I have always wanted to do something that brings guys together in our love of gear. It got me thinking that we need to have the swim brief/thong challenge in a setting that is welcome to all. Why not a meet up of guys for a weekend wearing our favorite swimwear?? This would include all guys regardless of sexual orientation or size.

The first question is how many guys would be willing to hang out all weekend in nothing but swimwear? One good thing is the packing would be light, you could fit a ton of swimwear in a carry on bag. It would have to be at a resort that had everything in one place so those who want to relax all weekend can.

The second question is where to have this weekend? Having readers spread all over the country I see two good options. The first is Fort Lauderdale. They have several guest houses and close vicinity to beaches. The second option would be Palm Springs. Which is no stranger to gear weekends? No beaches but a group of men in swim briefs or thongs wouldn’t turn a head by resort owners.

I know that the location would dictate cost for guys on the other coast. If you’re in California, it’s easy to get to Palm Springs in a few short hours by plane or car. If you’re on the east coast, it would be a good 8 hour day with all the travel. And vice versa for those on the west coast for Fort Lauderdale.

This has always been in the back of my mind over the years. Maybe if I put it in a post we can make this happen. I want to be welcoming to all. Our straight gear brothers need a place where you’re encouraged to wear swim briefs. Give them the confidence to go home and rock one at their pools. There are some gay guys I know would love this too!

Just curious what thoughts you guys have on the subject?

You may know the brand MWearNYC, but did you know the master mind behind the amazing underwear brand also helps design costumes for Broadway Bares? If you are unfamilar with the show it’s that broadway performers put on to raise money for Broadway Cares, Equity Fights Aids.

Matthew says this about the fundraising:

Broadway Bares, now in it’s 28th year, is the largest annual fundraiser produced by and benefiting Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. It’s a large scale burlesque strip show made up of 200 of Broadway’s hottest dancers, designers and choreographers who all volunteer their time and talents to produce this one night, 2 performance event that raised $1.9 million last year alone.

The money we raise will help provide lifesaving medications, nutritious meals, health care, counseling, emergency financial assistance and so much more to men, women and children in all 50 states living with HIV/AIDS and other life-threatening illnesses.

Broadway Cares also is the single largest financial supporter of the essential social service programs of The Actors Fund, including the HIV/AIDS Initiative, the Phyllis Newman Women’s Health Initiative and the Friedman Health Center for the Performing Arts.

I have been apart of this organization and event for the past 7 years as a costume designer. This year I am designing the costumes for the sexy sailors in the Battleship number for Broadway Bares: Game Night! Wanna Play?

Donate to Matthews page now! Let’s get him well above his goal!

I was having a text convo with a friend who loves gear as much as I do. We have been friends for about 12 years. We were both saying that we are both starting a work out schedule to look better in our gear. We are both over 6’2″ and considered beefy. That is over 36 inch waists. Our pics and such feature guys who work out and should have no issues rocking a swim brief on the beach. Rarely does it seem guys over 36 inch waists are encouraged to wear a swim brief!

I think beefy guys look awesome in swim briefs. We as a group of guys should never rule them out because others think we don’t look good in them. I have talked to several guys over the years who feel they are being judged when going to a pool party and the muscle boys are in them and when they drop their shorts. The guys look over their sunglasses and nod no and look away. Have I had this happen to me, I’m sure I have over the years. At times I didn’t give any fucks, other times it made me feel insecure.

Very few reading this blog could walk out in front of a camera and be considered an “underwear or swimwear” model. Most of us are average guys. And I’m sure most of us are happy being average. I have said many years ago that I will never have abs because I will never eat that good nor will I work out that long. My goal for health and my well being is a 36-inch waist. There will be no 3-4 hour work out sessions 6 days a week. I have work, the blog, and a social life.

I plan on wearing swim briefs this summer when possible this summer. Being stuck in Atlanta there aren’t many places to wear them. We aren’t near a major body of water and private pools are few and far between. I hope more of you “beefy guys” will consider wearing them. I will continue to post my “body image” journeys here on the blog. I think it’s important to know that you are not alone in your concerns. It would be awesome if we could have a swim brief weekend somewhere with guys reluctant to wear them in public but get courage and confidence from others!

If you are a beefy guy and need courage, email me and I will def talk to you and share experiences. It’s about sticking together no matter if we are gay, straight, or bi. This blog is for all guys who love undies/swimwear/spandex and more. Note I don’t really have a picture to share of a beefy guy on the post.

We are about 400 followers away from 10K on Instagram! We run some behind the scenes and some stories that you can only see on Instagram. Some up coming will be from our Swimwear shoot that will be released soon. See some video you won’t see anywhere else. Go over to the UNB Instagram and follow us.