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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim and Stephen delve into the complexities of masculinity as portrayed online. They discuss the pressures of maintaining a masculine persona, the impact of social media on self-identity, and the fantasies that often accompany these portrayals. The conversation explores the evolution of masculinity, the reality behind the images, and the societal expectations that shape how individuals express their identities. They also touch on the importance of authenticity and the challenges of navigating personal and public personas in a world that often conflates the two.

Takeaways

  • The online persona can differ significantly from reality.
  • Many men feel pressured to portray a hyper-masculine image.
  • Social media complicates the authenticity of self-expression.
  • Masculinity is often tied to physicality and societal expectations.
  • The fantasy of masculinity can overshadow personal identity.
  • People project their desires onto public figures, creating unrealistic expectations.
  • Authenticity is crucial for mental well-being and self-acceptance.
  • The evolution of masculinity reflects broader societal changes.
  • Rebranding can be a powerful tool for personal and professional growth.
  • Understanding the complexities of masculinity can foster empathy and acceptance.

Titles

  • Unmasking Masculinity: The Online Persona
  • The Struggle for Authenticity in a Digital Age

Sound Bites

  • “You gotta be your authentic self.”
  • “It’s about their sexual fantasies.”
  • “There is room for many more types.”

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Get ready to upgrade your swimwear game with two bold new releases from ErgoWear! These new swim briefs are made for guys who want style, comfort, and support all in one sleek package.

The first style features ErgoWear’s signature FEEL pouch, offering a front-enhancing design and fun summer vibes perfect for beach trips, pool days, or simply soaking up the sun. The second pair includes the sculpted X4D pouch, known for its ergonomic fit and eye-catching design—ideal for everything from lounging poolside to taking a dip in the waves.

Special Launch Offer: Get 20% off both styles with code Ergowearswim25 at checkout!
Hurry—this offer expires Saturday, May 24th.

MODUS VIVENDI presents the “Color Spectrum” campaign & Rainbow Swimwear Line – Swimwear 2025 Collection. A celebration of individuality, joy, and vibrant self-expression.

Shot against the shimmering coastline and sunlit waves, the Color Spectrum campaign captures the essence of freedom and radiance. The campaign follows a man unapologetically being himself – standing tall, relaxing in the tide, and running barefoot across the sand. Each scene, from serene to spirited, reflects the idea that confidence is found when you live in full color. The Rainbow swimwear becomes an extension of personality, movement, and pride.

With chairs in unexpected places, playful light, and confident poses, this photo series invites everyone to claim their space, shine their brightest, and let every color of their being be seen. The Color Spectrum campaign is a visual metaphor for living boldly – an invitation to wear who you are, without compromise.

Color your world and dive into style with the Rainbow Swimwear Line, where every shade of you shines bright. Inspired by the vivid hues of nature and the playful spirit of summer, each design in the Rainbow line celebrates self-expression and diversity.

Featuring a bold, all-over MODUS VIVENDI custom print, these pieces are crafted for those who embrace the full spectrum of their personality. Whether lounging by the sea or chasing the waves, Rainbow is designed to make you feel as fearless, confident, and alive as the colors you wear.

Line Highlights:

·         Customized Rainbow Print – Stand out with an exclusive MODUS VIVENDI all-over geometric design.

·         Eco-Conscious Fabric – Made from 100% recycled yarns derived from plastic bottles, combining performance with responsibility.

·         Fast-Drying Comfort – Lightweight, elasticated fabric engineered to dry quickly and move with your body.

·         Adjustable Fit – Internal cords ensure a secure, personalized fit for every body type.

·         Signature Details – Finished with a transparent sewn-on rubber logo label for a clean, elevated look.

·         Part of our responsible edit – Designed with sustainability in mind, without compromising on aesthetics or performance.

Let your true colors shine. Be as bold as the swimwear you wear. This summer, live the Color Spectrum with MODUS VIVENDI’s Rainbow Swimwear Line.

It is time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s SS 25 Collection, available now for purchase online here.

Discover the Campaign here.

Shop the Line here.

We all know that N2N Bodywear makes some of the sexiest swimwear. Swimwear that pushes the envelope and. puts it all out there. Their new pair the Tikini X, is one that leaves very little to the imagination. The Tikini X is a pair of swimwear that is made of mesh. That means, when it gets wet, you will be showing off all your goods. Make sure you wear it at the appropriate beaches and pools.

Pride is here, and BREEDWELL is serving up the sexiest, boldest collection yet with their PURE PRIDE Collection. This isn’t your average rainbow gear — it’s for the unapologetic, body-positive, out-and-proud guys who want to turn heads from the parade to the afterparty. Whether you’re strutting through the streets or dancing under the disco ball, this collection is built to shine, accentuate, and celebrate queer joy — loud and proud.

Let’s dive into the standouts in this must-have lineup:


PURE PRIDE JOCK

Designed for the bold, the brave, and the bootyful. This jock is all about showcasing what you’ve got. With cutouts and leg straps that draw the eye to all the right places, and a glittering rainbow chevron foil, this piece radiates confidence. It’s not just a jock — it’s a megaphone for your manhood.

Wear it. Strut it. Let that rainbow reflect in every direction.


PURE PRIDE HARNESS

Harness your inner queer superhero. This one’s convertible — bulldog or full-body — with tension sliders to sculpt your fit to perfection. Whether you’re walking in the sun or dancing under club lights, this piece delivers function, fashion, and fierce. And yes, it matches perfectly with every other item in the line.


PURE PRIDE BRIEF

Too shy for a jock? No worries. This sexy brief gives you all the vibes with a little more fabric. Cutouts and leg straps serve up jock-style flirtation, while the supportive pouch leaves no bulge behind. Equal parts modest and mouthwatering, it’s a total vibe.


PURE PRIDE THONG

Go big or go homo — this thong is for the guys who get it. With BREEDWELL’s most popular pouch up front and cheeky exposure in the back, this piece was made to flaunt what you’re packing. And that rainbow foil? Just icing on your cake.


PURE PRIDE ARMBANDS

Sometimes it’s the little things that make the biggest statement. These rainbow-detailed armbands give a nod to your top, bottom, or verse energy (or all three). Whether you’re new to Breedwell or an OG, these are a perfect accessory to complete your look.


PURE PRIDE ICON CAP

Top off your Pride fit with the only cap you’ll need all season. The 3D rainbow logo in front and classic branding on the back say it all — wear it forward when you’re giving dom top energy, and turn it back when it’s time to serve sub realness.


PURE PRIDE SOCKS

Knee-high and full of attitude, these socks scream “PRIDE MOTHAFUCKER” from the soles. With a snug fit and vibrant rainbow band, they’re perfect for parading, partying, or any position you find yourself in.


PURE PRIDE TANK

Subtle, sexy, and gym-ready. This black tank with rainbow trim gives you just enough skin to tease while keeping it wearable year-round. Match it with anything in the line or rock it solo — this tank does all the heavy lifting.


PURE PRIDE SHORT

Equal parts sporty and sexy. These shorts are lined for support but breathable enough to wear over your jock, brief, or thong. Zippered pockets keep your essentials safe, while the rainbow trim keeps your Pride on display.


Final Thoughts:
This collection is a celebration of queer joy, sexiness, and self-expression. Whether you’re heading to a parade, dancing until sunrise, or just want to feel hot in your own skin — Breedwell’s PURE PRIDE Collection is here for it. And let’s be real — Pride isn’t just a season. It’s a lifestyle.

Get yours now — before these pieces become legends.

Striking, daring, and undeniably sexy—this new men’s Glow v-string thong is made for those who like their underwear to make a statement. Whether you’re adding something fresh to your top drawer or showing off for someone special, this piece delivers on both form and function.

Crafted from a lightweight, breathable blue wave fabric, the thong stretches effortlessly to contour to your body, offering a fit that’s both flattering and comfortable. The slightly sheer design adds just the right amount of tease, making it a perfect choice for the bold and body-confident.

The contoured pouch features a shaping seam that lifts and supports where it matters most, while the ultra-thin elastic straps and v-string back create a barely-there feel that lets you move freely without restriction.

Made from a soft blend of 86% nylon and 14% spandex, this thong is as easy to wear as it is to care for—just toss it in the wash and go.

If you’re looking for underwear that turns heads and feels amazing, this v-string thong is the one to grab.

Key Features:

  • Men’s v-string thong
  • Lightweight & stretchy fabric
  • Contoured pouch with shaping seam
  • Thin elastic straps for a minimalist fit
  • 86% nylon / 14% spandex
  • Machine washable

Dare to be seen. Embrace the wave

MODUS VIVENDI Introduces the Four Elements Swimwear Line, part of the Swimwear 2025 Collection.

MODUS VIVENDI proudly presents the Four Elements Swimwear Line, an inspired addition to its Swimwear 2025 Collection. A tribute to the eternal forces of nature — earth, air, water, and fire — this line invites you to dive into the raw energy, harmony, and essence of the natural world.

With prints that echo the textures and tones of each element, this swimwear collection combines bold aesthetics with thoughtful craftsmanship. Designed for individuals who move with confidence and live in rhythm with nature, the Four Elements line offers a variety of swimsuit styles including swim briefs, swim shorts, swim thongs, and swim boxers.

Each piece is a celebration of individuality, sustainability, and timeless summer style — made from 100% recycled yarns sourced from plastic bottles, and proudly part of our Responsible Edit. The fast-drying elasticated fabric ensures a lightweight feel and a flattering, form-fitting look that is as versatile as your lifestyle.

Key Features:

·         Retro classic silhouettes with a modern twist

·         Eco-friendly, fast-drying elasticated fabric

·         Customized all-over MODUS VIVENDI prints

·         Sewn transparent rubber logo label

·         Internal cords for a secure, adjustable fit

·         Front lining for comfort and support

Campaign Concept: Four Forces. One Spirit. In this campaign, MODUS VIVENDI captures the symbolic power of the four elements — Air, Water, Fire, and Earth — in a visual narrative that explores freedom, transformation, and connection to the environment. From oceanic blues and volcanic reds to grounding browns and breezy neutrals, each colorway and print mirrors the identity of its element.

Whether you are drawn to the calming flow of water or the bold flame of fire, the Four Elements Swimwear Line reflects your inner energy and outward expression. Live by the elements. Swim with purpose.

It is time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s SS 25 Collection, available now for purchase online here.

Discover the Campaign here.

Shop the Line here.

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host UNB Tim interviews David, one of the authors of the Manatinga book, which focuses on the cultural significance and history of thongs. The conversation explores the journey of writing the book, the challenges of masculinity associated with wearing thongs, and how they can serve as a form of self-expression. The authors aim to break down prejudices surrounding thongs and encourage men to embrace this style of underwear as part of their identity. The discussion also touches on the research process behind the book and the importance of wearing thongs with pride. In this engaging conversation, Felix and UNB Tim delve into the themes of sexuality, the aesthetics of thong photography, community engagement among thong lovers, the importance of quality in underwear production, and the future of their book project. They discuss the Kinsey Report’s findings on male sexuality, the positive feedback from contributors to their book, and the necessity of high-quality materials in underwear manufacturing. The conversation emphasizes the normalization of discussions around thongs and sexuality, aiming to create a more inclusive community.

Takeaways

  • The Manatinga book is a fun and informative read about thongs.
  • Thongs have a rich history and cultural significance.
  • The authors aim to break down prejudices against men wearing thongs.
  • Wearing thongs can be a form of self-expression and identity.
  • The book encourages men to embrace their choice of underwear.
  • Cultural perceptions of thongs vary significantly across countries.
  • Thongs are not just a fashion item; they represent personal identity.
  • The research for the book took two years and uncovered many insights.
  • Men often face societal pressure regarding their choice of underwear.
  • Wearing thongs with pride can help normalize their acceptance. The Kinsey Report reveals significant insights into male sexuality.
  • Many men have hidden homoerotic experiences.
  • Photography plays a crucial role in showcasing thong aesthetics.
  • Engaging the community is vital for thong lovers.
  • Quality in underwear production is often overlooked.
  • A good thong should be treated with care for longevity.
  • The book serves as a comprehensive guide for thong enthusiasts.
  • The project is a nonprofit initiative aimed at spreading awareness.
  • Positive feedback from the community encourages further engagement.
  • The book is well-received in Europe and aims to reach a wider audience.

Titles

  • Unveiling the Manatinga Book: A Thong Journey
  • Breaking Prejudices: The Thong Revolution
  • Thongs and Masculinity: A Cultural Exploration
  • The Art of Self-Expression Through Thongs

Sound Bites

  • “There’s a book about thongs?”
  • “Thongs are part of masculinity.”
  • “Don’t be a thong idiot in public.”
  • “It’s a spectrum of sexuality”
  • “The book is like a Bible for thongs”
  • “You can’t expect quality for $2”
  • “This is a nonprofit project”
  • “The reaction is great in Europe”
  • “Get the book, it’s amazing”

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We’re excited to announce a new addition to the UNB Store that’s turning heads and sparking conversation—Männertanga: The Ultimate Book for Men’s Thong Lovers. And the best part? You can get it now at a special presale price, but only for a limited time.

What Is Männertanga?

Bold. Unapologetic. Thoughtfully cheeky.

Männertanga is more than just a book—it’s a tribute to one of the most controversial and celebrated garments in men’s fashion: the thong. Authored by three Berlin-based fashion insiders, this hardcover book dives deep into the culture, controversy, and celebration of men who wear thongs.

Inside, you’ll find over 160 pages of compelling photography, commentary, and hard facts that shine a spotlight on this daring piece of men’s underwear. It’s part history, part manifesto, and 100% a must-have for anyone who appreciates bold fashion and confident self-expression.

Exclusively at UNB Store – No International Hassle

UNB Store is proud to be the exclusive U.S. seller of Männertanga. That means no need to worry about expensive international shipping or confusing tariffs. We’ve made it easy for U.S. shoppers to get their hands on this iconic book.

Special Presale Offer: $22.95 (Reg. $25.95)

We’re offering Männertanga at a special price of $22.95 during our presale period. After Sunday, May 18th, the price goes up to $25.95—so don’t wait!

Whether you wear them, love them, or are just curious about the cultural impact of men’s thongs, this book is a fun, stylish, and informative read that belongs in your collection.

Buy Now – Männertanga: The Ultimate Book for Men’s Thong Lovers

MODUS VIVENDI Presents the “Bare Hues” Campaign and the Derma Swimwear Line – Swimwear 2025 Collection

MODUS VIVENDI unveils “Bare Hues,” the official campaign of the Derma Swimwear Line, part of our Swimwear 2025 Collection. This campaign is a celebration of raw beauty and pure connection—with nature, with your skin, and with yourself.

Shot in the golden light of the Greek coast, Bare Hues Campaign captures a man effortlessly merging with the natural tones of the sand, wearing Derma swimwear in tones that reflect and enhance his skin. The aesthetic is minimal, sensual, and organic—stripping things back to the essentials. No distractions, no noise. Just skin, sun, and sand. The result is a visual story that feels intimate and powerful, inviting you to embrace your own body with confidence.

Inspired by the Greek word Δέρμα” (derma), meaning skin, the Derma Line is crafted to feel like a second skin. Each piece is made from ultra-soft, fast-drying elasticated fabric that hugs your body in all the right places. Designed for movement, comfort, and subtle elegance, Derma brings natural confidence to your beachwear wardrobe.

Key features include:

  • Retro-inspired swimsuit silhouettes
  • Thermo-embossed rubber logo for a discreet signature look
  • Front lining for support, made of fast-drying fabric
  • Internal cords for a customizable fit
  • Available in two universally flattering hues: light skin and dark skin

This line is not just about looking good—it is about feeling good in your own skin. With Derma, MODUS VIVENDI invites you to nurture your body and celebrate simplicity with style.

It is time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s SS 25 Collection, available now for purchase online here.

Discover the “Bare Hues” Campaign here.

Shop the Line here.

In this episode, Tim sits down with Stephen, the founder of Classicfella, a men’s underwear brand rooted in tradition but updated for today’s discerning wearer. Based out of Atlanta and made in Italy, Classicfella takes iconic pieces like white briefs, tanks, and boxers and gives them a refined touch with high-quality fabrics and thoughtful design. Stephen shares the inspiration behind the brand—his transition into midlife, a desire for maturity in his wardrobe, and the gap he saw between basic bulk-store briefs and ultra-luxury options.

Listeners will learn about the design process, the importance of fabric and fit, and how feedback from customers is shaping the brand’s next evolution—including new sizing, updated materials, and tagless options. The conversation dives into design decisions like the importance of waistband aesthetics, the relevance of classic styles today, and why even a button-fly brief could have a comeback.

Classicfella isn’t just recreating the past—it’s reimagining it with purpose, quality, and authenticity.

Quotes to Share:

  • “I reached an age where I looked at my underwear drawer and thought, ‘I don’t identify with any of this.’”
  • “We’re not a white-labeled brand. Every element was custom cut and sewn in Italy for our customer.”
  • “Classic doesn’t mean outdated. It means refined, elevated, and rooted in timeless design.”
  • “Our core audience? Mid-20s to 50s professionals who want something better—but not flashy.”
  • “Vanity sizing was something I didn’t expect, but now I understand it completely.”
  • “The waistband isn’t just functional—it says something about you.”

Where to Shop:

Visit Classicfella.com (that’s fella with an “a”!) for timeless briefs, boxers, tanks, and more. Get 10% off your first order and volume discounts when you buy multiple pairs.

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At TOZA, it’s not just about what you wear—it’s about how it makes you feel. This bold swimwear brand champions self-acceptance and individuality, encouraging you to show up as your most authentic self, no matter where life takes you.

Each piece of TOZA swimwear is crafted in Sydney, Australia, with a focus on durability, comfort, and expressive design. Built to move with you, their styles help you celebrate every curve, every vibe, and every confident step into the sun.

TOZA isn’t just about looking great at the beach or pool—it’s about feeling empowered, comfortable, and completely yourself. And yes, they ship worldwide—so you can take that Aussie-made confidence anywhere.

The picture features the Joyride swim brief, which is my favorite.

MODUS VIVENDI is proud to unveil the Floreale Swimwear Line through its vibrant new campaign, Beach Bloom, shot on the sun-drenched shores of Rio de Janeiro. In this campaign, two men radiate summer joy and effortless confidence as they explore the beach in coordinated floral designs that echo the energy and color of Brazil’s iconic coastlines. Whether they are jogging along the sand, lounging under palm trees, or striking a pose with a surfboard in hand, the duo perfectly embodies the line’s spirit—fun, free, and unapologetically stylish.

The “Beach Bloom” campaign captures a carefree summer vibe with a fashion-forward edge. Through dynamic shots and playful moments, the campaign celebrates nature in full bloom—translated into wearable art. It is a joyful invitation to express yourself under the sun and let your confidence blossom.

Celebrate the perfect blend of nature’s bloom and effortless elegance with the Floreale Swimwear Line, part of MODUS VIVENDI’s Swimwear 2025 Collection. This line reimagines classic swimwear through a fresh, floral lens. Featuring a delicate, all-over floral print exclusive to MODUS VIVENDI, each piece is designed to elevate your summer style while offering unparalleled comfort.

Available in three summer-ready colorways—all paired with white florals: Baby Blue, a calm and serene tone reminiscent of ocean waves and clear skies; Shocking Pink, a bold and energetic hue for those who love to stand out; and Neutral Beige, a timeless and effortlessly chic option.

The Floreale Swimwear Line includes swim briefs, swim shorts, swim thongs, tank tops, and shawls. Each piece is crafted with a fast-drying elasticated fabric and designed with internal cords for a secure, adjustable fit. The sewn transparent rubber logo label adds a subtle signature detail, while the front lining provides extra comfort and support. Embracing our commitment to sustainability, all pieces are part of our Responsible Edit and made with eco-friendly fabric derived from 100% recycled yarns sourced from plastic bottles.

From laid-back beach strolls to poolside lounging, the Floreale Swimwear Line is your go-to for a season of blooming confidence. Let your summer style blossom with MODUS VIVENDI. Choose your color. Own your moment. Beach Bloom starts now.

It is time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s SS 25 Collection, available now for purchase online here.

Discover the Campaign here.

Shop the Line here.

Looking to upgrade your basics with something that blends bold style and comfort? BodyAware has just released the new Wild Side brief that’s anything but ordinary. Designed to command attention, this sleek and supportive brief is perfect whether you’re powering through a workout or kicking back at home.

Made with a breathable, lightweight fabric that stretches with you, this brief offers a contoured pouch for support where you need it most—without sacrificing style. It’s the kind of pair that gives you both form and function.

Here’s why it deserves a spot in your top drawer:

  • Supportive contoured pouch that keeps everything in place
  • Lightweight, stretchy fabric that moves with your body
  • Perfect for everyday wear, lounging, or active moments
  • Crafted from a soft blend of 73% nylon and 27% spandex
  • Machine washable for easy care

If you’re looking to step up your underwear game, this new BodyAware brief checks all the boxes. Grab a pair and feel the difference.

Shop now at Body Aware and make your underwear drawer anything but boring.

Who doesn’t love spring and who doesn’t love micro?! Well we’ve combined two great tastes that taste great together and have come up with this delicious MICRO SPRING COLLECTION! This 1st of its kind collection incorporates the tiniest of waist and legbands on all styles! With 3 cool colors to choose from, this string jock boasts super tiny leg bands and a fabulous pouch that will leave you feeling sexy, confident, and a bit randy!

At UNB, we’re always on the lookout for brands that fuse style, comfort, and a little bit of attitude—and Xtremen hits the mark every time.

Xtremen Underwear is made for the guy who isn’t afraid to be seen. Whether you’re at the gym, lounging at home, or heading out for a night of fun, this Colombian brand delivers underwear that feels just as good as it looks.

Handcrafted for Fit and Comfort

Each pair of Xtremen underwear is designed and made in Colombia, known for high-quality craftsmanship and attention to detail. From flatlock seams that prevent chafing to supportive waistbands that stay in place, these styles are built to last.

Designed with the Modern Man in Mind

Xtremen is known for its:

  • Bold, masculine designs – Think sporty trunks, long-leg boxer briefs, and low-rise cuts that hug the body in all the right ways.
  • High-tech fabrics – Many styles feature stretch microfiber, breathable mesh, or soft cotton blends that keep you cool and dry all day long.
  • Ergonomic contour pouches – These are designed for support and enhancement, giving you a boost where it counts without sacrificing comfort.

A Style for Every Mood

No matter your vibe—classic black, bright colors, or edgy prints—Xtremen has something for you. They don’t shy away from fun, but they also understand function. It’s that perfect balance of sexy and practical that keeps fans coming back for more.

Why We Love Xtremen

Xtremen underwear is for the guy who wants more out of his underwear drawer. If you like pieces that are daring yet dependable, bold but breathable, this is a brand worth checking out. It’s built for confidence, movement, and expression.

Shop Xtremen at the UNB Store

Ready to upgrade your gear? Explore the full collection of Xtremen underwear at UNBStore.com. Whether you’re restocking your basics or grabbing something new for a special occasion, Xtremen has the fit, fabric, and flair you need.

In the latest episode of Brief Talk After Dark, I had the pleasure of welcoming back a familiar voice—Al, known In a new episode of Brief Talk After Dark, we’re diving deep into spandex, self-expression, and how fitness and fetish often intersect. Our returning guest is Al—better known online as Proud Thonger—who shares his journey with spandex, body image, and how gear can be both functional and sexy.

From Spandex Boy to Thong Guy: Al’s Personal Gear Journey

Before Al became an exclusive thong wearer, his first love was men’s spandex. “I was a spandex boy before I became a thonger,” he says. It started with P.E. class, Lycra gym shorts, and watching ’90s fitness videos with leotards and leg warmers. That early fascination never left.

Later, when Al began his fitness transformation, spandex became a key part of his identity. Standing 5’3″ and once weighing 183 pounds, Al committed to healthier habits. Now, as a certified Pilates, yoga, and indoor cycling instructor, his daily uniform often includes tights, fitted shirts, and yes—matching compression socks.

“There’s nothing else I would wear to work out. Spandex just feels right on my skin,” Al shares.

Why Men Love Spandex: Comfort, Confidence, and Compression

For Al, wearing spandex isn’t just about looks. It’s about comfort and purpose. Brands like 2XUUnder Armour, and Skins offer high-quality compression wear that supports circulation and movement. These brands make you look good, but more importantly, help you perform better.

And let’s not ignore the aesthetics: “It shows off every manly bulge,” Tim jokes during the podcast. Al agrees. “My pecs look hot. I’m just going to say that.”

When Fetish Meets Function: The Sexy Side of Spandex

While many men discover spandex through athletics, for others, it evolves into something sensual—and that’s perfectly normal. Al embraces both sides of the experience.

“Before I discovered the fetish part, I loved how it felt,” he explains. “Now, it’s part of who I am.”

From glossy tights to sheer bodysuits, Al isn’t afraid to flaunt it on social. He acknowledges the blurred line between fetish wear and fitness gear—and how both can exist in harmony.

Top Men’s Spandex Brands Al Recommends

Al wears a wide range of spandex, depending on the day and purpose. Here are a few of his favorite go-to brands:

  • 2XU – Performance-grade compression tights
  • Skins – Comfortable and sleek for everyday wear
  • Under Armour – Great for teaching fitness classes
  • Skinfit (defunct) – Formerly a top brand out of Mexico
  • AliExpress Finds – Cheap, shiny, and perfect for showing off

“Some of the cheaper tights get sheer fast,” Al admits. “But I just wear pantyhose under them and keep going!”

The Power of Gear and the Online Spandex Community

Through Instagram, BlueSky, and yes—even Twitter—Al has built strong connections with other spandex lovers. Names like Bricklayer StevenAndy Lycra, and SkinTightness are just a few in the community who’ve inspired him.

“We all connect over our love of gear, thongs, and tights,” Al says. “It’s not just fetish—it’s family.”

He emphasizes the importance of accepting newcomers, respecting different preferences, and avoiding judgment over price or style. Whether it’s a $500 tri-suit or a $12 AliExpress find, Al believes everyone deserves to explore gear in their own way.

Fitness, Mental Health, and Being Kind to Yourself

Al’s journey hasn’t been without hardship. He spoke openly about gaining weight during COVID and losing his mother in late 2023. Through it all, spandex, fitness, and therapy helped him navigate grief and maintain balance.

“Whatever your journey, be kind to yourself,” he shares. “Life changes. Priorities shift. That’s okay.”

Final Thoughts: Spandex as a Tool for Self-Love and Empowerment

From the gym to the bedroom to a bold Instagram post, spandex is more than just a fabric. For Al, it’s a way to feel strong, sexy, and in control. He encourages men to explore spandex for what it is: a way to feel empowered—whether for fitness, fetish, or pure fun.


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Listen to the Full Interview on Brief Talk After Dark

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