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Hello kinksters,

             Today is a Part 1 of a two-part post. I hope your week has been going well, mine has been quite dandy. More things have arrived, and you will hear about them soon. This week, I am painfully excited to share this post. I’ll save you the tl;dr anxiety, and just tell you off the bat: Today’s post is part 1 of 2, reviewing leather gear by “Army of Men” from Australia. Specifically, the Bulldog Harness in Blue, and the Bulldog Cockstrap. We’ll get back to that in a second, but I want to give some context for the elation (if you just want the damn review, skip the next paragraph).

In the past year or so, I have been undergoing a sexual identity reconstruction. For most of my sexually active life. I was under the very wrong impression that anything beyond the world of vanilla was “other” and “weird”. Thankfully, I have encountered some incredible people who have helped me reexamine the boundaries of my sexuality and discover more about myself than I could have on my own. To a very special trio (whom I will humorously discreetly name the “Vermont Glitch-mob”), I want to give them my love and thanks. One of the things I wholeheartedly accept into my life now is my total kinked out feelings about leather. I am a professional seamster, and sew leather pretty regularly, because I make special boots for trapeze artists. I love the feel of leather, I love its texture, and shine. Now, I can also totally say, a stud in leather (including myself) gets me going. When I knew I was going to be re-structuring Fetish Friday into a weekly column, I started connecting with companies all over the world, and the owner of Army of Men responded very enthusiastically, and here we are.

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Derrick, owner of Army of Men, responded to me when I began researching companies and products to discuss on my Fetish Fridays. He was super generous with info about his company, and products, and helped me with my selection. After bouncing back and forth with him, we selected the Bulldog Harness in Blue, the Bulldog Cockstrap, and the Leather Jock Base in Blue, with a Chevron Codpiece (you guessed it, in Blue). Everything is made to order, because Derrick makes each piece to fit your measurements. Today, I’m going to discuss the Harness and Cockstrap.

I have a X shaped harness in Neoprene, but this was going to be my first real leather harness, and I was really excited to get the Bulldog harness. As a pretty chesty guy (read: professional aerialist), the Bulldog harness draws focus to my broad shoulders, and chest. Derrick himself makes everything, and builds harnesses with a three snap amount of “ease” so you can snap the straps one step tighter or looser than your “baseline” (with the snaps being about an inch apart). When I opened my package from him, the first thing you notice right away, is the quality of leather being used. As I said, I work with leather all the time, and he is clearly choosing very top grade hides. This harness has a triple layer of leather: a doubled outer layer, with a single black leather layer lining the inside against your skin. His rings are quality metal and welded shut. Snaps are strong and sturdy (and custom colored to match the different leather colors and thread he uses).

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                Putting the harness on, this harness is magnificent, Blue straps over the shoulders and around the sides of the torso, with a black straps including centered D rings across the front and back. This D ring is for the second item I got which is the Bulldog Cockstrap. This strap snaps onto the D ring in the front of the harness, and reaches down to a ring which goes around your…read the product name again. It comes with two firm rubber rings, but the strap snaps around the D ring up top, and the ring down below, so you can switch it out to a ring of your choice. The Cockstrap also has an adjustable belt buckle to make it shorter or longer. The leather lining makes everything hug your body so sure and warm.

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Being a professional seamster who was “raised” by a group of incredible impeccable seamstresses (thank you Jamie and the Temple University Costume Shop), I can tell you that Derrick puts a lot of love and dedication to his leather work. They are pristine, and bold, and strong. His design eye is also innovative, and not just sticking to the basics.

                 This is just part 1 of the two parter for all the stuff I got. Thanks for tuning in. I think next week, we’ll tackle some of what I received THIS week in the mail, and then we’ll do the 2nd part of Army of Men the week after. If you have a sec, I’d love it if you’d all comment below your own journey with leather, or if you haven’t and want to, let me know. It’d be great to hear from y’all.

Until next time, keep it kinky! TtheAmazing over and out.

Hey all you fetish fantasticos! I hope you had a great week. Something really special to me arrived this week in the mail, but you will hear about that soon enough. This week, the hint (if you read last week’s post) was “WHISTLE”.

Did you guess correctly?

SINGLETS!!!!!!! (Whistle, like the way wrestling matches are cued…too vague?)

This week I wanna focus on a specific cut of singlet. The LOW cut racerback singlet. Essentially, what you get is a pair of booty shorts, with some pouch room up front, and then two suspender-like straps going up the chest, around the neck, meeting at the nape in a junction turning into one suspender strap leading to the back of the short.

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N2N PX Singlet

As for wrestling, it’s a pretty dumb outfit, but when it comes to ticking the spandex sexytime box, and the sporty sexy time box, it wins. A subtle design aspect of the suspender straps, also ticks the box that “The Notebook” style shirtless hunk in suspenders fits in (come on, don’t tell me a shirtless hunk in suspenders doesn’t do it for ya).

I have a lot of singlets, but only a few of these, it seems like most companies make ONE of these, rather than a whole bunch of different styles. What I love about this style is the way it lifts up the shorts on either side of your pouch, so you get a very nice “weighty” effect to your bulge (no complaints here). The back being racerback also allows you to show a lot of skin, and give a very seductive lead down to your tush.

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Manview singlet.

In my arsenal, i own 2 from N2N Bodywear (2 different kinds of the PX singlet), and one from ManView (a sexy mesh one with neon blue bindings around the edges). I am getting a new one from a different company but it’s still in the mail right now. You will be hearing more about that once it arrives. So many exciting things to share, but can’t do it all at once.

So tell me, do you prefer your singlets higher cut, or are you into the super low cut style?

Tune in next week for more Fetish Friday. As I said, something arrived in the mail this week that I’m very excited about. You will hear part 1 of my excitement next Friday.

Until next time,

TtheAmazing over and out.

11085-LHello Fetish Friday readers, welcome to the second week of this glorious column. If you didn’t catch last week’s post about the Fort Troff Grunt Jock, it’s definitely worth a read. This week, we’re going in a very different direction (I want Fetish Friday to welcome all kinks and curiosities).

In my recent conversations with gentlemen callers. I have come across a fetish that I’m not that into, and a stimulation that I agree with. The first gentleman was really into women’s lingerie, “panties” was the term he used. While I can say that’s certainly not something I’m into, I’ve heard about it enough to be a presence. The latter gentleman told me what he was most into is seeing a wet bulge (i.e. speedos, showering in undies…etc). Now, this idea I can certainly get behind (or in front of). I was thinking about what would pair in my arsenal would make a good wet-bulge performance. I realized the pair I selected kind of felt like it could jive with the women’s lingerie guy a bit. That brought me to remember my order from BodyAware a few months ago. And here we have it, the pair for this week’s Fetish Friday: the BodyAware Invisible Shaper Brief.

BodyAware is not a frilly brand. They make sexy contouring shapes that hug the body. No crazy strap configurations, or metallic waistbands. They are sleek and sensual. Their fabric is very thin, but of high quality 90% polyamide/10% spandex blend. The Invisible Shaper Brief is a sexy brief, with a very nicely pushed out pouch. The fabric has a bit of sheerness to it (probably more for the lighter colors). When wet, the fabric doesn’t droop or sag, but all the details get a bit more visible.

While I don’t have anything that would truly satisfy the women’s panty gentleman. I think this would definitely fall into the genre of men’s lingerie. I can also guarantee it was a hit with the Wet Bulge Appreciation Society. It’s silky, it’s skimpy, it’s sheer, and it gives everything a little lift. This guy costs a mere $18.50 over on the BodyAware site.

Thank you for reading kinksters, I’m looking forward to seeing you all next Friday…I have a hint for the genre: whistle.

TtheAmazing over and out.

Hello Kinksters and Curious! Allow me to introduce you to the new and incredible weekly column,“FETISH FRIDAYS”! Each week, we will feature fetish-wear of all kinks and tastes from the best brands around. We will also occasionally have some provocative interviews with fantastic fetish-wear models, designers, celebrators. I have extremely high hopes for just how awesome this column will be. Please share your thoughts in the comments section; I will keep an eye out.

For the inaugural post and I wanted to share a personal favorite in my arsenal; surprise surprise, it’s from Fort Troff. If you don’t know Fort Troff, they are an amazing sex-positive kink-positive hardcore sex toy and gear store located in Atlanta. They don’t have a huge clothing selection, but what they do carry is phenomenal. Today, I’d like to discuss the Grunt Jock Modular Chassis and Pouch system.

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What you buy is a jock that has no pouch on the front, with snaps at the top two corners of the pouch area, and one under the balls. Where the pouch would go is a very thrilling Jock  Armour Cock Ring (also sold as it’s own cock ring). Then, separately, you have 5 different pouches to choose from that snap onto the front of the jock chassis:

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  • Black Spandex
  • Blue Spandex
  • Yellow Spandex
  • Red Spandex

The built in Armour cock ring is made out of a blend of TPR and Silicone. It is a great size and stretchy-ness especially for the girthy guys out there (represent!). They have redesigned this ring, and I have both the old and new versions. The new version is the comfort equivalent of kinky lounge wear.

The pouches are all cut in the style of more a boxy leather type pouch with a centered vertical strip and curved side walls. The centered strip features the Fort Troff logo. For the neoprene pouch, the sides are textures with little bitty diamonds, which gives it a very hardcore look. The spandex has the same rubber center logo strip with spandex side panels.

I love this jock for many reasons. The first reason is the straps are nice and thick, so they feel firm and steady. The other big feature is the pouch is fully detachable. So when you are ready to reveal the present within, you don’t have an awkward pouch flap hanging between your legs (there should only be one focus between your legs). I personally own the black neoprene pouch and a blue spandex pouch. I like the spandex a little bit more than the neoprene pouch, but love them both for different occasions.

 

The jock chassis itself is $50, and the Neoprene Pouch and Spandex pouches are $26 and $16 respectively. To start combining your jock, go to Fort Troff

That’s my fav for the day, check back next Friday for another installment of FETISH FRIDAYS!

-TtheAmazing over and out!

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Fetish Friday is all about stepping outside your normal undies and wearing something fun. Something you love and has a hint of sexualness. Is that even a word? Fetish wear let’s us escape our every day and live out a fantasy or unleash our darker side. But in a good way! Not everyone has a closet full of fetishwear. Some are just getting started in this world.

Are you looking to get into the fetish world but not do a deep dive in? If you said yes the pair we are profiling this week is just for you! The Fetish Friday pair is the Neoprene Bulge Brief from BodyAware. This pair can actually do double duty as underwear or swimwear! So it’s basically a two for one!

These neoprene briefs are made out of the similar material as wet suits. Neoprene has become of the hottest fabrics in men’s swimwear/underwear. BodyAware has joined other brands in creating gear in the fabric. One thing to know about neoprene is it’s super tight. Its made to conform to your body.

It’s called the Bulge brief for a reason. It’s designed to enhance and show off what you are packing. It will enhance what ever you have no matter what size you are. “No matter what type of pants you are wearing the bulge from this unique pair of underwear will pop and excite. Now any man can have a nice package bulging out to be seen and admired.”

As we mentioned above this pair is made to fit snug. If you want to to have looser fit make sure you go up a size. Sizing for this pair is pretty standard. Care instructions for the pair are hand wash and dry. Keep that in mind when you purchase this pair.

I love this pair a lot. Its sexy and fun without being too over the top. Many guys out there want to do something different but don’t want to dive head first in the fetish wear. Its sometimes good to wade into the waters and test things out.

The Neoprene bulge brief is from Bodyaware and retails for $37.95 and is just available in black

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Bodysuits are growing in popularity in the world of men’s fetishwear. They can be worn under jeans out or under your work clothes (suit or uniform). One of the newest bodysuits on the market is the ManStore String Body. If you aren’t familiar with ManStore, and you love fetishwear, you need to learn about them quick. They make some super fun pairs of underwear and fetishwear. Based out of Germany

A general overview of the suit is:

This super micro fabric is wafer-thin, high-elastic, slightly transparent, sensitive and extremely skin-tight … perfect ingredients for a sexy line, which strongly forms what the self-conscious man likes to show. In black or white, all the eccentric Manstore cuts, shapes and functions are assembled here in M101. Jock straps, thongs and pants … partly with lasso – or bungee function, partly with push-up equipment or with other fascinating details.

This bodysuit has a thong back. Which adds to the sexy appeal of the pair. We are seeing more and more body suits with thong backs. So thong fans rejoice! I think I like the thong back more than the full back. The full back has the potential of riding up or loosing its shape during the day.

So where would you wear this pair? First, I could this at a fetish bar night. Pair it with jeans and boots. Maybe some leather accessories. Next, Fetish wear is not just for the bedroom or bar. The white could be worn under a suit or work clothes. The only problem I see is going to the bathroom. It’s like wearing a singlet to work. There is no easy way to go. Let’s face it we have to be practical. I’m sure you guys could get super creative in where you wear it.

The bodysuit is available in white and black. Each one retails for 45,95 Euros. I am currently unaware of a US store that carries ManStore. This can be purchased from the ManStore website

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Material: 80% Polyamid, 20% Elasthan
Color: black or White
Cost: 45,95 Euros

Finding new fetish brands for you guys is one thing I really love! One of the new brands I just love is Maskulo. You may have seen them at Jockstrap Central. We have promoted them a few times. I wanted to give you guys a more in depth view of this company. Which totally fits our Fetish Friday brand! This is not gear you wear to the grocery store, but for a fun night.

The first thing that stuck me about the company is they are based out of Russia. I wasn’t expecting it, rather I was thinking they were out of Germany. I say this because of all the political issues surrounding being gay in Russia. This brand definitely is after the gay market but anyone wanting to have fun is definitely welcome!

One thing you may notice about the pairs is, they are inspired by Football (American that is). Most of the pairs have a padded section that will remind you of football pants or shoulder pads. My personal opinion is I Love this look. I have always had a thing for this kind of gear. I can’t just break out the UNB budget on the gear. The Jocks are at the low end at $38.52 (with exchange rates on 35.40 Euros).

What gear do they have?

Men’s Codpiece JockStrap G-string Thong Underwear – If I had to pick a favorite piece in the collection it would be the jock. I love the football inspired look of the entire collection and the gear geek in me would love to put it all on. The jock to me is HOT. It has a foam rubber cod piece. That detaches from the jock for easy access. Another piece of the jock I like is the waistband. Unlike a lot of leather looking fetish jock, its has a more traditional waistband. But much like a leather jock this is made for fun!

Men’s Leggings. Codpiece, leather-look pads. Gay fetish gear. Electric Blue – Not everything is backless in the collection. The leggings are more like runners with a cod piece. “the leather look rubber-foam pads will make your thighs and calves look very impressive. You can enjoy them by your own or invite several more lycra or muscle fans.”

Men’s Fetish Spandex Shorts. American football style. Codpiece, Thigh pads. White, Black – You can see the football inspiration in the pants. On the thighs are two padded panels that definitely mimic the football pads. The white also bring out more of the compression gear as well. Image if UnderArmour went fetish and you get this pair!

Men’s Fetish Spandex Wrestling Singlet. Yellow Lycra XS XL XXL Kickboxing COR – The singlets are a like a lot of the fetish singlets. It’s low cut and has an open back. The one addition that makes it truly Maskulo is the cod piece in the front that is detachable. You can wear it on or off.

Mens Fetish Top (Short Sleeve T-Shirt) with Shoulder guards / pads. Red – “Huge shoulders make a man look very impressive! That is why we created fetish t-shirt / top with leather-look shoulder pads!” This shirt has the look and feel of shoulder pads with out the bulk. It’s a super hot look in the shirt.

The sizing made me do a double take. The sizing is: 2XS (26-28″, 67-71 cm), XS (28-30″, 72-76 cm), S (30-32″, 77-81 cm), M (32-34″, 82-86 cm), L (34-36″, 87-91 cm), XL (36-38″, 92-96 cm), 2XL (38-40″, 97-101 cm), 3XL (40-42″, 102-106 cm), 4XL (42-44″, 107-111 cm), 5XL (44-46″, 112-116 cm). It’s every two inches is a new size.

If you want to check out these styles see the Maskulo website!

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We have said it before that the Harness is the next big trend in the men’s fetish world. They come in all shapes and sizes as well. Male Power has released their own harness collection. This consists of two pieces, the top harness and bottom c-ring. One thing I like about this one is its not too thick. Many can be super wide and uncomfortable. Also it comes in three different colors. The fetish world is starting to embrace more colors than just black.

Male Power is always one to make super sexy underwear. So it’s not unusual to have them come out with this line. I really like this line. Its super sexy and can be functional as well. You can wear it to a bar night or put it under clothes for a fun time later with someone special. Here is a look at the front and back of each pair:

Harness is the perfect undergarment for the untamed man.  It is a two piece set made with super stretch satin elastane and adjustable snaps, to ensure perfect fit and complete comfort. The outfit is accessorized with a ring in the shoulder harness, and a detachable C-ring in the waistband, for quick access to your assets. Color choices include black, orange and turquoise.

Find these at your favorite Underwear Seller!

 

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Undies Monday is all about feeling sexy in your underwear. Finding that perfect style, fabric or brand you just fell amazing in. Fetish Friday is all about FUN. Its about embracing something outside your box and trying something new. It could be leather, satin, lace or more. There is no one definition of fetish wear! Much like our love of underwear it’s something different for everyone.

One of the most classic definitions for the general public for fetish wear involves the leather community. Specifically leather, latex and rubber materials. The pair we chose this week is the Modus Vivendi Latex Jock.

The Latex Jock, for those who maybe allergic, is a latex look rather than latex. If you are allergic before you order make sure you contact Modus Vivendi to make sure its not made out of any latex. Unlike traditional jocks this has a very wide waistband. It’s approximately 10 cm which translates to around 4 inches. The traditional classic jock has a 3 inch band. This means it is higher on the waist and they say it will give you a “new sensation”

Modus Vivendi is inspired by their Greek heritage. It shows through in this pair. It’s a different design from most western underwear companies. Also, Modus Vivendi is not afraid to try new things  and experiment in their designs. Its just a lot of fun! Modus Vivendi to me, is one of the most innovative underwear/swimwear companies on the market today. I hope they never loose their sense of design and fun.

If you are interested in this pair you can check it out at the Modus Vivendi site. It retails for 27.80 Euros.

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madridIt’s Fetish FRIDAY! How many of you out there are excited? How many are participating? If you aren’t think about doing it next week or on a date! Most Fetish Friday’s we cover something skimpy and small. Let’s face it there are a lot of us out there who love this type of underwear. Bare as you dare as they say. And there is nothing wrong with that at all!

There are other pairs that are considered fetish that aren’t skimpy. When anything larger comes to mind I think of leather shorts or chaps. We aren’t going that far this week but we do have a super fun pair. It’s the Pikante Drako Boxer. What makes this pair so much fun is the sides. Each side has three straps that join the front and back. Which will show off a little skin on the sides!

The Drako boxer is made out of a shiny 95% polyester 5% spandex fabric. It gives it a sort of rubber/latex look. The front does have a contoured pouch that will give you some great support. The back is a full back (well where the straps end) as well. The waistband is a shiny almost metallic Pikante waistband that really off sets the pair.

The color of the pair is something that may throw you. Each side of the boxer is a different color. The gold is gold in the front but red in the back. Where as the black is black in front and white in the back. This design feature really gets the pair off well. It’s creative and super fun.

If you are looking for something different and fun we suggest you check out the Pikante Drako Boxer. Get either the Gold, Black or both! Find this pair at Candyman Fashion for $34.48

NOTE: UNB Tim does consulting work for GDD World/Candyman Fashion

Fetish FridayFetish wear is not just leather and black. It can be anything that is out of the ordinary for men’s underwear. That could include lace, satin, latex, rubber or leather. The item we choose for this week’s Fetish Friday is the Body Aware Smooth Satin Bodysuit. This is because we have all the new singlets on the market. But this is something to the next level! It’s sexy and fun.

BodyAware is well known in mixing the masculine and feminine side of men’s underwear. The mixing of satin, lace and more feminine cuts to the undies. They just have fun making undies and guys seem to love it. The Smooth Satin Bodysuit is a pair of underwear and a tank all in one. Except this bodysuit has a thong back! Here is the official description: “Soft, supple and very shiny satin thong bodysuit for men. This superb sport-styled bodysuit provides shape and support with a flattering style that highlights your shoulders, waist and butt. Constructed of smooth satin blend of polyester/spandex that is lightweight and stretchy. Allows you to move freely, without constriction. Center seam down front and back provides perfect contouring and fit. Step-in styling and rounded neckline. Thong back.”

You maybe asking where would you wear it? I guess any you want! It could be worn under jeans and out to a bar. Also you could wear it under your work clothes (suit or uniform), but we would recommend you wearing the white one for that. Other colors may come through!

The pair comes in four different colors. They are white, black, navy and turquoise. The Smooth Satin Bodysuit is $39.95 at the BodyAware Site!

Do you have a favorite fetish pair? Let us know so we can feature it!

_MG_2254Should I? We’ve all said it, whether while standing in a great underwear store or clicking through pages online. Should I? I mean, I’ll NEVER actually wear it. Will I? I just don’t see the point if I’m not going to use it. Right?

All I will say is: If you get it, you’ll find a reason, a time, an occasion to wear em if you want to.

Sometimes we come across those pairs, the leather straps, the unsupportive mesh the zippers that we secretly want to have even if it’s just to have it. One of the first pairs like that for me was a leather jockstrap with a zipper right down the pouch. I don’t remember the brand, I don’t remember where I got it and sadly, I don’t have that pair anymore. Did I ever find a time to wear it? You bet I did.

Deciding to buy a piece of what might be called fetish or erotic wear comes down to the same thing as any high quality underwear. Will it make YOU the wearer, feel good? If it will make you feel sexy, then forget about the potential viewer.  Forget about a potential situation.  If it gives you a spring in your step then it’s 100% worth it. This is about you and what makes YOU feel hotter than the sun.

For those who are really concerned about the usefulness…if there is a willy there is a way-y.  Fetish wear or leather is not something that everyone uses or incorporates into their every day or their bedroom time, that’s okay. That does not mean, however, that you shouldn’t let yourself try owning one. Should I? Will I? Right? It’s okay to just, have it. To know that it’s there in a drawer and then one day you’ll mention it to your date, spouse, significant other, as a joke and the joke will become real and even if it’s just for that one time, worth it.

To date I have a handful of those pairs and I like having them. I have some black all mesh Male Basics briefs. I have a Petite-Q c-string. I have a generic zippered speedo. I have a blue and white Pulse jockstrap with mesh pouch, and more. Have I ever used any of them as regular underwear or to spice things up? Absolutely. Do I use them or wear them very often? Absolutely not. But I could, because I have them.

Should you? Sure, why not! Find one that the thought of having secretly excites you and then muster the courage and get it.

So if you’re thinking that Fetish Friday isn’t for you, it could be if you let it.

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It’s Fetish Friday! That day we profile something super fun and not your everyday wear! It could be something to wear for a “romantic” night or to a Bar night. These pairs would be for the former unless you are an exhibitionist. The pairs we choose are the Candyman S&M Costumes.

These 3 styles you could have your very on 50 Shades of Grey in the bedroom. As you would expect all three are black but a variation of fun! The first is one for those who love a thong. The 99157 S&M Costume is a mix of a thong and harness with a blindfold and cuffs. Both the cuffs and blindfold are made out of a leather looking material. The thong has almost a harness like look, it crosses in the front and goes over the shoulders. It’s for those who aren’t shy and want to have fun wearing it!

The next style the 99159 is a pair of mesh boxer briefs and a blind fold. You may think you will show off less in this but you would be wrong! The boxer briefs are mesh, except the pouch, and has a lace up back. The blindfold is made out of the same leather like material with some accents around the edge! It’s super fun and sexy!

The last style is the 99161 which is the same as the 99159 except it has the cuffs instead of the blindfold. Granted the cuffs are not super tight but all these are for fun. If you want both the cuffs and blinforld get the 9915.

If you want the real S&M experience you need to get something a bit more fetishy. But for something fun to spice up the bedroom these could just do the trick. Thsee aren’t too over the top or too intense if you want to dip your toe in on the fetish side with your partner. One of the biggest trends in fetish wear is S&M style. More and more brands are having fun with this style of of underwear.

They are super fun and sexy! You can find these at Candyman Fashion

NOTE: UNB Tim does consulting work for GDD World and Candyman Fashion.

 

tailored_harness_site4Harnesses are BIG right now. In the world of fetishwear harnesses are the new singlet. Just about every company has one these days. In the years gone by the harness was a piece of clothing you would just find at a leather bar or S&M club. The only other place you would find them worn would be at Pride celebrations around the country.

Now they are going mainstream. Its not uncommon to see them on the net and in stores. What is making this happen? I think its guys want to have fun and wear something to show off in. I could be wrong but I think we will see a lot more harnesses going forward.

Now onto Fetish Friday! When I was thinking who we should pic to feature a harness, Slick It Up was the first company that came to mind. They make amazing fetishwear in spandex and other fun, tight materials. After looking through their site the Tailored Harness and Perfect Jock were for a lack of better word, perfect!

The Tailored Harness is not an over the shoulder harness you are familiar with. Most go like an X across the chest or on the upper chest and arms. This harness is tailored like mens clothing so it will accent the body. The design minimizes the waist and brings attention to the parts of the body you want to show off. That means it is the traditional harness on the chest but goes down to your mid thigh. The Tailored Harness retails for $84.

The Perfect Jock is paired with the Tailored Harness. It doesn’t have to be worn with it, but does make a nice combination.  The three panel design of the jock has the look of leather. However, its not leather but a spandex material made to look like leather. If you have ever worn a leather jock you know it can be very hot after a while. This will give you the look of leather with the wearability and ease of care of spandex. That means it can wear it under anything! The Perfect Jock retails for $38.

Find both of these pairs on the Slick It Up website.

manstore zipper collectionIts Fetish Friday! Its that day when we bring you a great pair of fetishwear! This week we chose a pair from the Man Store. If you aren’t familiar with the Man Store they are basically like a big candy store for lovers of erotic/fetishwear. They aren’t too well known in the US. Occasionally you will see something but for the most part many out there may not have heard of it before!

The Zippered is one that has the look of latex. If you are familiar with latex it’s a material that is not the easiest to care for or the cheapest. It takes a lot of special care for latex clothing. This pair has the look of latex but actually made out of micro fiber. Meaning it will be easier to care for and maintain. There is nothing worse than spending big money on a pair of gear only to have issues with it later!

The two of the M314 line is a thong and a brief. The matte finish to the fabric makes this super sexy. It’s a very cool fabric that I like a lot. The pairs also have a grey trim that sets off the two very nicely. It’s not over the top or detracts from the fetish look. Speaking of fetish look each pair has a zipper. One interesting thing about this line is the zipper can be unzipped from either end! Talk about fun.

Many out there may think that zippers and underwear shouldn’t go together! We don’t think so, there are many pairs that the zipper makes them super hot! The Man Store loves to make sexy yet masculine fetish wear that are made to have fun in!

The Zippered Thong is 17.95 Euros and the Zippered Brief is 27.95 Euros. Each can be found at the Man Store website!

Hooked-AmbianceToday is Fetish Friday! The entire day we have profiled some awesome fetishwear! It wouldn’t be complete if we didn’t profile one of the best companies making fetish wear, Gregg Homme! They make gear that is super sexy and amazingly comfortable! Just about anything they sell you will be able to wear under a suit to work all day and forget you have something fun on!

We are profiling the Hooked Collection. Why? Because it’s super hot! Harnesses are huge right now, more and more companies are coming out with them. The Hooked collection as said by Gregg Homme: ”

Strap yourself in for a wild ride! This risqué gear will shock and arouse your partner with its thick leather bands, firm metal loops and buckles in both front and back. Whether you dabble in dominance or submission, the HOOKED collection will fit your lifestyle like a glove.” It’s super sexy

Gregg homme hooked harnessThe line consists of the Hooked Harness and Thong. The Harness “Thick 1.5″ faux leather straps are lightweight enough to be fun, but sturdy enough to show you mean business” Its the look of leather with out the sometimes constraining fit of leather. This harness is in the bulldog style of harness that just fits over the shoulders. There are four adjustable buckles in the front that you can adjust to fit in any size guy! It retails for $93.95

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The Hooked Thong is the perfect match to the harness. The Thong “features a thick 1.5″ faux leather waistband secured by a sexy 2″ metal hoop that sits above a suspended drop pouch.” Like the harness this has two adjustable buckles on each size ti make sure you have the perfect fit. The Thong retails for $51.95

Find these and more at the Gregg Homme Site.

26c6c2fc00ac4573ae033d1249d6469bWhen I first found out there was a whole world of undies for men outside of boxers and breifs for men. In an odd way I should thank my parents oddly enough for my love of sexy undies, you see as a child (middle school aged) we took many trips to Las Vegas. It was here that I saw hunderds upon hundreds of signs…like a double dipped ice cream cone. The one thing I noticed that struck me as odd. The men on these adverts, they were in undies I’d never seen before. Men! Massive men, Grown men who looked like they should be doing construction, cutting logs in the deepest darkest rain forest. Just standing there on massive bilbords in thongs, boy shorts. Made of silk, velvet, lace and more fabrics than I could shake my head at.

A few years later, something else had happend, a true realization…I am Bisexual. It had been ever so apperent in my art (very provocitive), That I liked both men and women. However I knew that I would never be big and hunky like those men on the adverts, so…I wanted to show some way that I could be just as sexy. As I moved from town to town and entered my High School years, I took theater. One day putting props away I found a lepord print thong! If I may borrow a quote from one of my heros “Oh my” to be that close and be able to feel them and see the design of such sexy undies. However the fabric was all wrong.

Later that summer I got a job and a prepay amazon card, When I had the house to myself…sitting there in front of the computer picking out ever so carefully what style of undies, the fabric, the prices, and everything else down to the colour. I picked a pair of Lace boy shorts (mind you these are similar to what I bought but not exact http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00V2957P6/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=245K6WC15OEZU&coliid=I3A1YQYEUJE8ZJ).

The weeks following were to say the least, Heavy with antisipation. Then it happend, Oh that glorious day came…my lace undies came in. I don’t think I have ever put on undies so quick yet so slowly. As those lace undies slid up my legs and on, I had to savour the moment. Being as shy and nervous as I was when I was a that young, Only wearing them around the house, maybe a day or two every week or so. I finally got some courage and wore them to school once and I’ve never been more scared or felt so confident and sexy at the same time. People noticed my boost in confidence, I began talking to everyone more. These magical lace undies had boosted my confidence so much I got out of my shell and was comfortable in my own skin, so much so that I began to talk more openly to everyone.

There are many things I could tell you about various undies, in good time I shall. However I want to talk about my love for one of the best fabrics…Lace!

My main reasons are few but very good:
1. Lace is truly breathable.
2. Thin, I never (personally) liked the fact that boxers bunch up or breifs hold everything to tightly.
3. Great for feeling sexy.
4. Not to intimidating for beginers.

Now if you were like me, wanting to take that first true step into a life outside of boxers, breifs, or boxer breifes. I would highly recommend a pair of Joe Snyder Mini Cheek Lace or Lacie BoyShort by MaleBasics, or if you’re feeling extra brave and sexy (I know these aren’t lace but hey isn’t variaty the spice of life?)

Ultra Suede Harness by www.n2nbodywear.com(depending on how big you are, might I suggest getting a pair that has an extended “front pouch”). It may be intimidating at first when you try them on, however if you give them a  good walk around in the house to get used to the feeling. Once you get over that “new undie” feeling and take them out on the town I can personally give you my word you will not just feel sexy but exceptionally more confident.

By Th3doctor

Having been a vagabond for nearly 30 years and known as a jack of all trades Th3doctor has showcased art work in various shows from L.A., Denver, San Diego, Bosie, and many more locations. Having a deep passion for the visual arts Th3doctor has put up art for sale (as well as some attempts at writting) on Redbubble.com.
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Welcome to Fetish Friday! After our reader survey we realize how much you guys like fetish/eroticwear. So the Fetish Friday will be returning. It maybe weekly or bi weekly depending on what we have to share with you guys. The fetish market spans across all sexual orientations. No longer is fetish wear just relegated to the gay boys. The straight guys are catching up on this one!

The first line we are going to cover in this series is the Go Softwear Hard Core. Specifically three different pairs. They are the Street Suspend It Jock, Gluteus Brief and Gluteus Boxer. There are a few more pieces in the line such as a tank, pants, shorts and vest. You should definitely go to the Go Softwear site and check them out!

Go Softwear is no stranger to the world of erotic/fetish wear. They have the Noir and previous Hard Core collections under their belt. No pun intended. The newest additions to the Hard Core line are super fun. Which is what you want in erotic wear. Why go for something that doesn’t show off everything you have.

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The Suspend-It Jock is pretty self explanatory. Its a jock that has a hole in it so you can “suspend your manhood.” The fabric of the jock is cotton/lycra blend with the hole opening has a pleather trim that will stretch to fit any size. So you won’t have to worry you are too big for this pair. The pair also has a newly designed 1 1/2 inch waistband with the Hard Core name on it. The leg straps are a matching elastic but 1 inch width. Retails for $22

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Gluteus Brief – You maybe asking what is a Gluteus Brief? It’s what Go Softwear is calling a jock brief. I will admit the name is very descriptive and interesting. This pair has the same fabric as the Jock. It’s a cotton/lycra blend with a pleather trim. Also, there are pleather inserts on each side of the pouch. The brief also has the same 1 1/2 waistband. Retails for $27.50.
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Gluteus Boxer – If you figured out the Gluteus brief is a jock brief you will know this is a jock boxer. The newest hybrid in the world of men’s underwear. This has the same as above in fabric and waistbands. The thing that is different is the boxer has a 10 inch side seam. This is a longer boxer brief. It should come to your mid thigh. So if you’re looking or something shorter I would suggest the brief. Retails for $28.50

The colors that are available in this line are black and charcoal. I would say get the black. The first is it looks like leather and the second its HOT! But get the color you like best! The line mixes both the traditional fabric with pleather accents. This would be a great starter for those venturing into the world of fetish wear. It’s not totally over the top but its still super sexy. Go Softwear did an amazing job on this collection. If you like it go to Go Softwear and check out the entire new Hard Core collection!

Candyman-Collection-0009One of the great things about Fetish Friday is stretching fantasy into another dimension. With Halloween around the corner, it seemed like a perfect time to discuss the roleplay fetish and how underwear can enhance this experience. Everyone has heard of sexual encounters where partners pretend to be someone else. There is the doctor and patient, cop and robber, and even the contractor and the homeowner. The possibilities are endless when it comes to roles and scenarios that you can play out. Imagine if there was underwear that could take this roleplay to a whole new level.

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Candyman Fashion is an underwear brand that takes underwear and mixes them with sexy costumers to bring a new playfulness to the bedroom. Take for instance, the police officer. The costume underwear features a boxer brief with a fun police design on it. The outfit is complete with a hat, tie, and cuffs to add to the fantasy that this hot cop is going to arrest someone. Another fun costume they feature is the fireman. This boxer brief comes with a strategically placed hose that will be sure to be used before the night is over. The great thing about the Candyman brand is that they recognize fantasy and fun and capitalize on it in their design. These pairs can be worn briefly in part under a pair of pants but are better meant for getting back to the house after dinner and slipping into something more comfortable!

Apart from sexy costumes, Candyman also offers a great variety of fun and stylish underwear with bright vibrant colors, shimmer, zippers, and mesh. These are all excellent additions to the fetish family as they allow for eye popping appeal and have the capability of showing off some skin.

Costumes area a great way to let your imagine run wild and let your inhibitions down. They can add a new dynamic in your sexual encounters or let you escape reality for a day as a character. Since it is Halloween, if you are going to any untraditional costume parties and are feeling a little brave, Candyman could be a winner for sexiest costume! Just make sure it is a warm night!

871-ForbiddenWhy is it that when we are told something is forbidden we want it more? It’s human nature right? This Fetish Friday post is inspired by the one and only Gregg Homme brand featuring a desirable jockstrap from the Forbidden Collection. Fetish underwear incorporates a lot of ideas that are typically not present in your everyday pair of underwear. For instance, mesh, leather, and sheer material are typically saved for the more playful underwear that leaves very little to the imagination.

Gregg Homme managed to bring a mesh and leather like combination to a beautiful jockstrap. What I love about this specific pair of fetish wear is that it also has a zipper in the front pouch. Imagine walking into the bedroom with your lover, they unzip your pants to find this sexy pair of underwear waiting underneath. Things get heated up when they see black leather like material, mesh exposing the skin, and a zipper covering the front pouch, inviting them to continue unzipping their present. The pouch on this pair is designed with play in mind. The mesh sides gives you a look into what you are packing while the zipper gives a fun and creative way to expose yourself to your lover. The sex appeal continues in the back with a beautiful jock thong design, circling and showcasing your butt for your admirer.

Fetish underwear is about stepping out of the box with basic and comfortable designs. These pairs are not meant to be worn under a suit all day at the office. Instead, they are meant to display and showcase who you are while teasing and enticing who you are trying to impress. The next time you are planning a late night rendezvous, stop by Gregg Homme and check out this Forbidden collection. It is also available in a brief and boxer brief, with plenty of mesh and leather like for whatever style you prefer on your body.

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We bring you our second Fetish Friday. Fetish Friday is when we bring you a pair that you won’t necessarily see at the gym. They will feature smaller cuts, mesh material and interesting colors. The pair we chose this time is the Pistol Pete Erotic Brief.

The Erotic collection is a mix of solid and mesh material. The pair we have featured is black with red trim. One of the most interesting parts of the pair is the back. There is a half mesh panel that shows off most of the back. This wraps around the sides and the pouch is solid. You won’t show off too much.

The pair is made out of a Cotton/Spandex blend. It is also available in black or white. You can find it at the Pistol Pete website for $26.50

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