Do you wear spandex to work out, go out, or just feel amazing? From compression to fashion, we want to know how it fits into your life. Spandex is confidence in motion, and we want to feature real guys like you. Take the Reader Survey below and make your mark.
One thing I love at N2N Bodywear is their Jammers. These are swimwear that is made like the Jammers olympic swimmers wear but with a sexy twist. They always have the incredible pouch N2N is known for making. These can be worn for other activities. If you love N2N, their pouches and have never tried these, you def should. This is the new Sexy Silver Biker.
G-strings aren’t just underwear—they’re a bold statement. If you love the freedom, the feel, or the fun of wearing them, we want to know more. G-strings deserve their spotlight, and your opinion helps make that happen. Take the UNB Reader Survey below and let us know why you wear them proudly
If you wear a g-string shouldn’t you go bold? The newest in the Body Aware Glow V-String is a bold neon green! It’s super fun and perfect for you G-strings lovers.
Are bikini briefs your go-to for that perfect mix of comfort and sexy? Whether you’re into high cuts, bold prints, or barely-there sides, we want to know what you love. Your favorites deserve the spotlight! Take the UNB Reader Survey below and show your bikini brief pride.
I hope you guys get to enjoy fun in the sun with your favorite swim brief or thong. I unfortunately will be working. But go have fun and enjoy the day. Picture features Aronik swimwear.
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Episode Summary
In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, UNB Tim is joined by Scott, a straight man and long-time thong and spandex wearer, for a deep dive into masculinity, societal expectations, and the uneven playing field between gay and straight men when it comes to self-expression. Together, they unpack the cultural double standards that dictate what straight men can and can’t wear, how those rules stem from patriarchal control, and the emotional journey many men go through in embracing their authentic selves.
Scott opens up about his journey from high school football lineman and military Blackhawk pilot to body-positive advocate and unapologetic spandex-wearing gym-goer. He shares his near-death experience that led him to reevaluate his relationship with masculinity and stop living for others’ approval. This conversation touches on the societal discomfort with men expressing sexiness, why straight men face harsher criticism for non-traditional clothing choices, and how control, not attire, lies at the heart of these reactions.
Whether you’re gay, straight, or somewhere in between, this episode is a wake-up call to examine how masculinity is policed—and how liberating it is to break free from those constraints.
Notable Quotes
“Men fear the most the things that set them free.” – Scott
“It’s not the thong they’re offended by—it’s what the thong represents to them.” – UNB Tim
“You’re only as manly as the last thing you did. So if you’re not doing manly things, people start to question who you are.” – Scott
“Straight men want to be in control of everything in their life… and when they can’t control another man, it terrifies them.” – Scott
“What you wear doesn’t make you a man. But needing to control what other men wear? That says more about you than them.” – Scott
“If you look someone in the eye with conviction and show them you’re not afraid, bullies back down. They don’t know what to do with that energy.” – Scott
“Most people are too busy with their own lives to care what underwear you’re wearing. The fear is in your head.” – Scott
“You may lose some friends, but you’ll gain better ones. Burn out the deadwood. What you gain on the other side is worth it.” – Scott
“This isn’t just about underwear. This is about saving men from themselves—and the violence that grows from unchecked masculinity.” – Scott
“For anyone wanting to explore this more, read For the Love of Men by Liz Plank. It shifted my entire mindset.” – Scott
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Jockstrap junkies, now’s your time. Whether it’s for function, fashion, or fetish—we want to hear from you. From gym wear to bedroom gear, jocks are everywhere. Take the UNB Reader Survey below and share your favorites
Thong fans, your moment is here! Whether you wear them every day or on special occasions, we want to know what makes them perfect for you. Share your go-to brands and boldest looks. Take the 2025 Reader Survey below and let us know why you love thongs
Tighty whities but make it hot. If white briefs are your style, tell us why! Are they classic comfort, a throwback kink, or a daily favorite? Click below to take the Reader Survey and show your white brief pride
Looking for a brand that is sexy, fun, and you can wear every day? Check out Pikante they have some really amazing designs and colors. If you want your undies to pop, this is the brand for you
MODUS VIVENDI Introduces Green to the Illusion Line – The “Juicy” Campaign Turns Up the Heat
MODUS VIVENDI is proud to unveil a new colorway for its best-selling Illusion Line as part of the SS 2025 Collection. Now available in green, this expansion of the line debuts alongside the visually playful and provocative “Juicy” Campaign, taking the art of seduction to the next level.
The Illusion Line is designed to captivate. Crafted from a soft, thin, and elasticated semitransparent mesh, the fabric molds comfortably to the body, enhancing your natural lines while offering a lightweight, breathable feel. This two-tone all-over print design blends strategic patterning with clever color contrasts, sculpting the body and creating the visual illusion of a more defined shape. Whether worn for bold expression or under sleek clothing, these pieces deliver style without sacrificing comfort.
A true fusion of elegance and innovation, the Illusion Line now comes in three statement shades: neon, black, and the freshly introduced green. Each color plays with light and shadow in its own way, emphasizing texture and form to flatter and elevate every body type.
Available in a range of underwear and apparel options, the Illusion Line is perfect for those who embrace expressive fashion and sleek design. The new green pieces are now live on our e-shop and ready to transform your summer wardrobe.
Discover the Illusion Line and immerse yourself in the playful yet sophisticated world of MODUS VIVENDI. The Spring-Summer 2025 Collection invites you to redefine everyday luxury—because true style is about confidence, comfort, and a little bit of illusion.
Get ready to go green — bold, fresh, and irresistibly juicy.
It’s time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover MODUS VIVENDI’s SS 25 Collection, available now for purchase online here. For more information about the line and the campaign, please contact us at marketing@e-modusvivendi.com.
Discover the “Juicy” Campaign here.
Shop Products here.
Grab your JAMBOREE JOCK BOYS, it’s time to go camping! N2N’s latest incarnation in 2 “s’more worthy” fabulous colors. If you like jocks, you’ll love this one
GX3 out of Japan is a brand that I think is doing some of the most creative things in the world of underwear, swim, and gear. They make the things I love, skimpy cuts and bold colors. They just dropped a new swim bikini and it has a clip on the side for easy access. Go check them out,
We’re thrilled to share the stunning lifestyle shots of L’Homme Invisible’s latest additions: the Rouen and Sèvres lines, part of their Spring/Summer 2025 “Flower Power” collection. These elegant styles draw inspiration from the intricate beauty of traditional French china patterns — mixing delicate detail with daring design.
See the full collection at L’Homme Invisible and bring a touch of timeless French artistry to your top drawer.
One brand that really brought a fetish twist to the world of underwear and gear is Maskulo. This brand out of Russia was one of the first to make the marriage of gear and sports gear. These singlets had the cod piece and pads on the quads. It reminded me of football gear, but with a kinky twist. This picture was from 2017, but they are still going strong and making amazing gear
On a recent episode of Brief Talk After Dark, UNB Tim sat down with two titans of the spandex world—Andy E. Lycra and Fourway—to dive deep into the fetish side of spandex. The result was an honest, affirming, and inspiring conversation about what draws men to the tight, glossy world of Lycra and why it deserves more celebration and community.
For many, spandex is more than just athletic gear—it’s a deeply personal fetish. Whether it was Adam West’s Batman suit or a pair of football pants that hugged all the right places, most spandex enthusiasts remember the moment it clicked. The fabric is transformative, sensual, and confidence-boosting. It reveals just enough, while still leaving something to the imagination.
Andy recalled early exposure through dancewear and classic superhero costumes, while Fourway shared how football gear in high school sparked his obsession. Both emphasized the texture, tightness, and sculpting power of spandex—how it hugs imperfections, enhances bulges, and turns you into someone new. It’s not just clothing. It’s a second skin.
One major theme was the journey from shame to confidence. For both guests, the early days involved hiding—sneaking out in gear under cover of darkness, taking photos in secret, or limiting their love of Lycra to the bedroom. But gradually, through baby steps, they began to embrace it publicly. Running, cycling, and gym workouts offered socially “acceptable” avenues for wearing tights and singlets out in the world. And with each step, confidence grew.
Now, Fourway cycles through Boston in full skinsuits, gets compliments instead of stares, and feels more like himself in spandex than without. Andy, while still building his courage, recently stepped out in public in a Spider-Man suit during a trip to Thailand—an act of visibility he hopes to repeat more often.
Beyond public gear, the trio celebrated the more erotic, fetish-driven side of spandex. Brands like End to End and Armoryse design suits with deliberate bulge enhancement, butt framing, and body contouring that go far beyond performance wear. While not for everyday use, these pieces serve a powerful purpose—helping men feel sexy, confident, and expressive in ways other fabrics simply can’t.
Andy described his love for zentai suits and sheer spandex, while Fourway lauded full-body technical suits, especially those with precise seams, sculpted pouches, and strategic cutouts. As Tim put it, spandex lets you be “someone else in your own skin.” It’s about transformation and fantasy—and that deserves to be celebrated.
Despite the widespread appeal of spandex, the community around it is still fragmented. Unlike leather or rubber, which have well-established events and gatherings, spandex lovers often fly solo. But that’s starting to change.
Fourway has built a small but dedicated group of local gear lovers who meet for hikes, kayaking, or just hanging out in tights. Andy has started nudging UK-based guys to connect at club nights and events, and UNB Tim is exploring meetups through his podcast and blog.
All three agreed that visibility, conversation, and respectful wear are key to normalizing spandex—and helping others feel seen. Whether it’s through social media, small meetups, or bigger dreams of a dedicated spandex gathering, the goal is clear: show the world that men in spandex aren’t oddities—they’re confident, creative, and connected.
As Fourway said on the podcast, “There’s nothing wrong with wearing spandex. Guys can wear spandex. It’s not an issue.” The more we talk about it, the more we destigmatize it—and the closer we get to a world where no one has to hide what they love.
So go ahead—pull on that singlet, slide into those tights, and step out into the world. Whether for sport, fashion, or fetish, spandex is for you. Be bold, be visible, and be yourself.
I have had so many amazing things happen to me because of UNB. These range from shoots to Vegas trips to meeting so many people. Some of them are famous and infamous. Lastly, one of the most special to me is the podcast. But all in all, it has been one of the best decisions of my life. That doesn’t mean that there haven’t been bad times, but the good outweighs the bad by far.
I will summarize some of the most iconic UNB moments and give you a behind-the-scenes view. The good, bad, and ugly. You will discover that things didn’t go as smoothly as they seemed. And I want to bring back the shoots. It’s been something I’ve wanted to do for a few years. Stay tuned on that.
Here are some of the things I plan to talk about
I know I’m missing a ton of great stories, and as I remember them, I will write them. And never fear—new things are happening all the time, so the stories will keep going on and on. Lastly, feel free to suggest topics and Unb events to write about. The first post will be our very first guide, which was a swim guide with one model.
MODUS VIVENDI Unveils “True Colors” Campaign & Pride Swimwear Line from the Swimwear 2025 Collection.
MODUS VIVENDI proudly launches the True Colors Campaign, a celebration of individuality, inclusivity, and the fearless expression of identity. Part of the Swimwear 2025 Collection, this bold and joyful campaign shines a spotlight on our new Pride Swimwear Line—a vibrant tribute to the LGBTQIA+ community and the beauty of living authentically.
The True Colors Campaign captures the essence of pride: love, unity, and unapologetic self-expression. Through stunning visuals and bold styling, it invites everyone to show up, as they are— confident, proud, and empowered. It is more than just a summer vibe; it is a powerful reminder that being true to yourself is the ultimate statement.
Introducing the Pride Swimwear Line—a dynamic collection designed to make waves. Drawing inspiration from the iconic rainbow flag and the universal call for love and equality, this line goes beyond fashion. It is about standing tall in your truth and celebrating life without filters.
Crafted with bold, lavish designs that blend elements of both bikinis and briefs, each piece redefines traditional swimwear with a playful twist. A one-sided adjustable ribbon in rainbow hues brings movement, flair, and pride to every look.
All styles feature a fast drying elasticated fabric and front lining for comfort and practicality, without compromising on boldness. As part of our Responsible Edit, these pieces are made from recycled, previously loved fabrics, honoring our commitment to sustainability and giving materials a renewed purpose.
This summer, show your True Colors. Celebrate freedom. Celebrate love. Celebrate YOU—with MODUS VIVENDI’s Pride Swimwear Line. It is time to make a difference in what you wear. Discover SS 25 Collection, available for purchase online here.
Discover the Campaign here.
Shop the Line here.
A playful throwback to the unapologetic surf vibes of the 90s. Inspired by the era’s iconic swimwear—bold colors, carefree patterns, and that easygoing energy—this collection channels millennial nostalgia into modern, head-turning beachwear. Designed for sexy men who don’t settle for average, it’s the most elevated swimwear on the market—confident, flattering, and made to stand out. This is the Hunk Menswear Sunset Brief.
Sssssssssslip into our sexy SERPENT STRING BIKINI. Tiny waist, ample pouch, cute ass booty…what else do you need? Can double as underwear or sexy swimwear
The Tidal Thong from Todd Sanfield is the ultimate T-back swim thong for your collection. With its streamlined design, this piece ensures superior comfort and a bold style statement, ideal for those who appreciate modern swimwear aesthetics. Perfect for those who want to show a little more than the traditional thong.
Borneo brings bold Colombian flair to the world of men’s fashion—with a conscience. 100% Colombian and proud, Borneo fuses style and sustainability to create standout designs that don’t compromise the planet. Known for their high-quality craftsmanship and eco-conscious approach, Borneo has made waves in the fashion world, participating in major events and winning awards for their commitment to conscious design. Beyond their own collection, Borneo also offers full-package manufacturing services to leading brands in Colombia and beyond—blending creativity, responsibility, and world-class production.
It’s been a while since we did a Throwback Thursday, but let’s rewind to our 2017 Swimwear Guide. This was right before thongs really took off and became the trend they are today. Back then, it was a challenge getting models to wear them! This featured pair is from JOR — a brand that’s always pushed boundaries
