to stop worrying about judgment and just wear what makes them feel good.
This episode is more than just a gear talk—it’s a love letter to self-discovery, expression, and community. Whether you’re a seasoned spandex lover or just curious about what makes the gear community tick, Ryan’s candid stories and UNB Tim’s infectious enthusiasm make for a compelling listen.
Listen now on your favorite podcast platform and follow Ryan (@dapperdoberman) to see his incredible collection come to life. And don’t forget—this week, wear your spandex at least one day. You’ve earned it.
