Hey you fantastic sexy kinksters,

Welcome to October! I hope you all are starting to think about your halloween looks? I have mine already decided mostly because I’m in a show through the 2nd half of October playing a time travelling clockwork doll humanoid (it’s a halloween circus show, get into it!). If you are more of a store bought costume kind of guy, I wish you a good find. If you are more of a crafty stud armed with a sewing machine and a dream, I wish you luck, and please remember, no good sewing happens after 2 am (trust me.) If you’re new to the column,  you’ll know that one of my careers is as a costume designer/seamster, so I’m really into fiber arts. Some of you might remember my profile on KnittyGrittyNYC and his fantastic knit jockstraps. Well, today, I have another super sexy find from the craft world that I want you all to know about. This time, I am keeping it in the family, the daughter of the featured designer today is a colleague and friend of mine in the local Boston performance world, and I am delighted to share her mom’s work with you.


What happens when you take a witchy knitter, metal scales, and a passion for imagination? You get DragonSwag by Mamma Bones (“Comfy yet badass”). You have seen knit arm gauntlets, and shrugs, you may have seen them beaded, but have you ever seen them with DRAGON SCALES!?


Mamma Bones knits these amazing creations herself, using wool yarn, aluminum punched scales, and a bad-ass imagination. She has many items up on her Etsy page, but is also really cool with custom ideas, and constantly makes work for the local Boston performer community tailored to their needs.


A specialty of Mamma Bones is the DragonSwag gauntlets. Available at any length, these fingerless gloves convert your arms into sexy scaled armour arms. These can be found in solid colors, analogous color schemes, or some really cool contrast patterns. The luxury of DragonSwag is you get all the super bad-ass perks of having some serious metal hugging your body, but you get to just feel super comfy knit yarn on your skin, so avoiding the discomfort.


Mamma Bones has done bras and panties for female bodies before, I think i need to put in a request for a sexy jockstrap/harness situation. If you want something pre-made for Halloween, maybe this is the Etsy page you’ve been looking for. If you’re willing to wait (every custom piece is made to order), you can order your own ideas and color combo items for your future dragony dress up needs.

I love how many materials I’ve discovered on my fetish friday journey. So far, we have encountered leather, spandex, rubber, neoprene, knitting, knitting with scales, sequins, lace. Not to mention all the fun creations we’ve witnessed together.

Mamma Bones has a few different places to check out:

ETSY Shop: BisouKnits

DragonSwag Website

Facebook Page for BisouKnits

Send me sexy pictures if you get her work. Bonus points for creative posing.

Until next time folks,

Keep it Kinky!

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hello my beautiful deviants and fantastic miscreants,

I hope you are all welcoming the slightly cooler weather. Maybe putting away your summer fetish wears. Transitioning your winter kink wardrobe out of the closet. For those of you in the bay area, or willing to travel, this weekend is the superb Folsom Street Fair! Every year, this is a major event featuring vendors, celebrities of the leather/porn industry. Fantastic public displays of kink and whimsy. I haven’t gone, but I really want to figure out going next year. It sounds like it’s the Diagon Alley of Leather world (you Harry Potter fans got me, right?). So, as a reader of Fetish Friday, you probably have a nice array of kinky jocks and thongs by now. So why not, get a really nice frame to put that masterpiece in. Today, I present to you, the Chap Short from Mr. S Leather (fitting tribute to Folsom Street as Mr. S is based in San Fran).


These chap shorts are made out of super premium garment leather. The waistband buckles in front. It has lacing up the back of the waistband for further adjustment. Featuring a 5” inseam, you will not be hiding those gorgeous thigh muscles. With these chap shorts, you get full access, front and back; perfect for all occasions. Holsters on the side, allow you to keep phone, money, keys. I’d suggest keeping the sides low profile, so the bulge in center is the focus.


Everything about this is black, leather, hardware, thread, lacing…you can use this for fun, or as part of your naughty burglar costume for Halloween. I can tell you from experience (sadly, not owning, but shopping in the Mr. S Leather store in San Fran), their leather quality control is superb. I know you’ll feel like you’re in sexy time heaven in these shorts.


The sizing for these is kind of cool. You pick a thigh measurement, and it allows 2 options for waist measurements (both which include wiggle room because of the buckle and lacing). So, what style are you gonna rock, a leather jock underneath? Or how bout a surprise and get a fancy shimmery spandex thong to go bold with contrast? A chainmail pouch? You can choose anything in your arsenal, the world is your oyster.


To get this chap short, go to the Mr. S Leather website (please note, the things being worn that cover the junk in these pics are not part of the chap).

If any of you are going to Folsom, please take pictures and send them to me, I’ll be here, sitting around, twiddling my thumbs, wishing I was there.

Hello Kinksters, I hope you had a good week. I had a pretty fun week, working on some upcoming shows I’m performing in. However, the most stand-out part of my week was definitely this corporate gig I worked on Tuesday. Myself and about 25 other local circusy (and friends) people were hired by a major electronics brand to gallivant around the outside of the convention center while their competing major electronics brand was having their convention inside. We were supposed to hold these giant balloons, and wave banners with our side’s brand on them. Now, that just doesn’t sound that odd, but I have deliberately saved the kicker for last; Every performer was in a full head to toe black zentai suit.

For those unfamiliar with the term zentai, it originates from Japan (shortened from zenshin “taitsu”, the “taitsu” is literally the Japanese borrowed term from english “tights”). It is most often a full body spandex suit, covering not just the torso, arms, and legs, but the head, hands and feet as well. Often you will see them made out of a single fabric, for instance a solid color, or an all over print. Lately, to also tap the cosplay audience, they’ve been made to resemble different characters (Spiderman is probably the most common, though Deadpool is making a rise).


Now I personally don’t find the full head to toe spandex thing a turn on, but as a circus performer who wears spandex professionally, I have had my fair share of encounters with people who are into zentai play asking me if I was into it too. From reading up about it a bit, it seems a lot of people aren’t sexualizing it, but more like using it as an identity therapy. The act of completely hiding your identity behind a new skin can be freeing. It’s intriguing, some people say it’s completely freeing because you’re invisible/anonymous, but at the same time, many people are gonna stare at you, when normally they’d just walk by.


Another noted aspect to zentai life is the “hug” of spandex, acting like a wearable security blanket, both in a physical way by smoothing out your body shape and also the stretch of the spandex hugging you everywhere. Also, in a tactile way, the smoothness of the spandex can feel good to touch, and calming to some people.


There can be a sexual aspect with zentai suit wearers, as it does reveal a lot of a person’s form. Many companies selling zentai suits offer modifications to the suits to allow sexual acts to happen (and bathroom trips to be easier) with optional crotch zippers and mouth holes…etc.

For a few years now, I’ve been friends with the owner of who caters to a wide range of clients from dancers/circus artists, cosplay, and fetish communities. He sells a wide range of well-made basics, as well as some specialty concepts too.

If you want to go deep into zentai world, then I’d recommend sites like they have a wide range to suit any of your zentai needs.

If this is something you think you might be into, then congrats, good luck with your zentai adventure. In some articles I was reading to learn more, I found a lot of people didn’t realize this was what they wanted until they saw it, so as a public service, I thought I should put it out there for our UNB readers.

Until next time, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hey you kinksters out there, TtheAmazing is here with your weekly dose of fetish friday. Today, I’m going to be fanboying over a N2N Erotic staple. Now, if you follow anything about me, my instagram, my facebook, the tags on the back of my undies when I bend over to pick something up.  you know how much I love N2N. I have loved N2N since my college days. When I first embarked on buying undies. I felt good about rather than buying the ones that were easily available at the basic clothing stores I shopped at. I have since college just kept adding to my collection of N2N garments. Today, I wanna talk about a singlet of N2N’s I don’t actually own (shocker, I know). It goes in line with my odd fascination with non leather/non spandex resembling fabrics lately. Today, we’ll talk about the Liquid Skin Singlet.


Since one of my multiple careers is as a costume designer, specifically for spandex wear. I have spent a lot of time watching spandex manufacturing improve and change. The ability to mimic that sexy leather look in a more breathable, silky, soft fabric has come such a long way. It used to be if you wanted that “leather” look, it would make a weird velcro sound every time it stretched. You would see these wrinkles. That looked like cracks in the earth when evil super-villains punch it. Nowadays, they have a bunch of really great leather-like spandex fabrics. Some are firmer, some are softer, some are matte, some are shinier, some are textured some are smooth. It’s such a wonderful variety.

For the person that loves that sexy leather look, but still wants that form fitting squeeze. the Liquid Skin Singlet is for you! In a Batman-style matte black. This super low cut singlet will show off all your attributes nicely. The racerback style down the spine lowers the eye (while taking a brief detour on your lats) down to your booty. While the front plunges deep. While the suspender straps lift up your junk in a supportive and prominent pouch.


There’s a whole Liquid Skin collection, and it all looks delicious. I will try and get some, and report back to all of you my findings. The Liquid Skin Singlet is $6. The only warning to be careful of is that chlorine, bleach, and any oil based products. They can damage the leathery finish, so keep that in mind.


Maybe, next week I’ll break my stride, and get out of the alternative materials mood. And write about something completely different, you will just have to wait and see. For now, go to N2N’s website to shop the Liquid Skin collection. Maybe someday, I can convince Andrew to release a circus collection. Then we’ll have a Fetish Friday field day.

Until next time you beautiful deviants, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing, over and out!


Hey, Fetish Friday readers, how have you been doing? Last week’s post got me trying to expand my personal fabric choices (from just spandex and leather). I have been deliberately searching for more materials that I am not usually around. For instance, at a new play date’s house, I tried on a latex brief. It was kind of an odd brief because there was some weird pouch situation but it was pretty cool. Not sure I’d get all decked out in it, but maybe owning a brief is in my future. I went to Mr. S Leather’s website to search for some of their other stuff and low and behold…


Today, I am featuring the Rubberized Play Jock by Mr. S Leather. So Mr. S Leather does a lot of cool fabrication. This jock was designed by Timoteo (another company we are very friendly with over here) for Mr. S. Timoteo makes really sexy gear. That kind of hits on the sporty fetish wear team, as well as just being super macho and fantastic. Knowing that these two superpower companies got together to make this jock. It gets me thinking, it’s probably incredible (I’m gonna buy one and let you all know how it goes).

The Rubberized Play Jock is…well all rubber. The pouch is 2 layers of sexy rubber cradling your junk, and then you have ONE INCH (1”!) booty straps to lift and support your posterior. That is a LOT of support. In addition, there are D-rings on either side of the front pouch to attach certain harnesses too. You can make it into a full body outfit (well… a skimpy outfit, but still).


The jock comes in black, with the trim/stripes being Blue, White, Red or Yellow. This color is the trim on the edges of the pouch, and the stripes down the front of the pouch. As well as stripes on the butt straps, and the waistband. The Mr. S Leather logo on the waistband is also in the selected color.


Now, aside from this being rubber for looking super slick. The benefit of this rubber play jock is that it can handle virtually ANY fluid (I’m sure it can’t handle supervillain-style burning acid, but if you’re playing with that…um, you probably expect things to be burning). Anything you pour/splash/shoot onto this jock will wipe right off with a little soapy water. Done! Good as new. So you really can do all the things, and not demolish the state of your gear.

I’m super excited to hopefully get to try this guy out. If any of you already own it, please let me know. We can chat. It is available exclusively at Mr. S Leather . Sizes 28”-36” waist (S-XL). $37.95. Make it happen you sexy deviant!

Until next time, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hello kinksters,

I hope Tim took good care of you last week. I was away at camp still, and life got a bit overwhelming. But now I am BACK! I’ve been eyeing a new brand (to me) lately, a brand that I want to wear everything they make. They have a very sexy aesthetic, though I would describe them as making mostly classic cuts. Based out of LA, they have been open since 1996 (20 years, woah). Their name is 665 and they are a leather and neoprene tailor. That features various other fashion and products as well. Today, I want to feature one of their neoprene products, the Neoprene Sport Jock Brief.

665 NeoSportJockBrief 1

I am getting more and more fascinated with the neoprene products lately. I already love spandex and leather. But the rubber/latex stuff isn’t usually something I am into. The neoprene is a nice middle ground. It has the sturdy look of leather while also having a softer drape and feel more spandex. I have a neoprene harness that I quite like, and just recently got a jock with a neoprene pouch.

665 NeoSportJockBrief 2

What I like about the 665 Neo Sport Jock Brief is that it’s a simple piece that is still bold and strong. It is a black neoprene jock brief. With either Neon Green, Neon Orange, or White binding around the edges. This pop is my favorite part. You can pretty much win me over anytime if you have a dark solid piece with a pop color. I wish they did a few more colors of the pop as an option (neon blue, pink, red…etc). But oh well, I’ll probably always want more colors no matter what they do.

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The pouch seems ample enough to fit a good sized package in there. Though I’m not sure how it would handle something as things got more excited (comment below if you have worn neo undies). The back window is big enough to really let the butt shine. I have a problem with a lot of the jock briefs out there.  That don’t have a big enough window in back, and the bottom of the window is too high. You know what I mean, it’s “here’s some of a butt, have a nice day”.

665 NeoSportJockBrief 4

At $45, that’s not a bad price for a sleek and sturdy nice fetish undies pair. The brief jock comes in S, M, L, and XL, with the Green, Orange, and White binding options. They are virtually impervious. So feel free to interact with any fluids you want, as it will all just wash with some dish soap and hang dry.

This will likely be my next funtimes purchase. I hope I get to tell you all about it. Have a beautiful rest of your weekend. I’m performing in an awesome Burlesque Boy Band Tribute show on Sunday night. It’s gonna be a fun time.

To purchase: go to 665 Leather’s website.

Until next time folks, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing, over and out!

N2N Santorini 2N2N Bodywear furnished the Santorini Brief (SC4) for review.

Rating: 7.8/10

  • Daily Fit: 9/10
  • Sizing: 9/10
  • Construction: 7/10
  • Styling: 7/10
  • Daily Performance: 7/10


  • Nice pouch, with a fun stripe detail.
  • Well constructed and sturdy cotton.


  • Sturdy cotton not as soft as other cotton fabric N2N has had.
  • White undies are not my fav.

UNB T recommendation: A good pair to add to your basics collection, but maybe not for special occasions.

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More N2N is never a problem for me. I should probably invest in their stock, I’m such a believer. I love their extra special stuff, and I have a lot of their “basics” styles as well. The cut and pouch size on this pair are really nice. Especially the pouch which is huggy without being too squishy. My favorite part of this pair is the fancy greek inspired pattern on the waistband (I am into creative waistbands).

I love the cut of N2N’s underwear. They give very flattering pouches PAIRED with actual butt coverage (for the styles that want to cover the butt, that is). This pair has contrast bands around the leg holes and a stripe down the pouch front. This creates a nice assist to show off the curvy aspects of your anatomy.

The fabric of the underwear is 90% Cotton and 10% Spandex. It is a really good dense cotton. I shouldn’t have a problem with it. But because I was sent this pair alongside the 80% Cotton Neon brief. I feel like this is more of a “sturdy” cotton, so the feel isn’t as silky. It’s still a very nice cotton, but I would wear this in a cooler situation.

I would say I liked wearing this pair with a looser pair of pants/shorts, because it has a little more hold to it. So you’re not flopping around everywhere. I tend to like wearing slightly more “secure” pouch undies for when I’m wearing looser bottoms. Because I don’t want EVERYTHING swinging around.

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It comes in 2 colors: White with blue contrast, or blue with white contrast. For $23, it’s definitely a good pair of underwear. Check it out at N2N Bodywear, and look at the other cuts in the Santorini collection.

Sizing: I got a Large, and I’m usually a large. Fits great. N2N is to my knowledge pretty dang accurate with their sizing.

Likes and Dislikes: I love the simple contrast details,and the nautical vibe of this pair. I

BRAND: N2N Bodywear

PAIR: SC4 Santorini Brief

COLORS: Blue, White

FABRIC: 90% Cotton, 20% Spandex


COST: $23


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N2N Bodywear furnished the Neon Classic Cotton Brief (NC12) for review

Rating: 10/10

  • Daily Fit: 10/10
  • Sizing: 10/10
  • Construction: 10/10
  • Styling: 10/10
  • Daily Performance: 10/10


  • Hugging anatomic pouch makes package feel loved but allowed to hang free.
  • Sexy neon color cotton.
  • Really nice texture cotton fabric.


  • I don’t have 10 more of these undies.
  • Wish it came in more neon colors.

UNB T recommendation: I wouldn’t work out in this. But that’s mostly because I want to keep its longevity. I wore this to many functions, hanging around, an Underwear Bear Dance Cruise.


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If you don’t already know, I have had a very long love affair with the products of N2N Bodywear. I love it when we do reviews for them because it usually means I’ll be very happy with what I get to review. This pair is exceptionally good. It is called the Neon Classic Cotton Brief. Most people think of “classic” and associate boring, this is nothing like that. The pouch is super great at letting your package hang while still keeping it supported. And out of the way of your legs. The pair is 80% cotton and 20% spandex, but it’s such an elegant blend, it feels like there’s silk in it. The pair is either all pink or all yellow, both neon, and features a black waistband.

The Freedom Stretch N-hance pouch on this pair is so great. Due to the combination of amazing pouch shape and fabric used. I felt so sexy wearing this all day on a cruise ship where underwear was the featured element for the dance party. It lets your package jiggle and bounce. While also not making you have to adjust your package ever from sitting or standing or anything. It also gives good butt coverage even for big muscle-butts. The waistband didn’t ride down in back if I had to bend over or anything. It does have a tag in the back. But it’s not that big of a bother (I am not an “all tags suck” kind of guy, just the irritating ones.)

N2N Neon3

N2N sizing is across the board very accurate with their size chart. I would stick with the size you are. Like I said above, I wish it came in more neon colors. I do appreciate the neon pink and highlighter yellow that it comes in already.

BRAND: N2N Bodywear

PAIR: NC12 Neon Classic Cotton Brief

COLORS: Yellow, Pink

FABRIC: 80% Cotton 20% Spandex


COST: $19


Where to buy:

Hey there kinky wonderfuls, I hope you’ve had a great week. Maybe you’re watching the Olympics. Maybe you’re watching gymnastics. Maybe you are feelin’ all support-y and pride filled. To kick off the 2nd and final week of the Olympics, I found another fun Team USA item for you all to peruse. This one is from a newer company. I don’t know much about them, but hopefully I’ll get to chat with them soon. Their name is BARCODE Berlin (we may be having some language barrier issues over email). I am really interested in their original work. They have fun cuts, and good design lines to highlight men’s proportions.

The item that I’m using the celebrate Team USA. Is another idea that I’d like to pitch for the US Men’s Gymnastics team. Maybe last week’s was the individuals, and this one is for the all arounds. It is called the Juanjo. It is a sexy narrow racerback singlet, with extremely low cut arm holes. It features two options (I’m sticking with the blue option for now) with blue on the bottom area, and white up top. The color change features a chevron pattern, and the whole thing has red trim along all the edges.


This pair is made by BARCODE themselves (the site is a mix of their original work and retail). The Juanjo is made out of 92% Polyester, and 8% Elastane. It is mostly mesh fabric (hopefully very breathable for the male gymnasts) with the bottom fabric being solid. On the front rib area. There is a varsity font style “8” with “barcode berlin” written in the classic baseball style script.


I think the cut of this singlet is very sexy (maybe I’ll get one to review). I love that the front panel is both low cut, and narrow, so the nips are on full display. The pouch has seams on the sides and front, so there seems to be ample shaping for your precious parts.


I should note, there is an option with red bottoms and black trim, but that is not going with my Team USA theme. So I am going to pretend it’s not an option. I hope next summer Olympics, they consult with me before outfitting the gymnasts. I have really good ideas.

Anyway, I’m up in Vermont for 2 weeks, working my booty off. I’ll be excited about returning to Boston for more summer fun. Enjoy the really really really hot weather, and go for a swim in a sexy swimsuit for me.

Until next time, keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hey,  you patriotic kinksters out there. Let’s be real, America is a little nutso right now. I’m super not gonna get political on here, but America is divided…I’ll leave it at that. However, no matter who you support, or who you understand matter…etc. Every two years, America all gathers up around the TV to support Team USA at the Olympics. I actually stumbled upon my item for this post while doing my research for last week’s post. It is just too fun. It is another piece by the honorable Slick It Up company in NYC.

I am talking about their American Flag Sling!


Ok, so here’s what you’re getting: a thong, a really low cut singlet, an American flag.

As a bonus, if you just show your back, you can play a really sexy game of “Where’s Waldo?” 


It comes in a Small/Medium, and a Medium/Large. For these double-sizes. They are measured by height and weight, and not waist circumference. The Small/Medium is for people 5’5” to 5’10” and 120-179 lbs. The Medium/Large 5’11” to 6’5” and 175-235 lbs.

It is made out of a shiny nylon spandex blend. Blue with white stars make up the right side of the singlet, and red and white stripes make up the left side and back of the singlet.


Now, while you could wear this while watching the Olympics on tv, I think the fun should not begin there. Maybe gather an Olympic themed dance party with all your sexy friends. Or a sexy gear only patriotic barbeque.

I personally think the designer of the U.S. Men’s Gymnastics singlets missed a golden opportunity here. This would not only show off their bodies, but also spice up the floor routines. Women’s floor routines are always full of pizazz and choreography. Men’s floor routines are incredible but lack a certain flair. I would love to see Sam Mikulak try and not have some sass while competing wearing this (ok,  you caught me, I’d love to see him wearing this, period.)

Just in case  you have a sunburn on your shoulders or something, Slick It Up also makes an American Flag Thong.

So there ya have it, T’s Official Suggestion for the US Olympic Fan’s Sexy Outfit (O.S.U.S.O.F.S.O). Have fun watching the Olympics. I”ll be away at summer camp for the next two weeks, so I won’t get to watch it live. I have a gymnast friend who will record everything so I can watch when I get back. Until then, keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing, over and out!

N2N Bodywear Spartan Brief (SU3) was furnished by N2N Bodywear for review. 



RATING: 8.6/10


SIZING: 10/10





-Strong basic wear.

-Good bulge

-Lifted pouch keeps everything organized down there.


-Tag in back.

TtheAmazing’s Recommendation: A fun basic to add to your wardrobe, featuring a unique waistband than a standard solid color or regular brand logo.

I got the Spartan Brief from N2N a bit of time ago, so I’ve had the chance to wear the pair a couple times. I enjoy N2N for their understanding of pouches. It is always a good pouch experience. This is no exception. It’s a simpler pouch than some of the more extravagant N2N style. It still keeps the package hanging sexy and away from being smushed by thighs.



The pair is a good cotton blend, so you get a nice natural breathable brief hugging your booty. It features contrast binding around the leg holes, and on either side of the pouch. In the gray pair, the contrast binding is orange, in the mint pair, it’s yellow, and in the white pair, the contrast is red. The pouch itself is a one-piece pouch that features a dart below the anatomy to give shape.

What I think is cool about the pair is the unique waistband. Which features a greek art motif with the N2N name sneakily interspersed. I think it’s a nice small touch.  Because we’re all used to our waistbands being visible a lot. Why not make them a little more artistic than just having the brand name on it.


I have never had a problem with N2N sizing, it comes in Small to Extra Large. To sum up, I am really happy with the pair, it’s a strong basic to add to your collection. As you saw above in my cons, my only true negative is the tag sticking out in the back and being irritating.

Brand: N2N Bodywear

Pair: SU3 Spartan Brief

Colors: Dimgray, Spartan Mint, White

Fabric: 95% Cotton/5% Spandex

Sizes: S, M, L, XL

Cost: $23 (Currently on Sale on the N2N website for $15)

Furnished By: N2N Bodywear

Where to buy: N2N Bodywear Store

Hey kinksters,

Hope you’re having a great week. Sorry to have missed you last week, July has been quite intense but have no fear. I am back, and this week, I have quite a fun unusual trend I’m seeing pop up here and there. I cannot say this is a fetish I know about, but I had to write about it, cause it’s definitely out there.  I think it’s pretty dang cool. It definitely is not a traditional underwear/fashion idea. It evokes a kind of Tron-like aesthetic to me, and the concept is fascinating. Wondering what I’m talking about? I don’t know exactly how to describe it. I could call it Illusion Mesh Play, or maybe Floating Fabric Gear? I don’t know…but below is when it popped up for me as a thing happening in men’s underwear.


It was the Marco Marco fashion show video, and all of a sudden these models were coming down the runway. With what it looked like panels of fabric somehow stuck to their body in an artful way that created line and shape. What was actually occurring was the designers had sewn patches of opaque fabric on top of a garment. In order to create the illusion that the patches were wrapping themselves around the body.


Now, for those new to the term “illusion mesh”, it is a fabric found most often in dance wear/figure skating. It is a very thin fabric that is made of a very fine mesh, ideally made in a skin tone. When worn by a person with a close skin tone, the fabric essentially disappears against the body. For a very long time, I had only really seen illusion mesh in figure skating routines. Then, on Project Runway, Dmitry Sholokhov made a dress where all the panels were connected with a strip of the illusion mesh. It give all the pieces a slight floating effect.

Now, unlike mesh we’ve previously talked about. The whole point of this mesh is to disappear. Giving any fabrics sewn to it the look that they are magically stuck to the wearer. In my opinion, the magical nude non-nudity is a really sexy look. You get the tactile sensation of spandex, but the visual sensation of the person’s skin. That’s pretty dang cool.

Now, Marco Marco, while awesome, doesn’t necessarily read as a fetish brand. But, yet there is a champion out there. Catering to a wonderful stretch fetishwear audience, and that champion is Slick It Up. Based out of NYC.  Slick It Up focuses on using spandex alternatives to rubber, leather, and latex. While keeping the sex appeal extremely high. The piece I’d like to draw your attention to is called the Neon Nude Suit


This suit is part latex-like spandex, part nude mesh. The latex covers up the most essentials. Then roams around a bit creating pleasing contours on the body. I find this quite hot. I could see this at a super cool dance club, or a electronic themed strip club, or hacker/cybertopia roleplay.


What I also find interesting about this look (and I am hypothesizing here). Is that I feel like it can cater to a wider range of body types than a lot of fetish wear on the market. This could work on the beanpole twink, having the contours of the spandex create more definition in the body, and it can work on the beefy guys. The negative and positive space play using the nude mesh and opaque accents create sensual lines no matter what.


If you’re more into the Marco Marco undies, those can be found at the Marco Marco Site.

If you wanna show me how you look in the Neon Nude Suit from Slick It Up Site.

So please, help me out, send me pics of you in this suit. I wanna collect *ahem* as much data as I can. Show me how it looks on you. Tell me where you are gonna wear it.


The guy cheering for you, and helping you zip up if you need. (Trust me, as a circus artist, I know how important it is to have a friend zip/unzip you in a time of need.

TtheAmazing, over and out.

EC1 Eclipse Sport 3

Thank you to N2N for furnishing this pair for review.

RATING: 9/10


SIZING: 10/10





  • Good butt coverage.
  • Sexy bulge.
  • Sleek design.


  • Drawstring (see below)

TtheAmazing’s Recommendation: A great not skimpy cut suit for feeling sexy and swimming in, but make sure you are ok with showing a little bit of VPL.

I have been on the N2N bandwagon since I first had my great underwear awakening. In college, I would wait till things went on sale and then buy myself a range of items (a jock, a brief, a thong). Slowly figuring out what I was into, and what I thought looked good on me. Until recently, I had not really been a swimsuit person (I hadn’t really done much swimming in my life). In February, I figured out that I’d have this magical week of no work in July, so I decided to go on vacation. I found a gay resort in Florida. Realized I would definitely need to increase my swimwear collection from nothing to something. This started the Great Swimwear Shopping Spree of 2016. For the record, I ended up with 21 swimsuits, and I brought every single one with me. To be clear about how much I love N2N wear, out of the 21 swimsuits I wore on my vacation. 9 of them are N2N pairs (and all different). So, if you didn’t get it yet, I was really excited to be reviewing one of the new N2N swimsuits, the Eclipse Sport.

EC1 Eclipse Sport 4

This pair is a simple design, done very well. It features a full seat bikini cut, with a contrasting swipe going up the side of your bulge. It features a seamless front design. Whatever shapes you are working with down there will be shown proudly. Having said that, the sides of the pouch area are wide enough that it doesn’t give you the saran wrap look. It looks like you’re just wearing paint. I would call the bulge a semi-modest sexy bulge.

EC1 Eclipse Sport 2

Every pair I tried during my vacation got ample pool time. I walked around, got in the pool, swam a bit, got out of the pool, walked around, got back in the pool…etc. This pair is great, because although it is unlined, it looks good wet too. Some swimsuits lose a little bit of their appeal for me when they are super wet, but this pair held up. I prefer the feel of unlined swimsuits. Sometimes the lack of lining makes it a little less appropriate for some venues. I think this pair keeps it mostly classy. Even though you can definitely read a bit of the anatomy underneath, I wouldn’t say it is vulgar.

I got a Large, and it is a perfect fit. N2N has always been pretty great with their sizing. I never really know what to do with drawstrings. When I feel like without tightening the drawstring, the pair fits great. But maybe having a butt helps keep things secure.

To sum it up, I love this pair, here’s a pic of me wearing them on my vacation. If you wanna see all 21 swimsuits I wore, check my Instagram @HoopArtist


Brand: N2N Bodywear

Pair: EC1 Eclipse Sport

Colors: Royal Blue (Silver), Red (White), Orange (Yellow), Olive (Black). NOTE: I’ve listed the Contrast Swipe color in parentheses next to each color option.

Fabric: 83% Nylon/17% Spandex

Sizes: S, M, L, XL

Cost: $24

Furnished By: N2N Bodywear

Where to buy: N2N Bodywear Store

Hello all you kinksters,

I am back from my vacation! I spent all week doing nothing but playing in a pool at a gay resort in Florida. Oh, and I brought 21 swimsuits (don’t judge me). I wore EVERY single one of them (check my instagram @HoopArtist to see them all and tell me which are your favorites). I also got to go to some fun leather events at some local spots…Fun was had by all. Right before vacation. had a sale on some Cellblock 13 wear. I blacked out for a second, and suddenly 3 things were ordered and shipped to my house (I honestly don’t know what happened). One of the items was the Black and Red Ninja Neoprene Jock. I may or may not have worn this out to a bar, may or may not have looked REALLY cute in it. May or may not have gotten a LOT of groping compliments because of it.


The Ninja Neoprene Jock is a really cool item. The pouch being entirely made of neoprene rubber. With nice firm elastic as the waistband and jock straps. This jockstrap is winning in the three departments. The strap tension, pouch room, under-pouch terminal.

The first thing that either makes or breaks a jock for me is strap tension. I do not want to have to fidget and adjust my straps all day as I move around. I am an active guy, bending, twisting…I cannot be fixing my straps. If my straps are either too thin, or too loose (which honestly, makes me KNOW it is a design flaw, cause I definitely give those straps enough booty to work with), I am over it.


Pouch Room, the great thing about this dense textured neoprene rubber pouch is it shows your bulge without vacuum sealing around it. The pouch being made of a more sturdy material. Tt gets pushed out by your junk, but still kind of keeps it’s relative shield shape, like armor. The less vacuum effect material helps give you enough room for all the goodies. Even if they get a little bit rowdy.

Under-pouch terminal. Now, I am sure I’m not the only one with this problem, but I have not actually discussed this with people yet. If an underwear has too much going on (seams meeting) right below the testicles, it chafes me over time. I am sensitive to it, and it bugs me after some time, and then bugs me long after I remove the offending garment. This jock has a beautiful smooth connection, and was bother free all night long.


One last thing that isn’t in my criteria, but I thought was really cool. I found it unusual and pretty comfortable that the jock straps extended all the way to the front pouch instead of nearer to the sides. Putting it on the first time was a little more “hmm” but once I figured out where the straps needed to be, everything was great.

To find more cellblock 13 wear click here.

Until next time, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hi Kinksters,

I am writing to you from a gay clothing-optional resort, since I treated myself to a real vacation. I have been preparing for this vacation since March. When I started purchasing swimsuits (I had 1 or 2, maybe). This week, I brought 22 swimsuits.  From this past Sunday afternoon through today. I have worn every single swimsuit, and taken pictures to document. You can see it all on my instagram (@HoopArtist). On Wednesday, my life was made complete. I got to have a pina colada served INSIDE a pineapple (the same one the drink was made from). Now I am just wandering off in la la land. Let’s get down to business! Today, I bring you the world of Maskulo Shorts!


Maskulo essentially makes 3 variables in a variety of shorts: Color, Pads, and Rear. Maskulo was awesome enough to send me a few different versions to try out. In terms of color, you can get shorts in Black, Electric Blue, Navy Blue, Red, White, Yellow. For padding, you can select no padding, full padding (wraps around the outside thighs), or front padding (like a football pad in front). The last option is an open rear or a closed rear (note: If you get an open rear no padding, you get a solid color fabric all the way around. If you choose for the closed rear no padding, you get a leathery tuxedo stripe down the outside.).


Like their jockstrap, the shorts features detachable codpieces. The jockstrap one fits differently than the singlets and shorts in how the snaps attach. You can switch out the codpieces from shorts and singlets no problem. I really love these codpieces, I know I’ve said it before with Maskulo. They are this quilted synthetic leather like fabric with spandex color stripes. It is just a sexy piece of sewing.

My favorite color is the Electric Blue (any of my friends will be completely unsurprised). But I like the Navy Blue as well. All the colors are nice and bold. The fabric is 80% nylon, 20% spandex which gives it a really nice and sturdy stretch, hugging you and lifting you up).


The pads are pretty cool. I don’t really see anyone else actually sewing pads onto garments for fetishwear. These are actual quilted pads made to look like leather boxing protection or fencing gear. I should add, the pads are not stretchy. If you get the pads either in full or front padding, I would suggest going up a size. The first pair I received had the wrap around pads and the pair was in my correct size. After trying it on, and just feeling like everything was a little bit too snug. I tried on a pair one size larger for my next shipment, and everything was peachy after that. So yeah, if you are a beefy muscle legged guy, OR you are getting the pads, I’d go up a size.


Rear or open rear is completely your choice. I like a closed rear. I have a couple of the Maskulo open rear garment. It seems like a good amount of cut (some open back undies companies don’t cut the “window” big enough. You get this weird little cut out that just kind of shows some butt cheek cleavage)…


Maskulo produces a wonderfully diverse range of sizes 2XS (26-28” waist) all the way to 5XL (44”-46”), which is great, ‘cause everyone deserves to dress a kinky as they want to.

I am really digging Maskulo as a company (I’m sure you can tell). I wanna support them and speak their gospels to all y’all. They do good work, for your junk, and for gay rights in Russia. Their shorts can all be purchased on Maskulo’s website. Until next time, kinksters..

TtheAmazing, over and out.


Hello Kinksters,

How have you been these past couple weeks? I am quite exhausted this week. Not only am I working the youth summer camp at the circus school during the day. I somehow agreed to sub a coworker’s week of adult night classes as well. The upside is that I’m ready to go on my gaycation next week (fabulous gay resort for all of next week in Florida). This week’s Fetish Friday is a concept post, about a trend I see pop up here and there. I have to credit BeauBriefs for posting a pic on twitter (@underloverwear) of his new JackAdams Jockstrap that has a window just above his penis. I have a few pairs of undies with a window there too, so I started thinking about the art of the male décolletage.

Now, traditionally the term décolletage applies to the area of a woman’s chest above her breasts to her neck. Most often used to talk about necklines of dresses that enhance or showcase that part of a woman’s body. For this post, I would like to broaden that term. Transform the term’s meaning into any fashion that highlights the area leading up to an area of heightened arousal.


Now, you aren’t ever EVER gonna find me telling people what I want them to do with their pubic hair. But I am gonna share that in my opinion, the hottest “style” for any of these looks is slightly trimmed to moderately trimmed. I don’t find the baby-shaved look that appealing. I think the full bush might detract from the window concept a little.

The brand BeauBriefs was rocking on his twitter is the Punter Body Flex Jockstrap from Jack Adams USA. I think that’s next on my purchase list (thanks Beau for the inspiration).


BodyAware makes a pretty fun Neon Cabana Tanga with the window too. It comes in Neon Orange, Neon Green and Neon Yellow.


I would love readers to suggest their favorite male décolletage pairs that I haven’t mentioned. Let’s see how many we can find. What are your feelings on this? Décolletage: love it or leave it?

Until next time my sexy friends,

Keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing, over and out.

Hey Kinksters,

This week has been rough. No matter who you are, you’ve experienced it in some way. I am not gonna go on a political rant about the situation. This column is about how to feel sexy and look sexy while doing kinky things. In, light of us all needing a little bit of uplifting support. I’m gonna be talking about a new line of boxer briefs by Fort Troff!


Now, before I go into detail talking about the boxer briefs. I want to let you all in on a great donation set up that Fort Troff has dedicated. They have created a Orlando Tragedy Fund on their site that is a $10 donation to the LGBT Center of Central Florida. BUT WAIT! For every $10 donation you give to Fort Troff’s fund, they are MATCHING it. That’s right. You give $10, and Fort Troff doubles it to $20. I got an email last night that they have already raised $6,200. That means they are donating $12,400 already. Click here to donate (they made this page safe for work, just don’t go wandering around if you’re at work).



So, let’s get back to the undies. I’d like to officially welcome Fort Troff  to the Fetish Friday family (they were my FIRST Fetish Friday post, but that was something I already had lying around). They sent over a big bag of goodies, so you’ll be hearing about more of their stuff in time.


The Shrapnel Boxer Brief features a super sexy punched metal design. You get a three pack of Gold, Blue and Green. Fort Troff really searched to find a great fabric, and ended up at the same factory that supplies UnderArmour with fabric. Then developed their own. It is an 84% polyester/16% spandex blend. Very breathable tiny mesh fabric. It has great lift and support of the goodies, and I have been wearing them all week (well three of the days so far). I never had to adjust, or pull the legs down once). There is also supremely attractive stitching to give your butt a really nice presentation.


I love these so much. They come in a few other styles, the jocks I also got, so I’ll be writing about those too soon.

The Boxer Brief three pack is sold for $55 and you get a bonus Fort Troff Raw Grunt Cock Ring (which I fully support).

Until next time, keep it kinky.

Also, like a good pouch, please hold each other up. No matter who you/they are. We all need it.

TtheAmazing, over and out!

Hello Kinksters,

I hope you are all doing well. This past week was a great week. I started working on a new and exciting skill with my duo trapeze partner (if you’re new to the game, I’m a professional circus artist). I also got to see Cirque Du Soleil’s Kurios, which I can verify, is quite awesome (the first featured act is my favorite). Lastly, the thing that led me to today’s post, is that I got hired to work (I’ll be vague for fun) a bachelorette party. My coworker and I, both gentlemen of the highest regard, want to dress up fancy and formal for them. At the time, I was also wondering what to write about for Fetish Friday. When I remembered an item I received from Maskulo a couple weeks ago, that I was waiting to write about. Today, I’m going to profile, Maskulo’s Rubber Look Boxer Briefs in Black… What I’d like to rename…

Fetish Friday’s Official L.B.D. (Little Black Drawers).


Now for those of you who don’t know the L.B.D. It is a term used in women’s fashion to abbreviate the term “Little Black Dress”. It is reserved for simple black dresses that are not too flourishy. But have enough allure to work in any style environment. They cannot be too plain, but they can’t be gowns either. This Maskulo Boxer Brief in my mind is the fetishy Little Black Dress Drawers.  Because while it is simple and elegant. It is still very sexy, and the pouch and fabric give it that extra edge to be elevated from a 4B (Basic Black Boxer Briefs). Ok, maybe I’m just having too much fun with word play.


Maskulo’s Boxer Briefs are made out of a leather-like spandex material (80% Nylon/20% Spandex). They have their signature white background waistband with Maskulo woven right onto the front and center. The part that is uniquely Maskulo is the pouch. Front and center is their quilted pouch, sewn down the sides and base, but open in the top. This is to give assistance with getting your package through the inner pouch wall. Which sits flat on the body and has a horizontal slit to lift your junk out front and center into the contoured pouch. (See below for diagram)


I love this pair so much. The fabric while leather-look is super light and breathable. The pouch is super sexy as every Maskulo pouch I have has been. They make my butt look fantastic (I like to say I’m starting with a really high quality canvas, but the art is great too). It could go well in a spandexy look, a leathery look (throw a harness on and call it a day). Maybe a sexy waiter role-play (just add a bow-tie). Or you could just wear it under your dress pants for the day and feel extra sexy.


The pair goes for $52 USD on the MASKULO site. I need to acknowledge how much I love them. When I first agreed to helm the Fetish Friday column and make it a regular weekly piece. I wrote to every company I could think of, trying to make connections, andBMaskulo was one of the first to write back.  They have been so gracious and helpful, not just in offering products to write about. but to discuss their mission statement and their human rights work. A great A+ for customer service to the Maskulo team.

Ok my kinky lovelies, go out there and feel sexy and fantastic.

Until next time folks,

Keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing, over and out (and proud!)

This pair was furnished for this review by Maskulo.

Hello Kinksters,

I hope you have transitioned into June with happiness and yummy bulges. I had a wonderful birthday on Friday. I received a bunch of yummy goodies over the weekend that you’ll be reading about in the future. Still no response from Aarin Asker…if you have a lead, let me know. Thinking over this holiday weekend, it was full of American spirit. I even slightly-accidentally wore my new navy blue shorts with white stars on them with my red striped t-shirt (I don’t do themed holiday wear…ever). I was thinking of what to write for this week, and I was thinking what kind of fetish could be considered American.

It came to me, the idea of the classic American football stud. It’s a slightly different idea than the wrestling singlets, or even just the speedos. It’s over-saturated with cultural appreciation, and that doesn’t stop at the sexy-time bedroom. There are a lot of menswear out there that is designed to help you achieve that sports player look for your lover’s (or your) fantasy. Let’s not go into the fact that it’s unlikely a football player would bring his uniform to the bedroom for sexy time. (if any pro football players read this and you HAVE done this, email me you kinky stud, I wanna interview you). While I don’t personally have a thing for the football look (i’m more a Tom Daley fan than a Tom Brady fan). I will hereby share some of my fav football inspired looks if you wanna do some role-play with your favorite tight end (come on, I had to throw at least ONE of these horrible puns in).


This first one is from Jack Adams. It is the Footballer Lace-up Jockstrap. I would say this is most traditional of the three I’m showing you (I don’t actually know anything about true football wear, so this is purely my judgement). It has 6 grommets so you get three of the very iconic crotch lace crosses (say that 5 times fast).


This next one is the Show-It Football Brief from Andrew Christian. It doesn’t exactly read as true football wear. But it might be good if some gay nightclub was having a sports night or something. Having said that, I think this one would be more comfortable if you wanted to wear it to the gym or something underneath some shorts.


This last one is my favorite (maybe also cause of the model Derek Parker). It is the Renegade Defender Pant Jock from Cellblock 13. This one serves you the biggest amount of football jock realness. You get the lace up pouch, the striped waistband, and the leg pad trump l’oeil. I think that’s the trifecta of football jock sexy time roleplay.

Anyway, my sexy people, I can officially say I spent a small part of my life thinking about football now. Hope you have all the wonderful times, Pride month is upon us, so I’m sure there will be yummy bulges every which way you turn.

Until next time folks, keep it kinky.

TtheAmazing over and out (and proud).


Hey gorgeous kinksters,

It’s here! It’s my birthday! I’ve reached 28 years of age. I was wondering what to post for this week. Since it is my birthday week, and I wanted to start showing another side of my life. When I’m not up in the air performing stunning feats on the trapeze, I am often crafting. My college degree was in costume design. I’ve made some of my living making everything from circus costumes (spandex…more on that later). Also, award winning quilts, handbags, and the occasional couture dress for fun. Since I’ve started discovering and enjoying kink into my life.  I have been wanting more and more to bring my craft lovin’ into my love makin’ (or just sexy fun times). Today, I wanted to celebrate someone who is doing this already, and doing it DAMN well. His name is Michael Richman, and he is the owner and master crafter of The Knitty Gritty NYC.


Now, while I completely respect ALL that he does. I am going to focus on my favs (and let’s be real, YOUR FAVS too): the jocks and harnesses. That’s right my friends, The Knitty Gritty NYC makes jocks and harnesses, with YARN! Michael is a crazy good knitter, and knows what he’s doing. His shapes hug the body, and highlight your assets. He uses extremely high quality wool yarn (no RED HEART here) and hand dyes every order.


Knitty Gritty NYC currently has 6 jock options (sounds like stock options but yummier). The Stock Jock, Single Cable Jock, Chainmaille Jock, Medieval Jock, Transformer Jock, and the Cable Knit Jock. Available in tons of handsome colors, as bold as you want to fit your personality. The harnesses are fun crafty takes on traditional leather harnesses. They make a Ladder Harness, and a Cable Knit Harness. With all those options, and all the yarn dyed colors you can imagine. You will definitely find something fantastic to wear for you.


Now, let’s be real, you might not exactly want to wear this to a summer leather con, but maybe you do. Or maybe you wanna go skiing with your man somewhere, and when you get back to your chalet. You whip off your clothes, and have your sexy Knitty Gritty’s on, and your man will prepare to ride your slopes. Ok, that last one might have become more of a romance novel, but oh well. I am having too much fun here.


However you wanna wear them, The Knitty Gritty NYC makes beautiful crafty fetishwear. I love it, cause it takes some of the seriousness out of sexy clothes. Sometimes people get into the mindset of “I’m wearing sexy fetish wear. No giggling aloud boy!”, but I think you have to be able to find the fun in something to appreciate the importance.


On that note, go buy yourself some sexy knit-fetish wear! And, maybe buy me something for my birthday while you’re at it. This is not the last you’ll hear of The Knitty Gritty NYC.  I’m gonna travel down, and hang out with him for an afternoon while he crafts, and document his process for ya. You can also check more of this out on Instagram (@knittygrittynyc), and on Facebook.

Until next time my friends,

Keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing, freshly 28 years old, over and out!

Photography: David Gonsier

Hello Kinksters, Happy friday!

I hope you had a wonderful week. I know it’s my birthday month, so everything is supposed to be fantastic. But today, I bring you a fetish-wear trend that I am NOT about. I know, I know, I am usually brimming with enthusiasm about my friday topics. Unfortunately, I can’t just be super positive about EVERYTHING. Or else eventually I’d bore myself, and all of you in turn.

What is it that has me so forlorn? Readers, I am talking about mesh pouches. I just can’t handle them. Now, I am specifically not into mesh pouches. I am not declaring a war on mesh in general. Mesh in other parts of fetish-wear is entirely welcome. To me, a pouch is to present a bulge, and a bulge should be just that. If I already know what you look like uncovered, down to the minuscule details. Then the pouch covering it is irrelevant, and irrelevant underwear makes me sad. Even more, if not only can I see everything before you take it all off.  But it looks smushed and constricted, I am even less into it. To me, it evokes the packaged sausage links at the supermarket. You buy it cause it’s gonna be tasty, but you don’t love how it looks all confined and uncomfortable.


Now, since I am of the opinion that you shouldn’t rant about a problem to everyone. Unless you have a solution to offer. I’d like to suggest some alternative meshy looks that I am totally down with.

MESH Clever

I am all for butt mesh, because it’s hard for butts to look bad. The Clever Mesh Bars boxer is mesh everywhere but the pouch, which I love. It gives the sensual preview, while still presenting the bulge in the best way.

MESH n2n

N2N makes a bunch of sheer gear, and I love a lot of it, and I dislike some of it (if the junk part is mesh). Their R10 Sheer Skin Singlet is great because it gives you a whole lot of sheer to work with. While also curving around your body in a really appealing way.

MESH Slickitup

Slick It Up does mesh in a way nobody else is doing. I love their aesthetic, and they have a very specific customer. They make a whole wardrobe for that customer. This Killian Suit is one of my favorite of theirs. It is so well designed with anatomy and proportion in mind.

So there we have it folks. Mesh pouches, how do you feel? Share your opinion below. Speaking of opinions, last week’s What’s Your Reveal? Post had some delightful results:

1st Place: Snaps won with 53%

2nd Place: Velcro and Zippers tied with 17%

3rd Place: Flaps got 13% of the vote.

Next FETISH FRIDAY is my BIRTHDAY!!!!!! Get ready for something wonderful. I don’t actually know what it’s gonna be yet, I have a few options, but haven’t chosen yet.

For now, keep it kinky!

TtheAmazing over and out!

Hey you Kinksters and general booty shakers,

Happy Fetish Friday to you all, the weather in Boston this week was SUPREME to make up for the sad as heck gray and damp weather from last week (there’s a reason I left Seattle, sorry @BeauBriefs). This week,  I am gonna enlighten you a little more into an aspect of the wonderful world that is my life. Since moving to Boston almost 2 years ago, I have become quite immersed into the world of burlesque. Before moving here, I had been to ONE burlesque show ever (I recall almost nothing, it was horrible). Now, I frequent them quite often, getting to see lots of my friends and colleagues who do both circus and burlesque shining on stage (sometimes really shining, SOOO pale). I don’t really have any need to become a burlesque performer- though I won’t say no to a butt-centric circus act here and there. I just support my fellow performance artists doing their thing and making it sparkle. So now, to the title of this Fetish Friday:


In this wonderful world of underwear, we have all sorts of brands catering to the guys that just wanna whip it out. For the sake of this post, we’re gonna ignore the “just pull em down” method. That restricts the legs movement, and stops the potential rond de jambe you might be adding to the striptease. So, with my intensive research, and my background in professional costume design, we have for you…





A better known term for hook and loop fasteners (it’s like Kleenex), is known for it’s ease of use (there was a time when you couldn’t tie your shoes). You just slap a fuzzy piece (the loops) against a scratchy piece (the hooks) and they connect. Then you get the satisfaction of creating that nice rip sound as you pull them apart. The benefit is simple ease, you know it will shut just by touching the two pieces together. But you loose a bit of accuracy of placement the more velcro you have on a garment. It also has the stick factor of the velcro being able to attach without you pressing. I’ve only seen these on some random swimwear on the side seams. Maybe they’re not as big of a thing in underwear?



Snaps, or sometimes “poppers” across the pond, are a type of fastener involving a bulged post that squeezes into a socket that hugs it. It acts much like a ball and socket joint do. They come in a variety of types (ring snaps, spring snaps, plastic, metal…etc). They also come in a variety of strengths (the strength needed to pull before they separate). These snaps can be found on all sorts of garments, leather, swimwear, underwear. I just recently fell in love with plastic snaps. You will see more about that soon enough (I’m going to be SEWING a pair of sexy undies and documenting the process for you all). Snaps are great because you can put them anywhere. They can be as decorative or as stealthy as you want depending on the look you’re going for. To me, snaps are greater than velcro, because if you are somewhere you are trying to be discreet. Your boo is like “let’s go”, you can get down to business almost as fast as this lady:

Reveal Snaps2

Downsides to snaps are unlike zippers, flaps, and velcro, you can’t cover a long distance in one go. A snap only snaps that one point. If you want a long connection. You gotta use a row of snaps (just so you know, I STRONGLY dissuade buying snap tape, it’s pre-made and cheap, and you end up with nothing better than that).



Zippers, sometimes referred to as slide fastener (sorry, I majored in costume design), are made up of interlocking rows of “teeth” that can be locked or unlocked by a tab that slides up and down the two tracks. They mostly come in nylon and metal, and are either coiled or molded. These, unlike snaps or velcro, CANNOT be used for spot attachments. They connect long seams of fabric together. They are relatively silent, unless you are one of those zipper DJs, and for the most part, work well. There are times however, unlike flaps, snaps, and velcro, where zippers will get caught on the garment itself while zipping. Or the zipper can just misbehave altogether (watch an episode of Project Runway). The zipper doesn’t require a lot of accuracy for unlock and locking. You just find the pull tab, and pull it up or down. The downside is, having zippers near your precious cargo could lead to some pain if you’re rushing. Generally though, zippers are pretty awesome.


Reveal Flaps 1

Flaps, in this case, refer to any pouch that is able to moved aside or down or away to reveal the kit without needing to remove the underwear. Or use any fasteners as seen above. These flaps can be attached to multiple seams or just one. Sometimes the flap just stretches aside, or it is meant to swing away. Pros: nothing to mess with, just pull and pose.  Cons: doesn’t take that long, so the whole striptease idea might not play off as well (unless you have a really good choreographer).

So my fantastic fiesty readers, what’s your favorite reveal: Velcro, Snaps, Zippers or Flaps?

Tune in next week for more Fetish Friday fun-times.

Keep it Kinky,

TtheAmazing over and out.

IMAGES FROM: Male Power, Cellblock 13, N2N Bodywear, and Andrew Christian. Women’s dress designed by Hussein Chalayan.

Hello all you kooky kinksters,

It’s been rainy as heck this week in Boston, but hopefully you are reading this in delightful sunshine. It is my birthday month, so get ready for some wonderful posts (my birthday is ON the last Fetish Friday of May, so get ready!) Today I get to finish up the gear I got from Army of Men in Australia: the Jockstrap/Codpiece combo!


For those who are tuning in late to the game (go back and read every fetish friday post you silly goose) Army of Men is this brilliant leather gear company in Australia. The owner Derrick puts such a keen eye on material quality and finishing. I got a harness with a strap from the harness down to a cockring, and a matching Jockstrap.


The way the jockstraps work, is you order the jockstrap itself (which has no pouch), and then you pick the codpiece you want to snap onto the jock). Since I had ordered the blue bulldog harness, I ordered the Blue Jockstrap, with the Blue Chevron Codpiece. Now, the jocks have 7 color options Black (with matte, nickel, or gold studs) and then Blue, Yellow, Army Green, and Red. The codpieces have a whopping 18 options (do I really have to list them?!) So there’s Black (with matte, nickel or gold studs), Solid (Blue, Red, Army Green, Yellow), Chevron (Blue, Red, Yellow, Army Green), Harness style (Blue, Red, Yellow, Gray), and then Tiger (Blue, Red, Yellow). Wow. That’s 126 options of Jockstrap/pouch fashion…holy moly.


The codpiece is NO JOKE. This is a healthy pouch with sturdy construction. It has 4 connection snaps along the top of the pouch to the waistband, and 2 connection snaps under the balls. Without the codpiece, the jock has a leather strap framing where the codpiece would be. The pouch is (like the harnesses) lined in leather so everyone gets to feel good.

Sidenote: I neeeeeeed this handkerchief. Someone make this happen.

The jockstrap is built just like the harness, triple layer luscious leather, matching thread. The front of the waistband (where the pouch attaches) is flanked on both sides by O rings. Which connects to the waistband, and the outsides of the jockstraps. Both the waistband and the jockstraps have multiple snaps (again to adjust fit as desired) though he still takes your measurements so the adjustments are for personal preference.

I can’t say enough magic about Derrick’s work at Army of Men. He is a true artisan (and I don’t mean when people throw the word “artisanal” on their work to turn badly homemade into luxury) of leather, and you should all look through the website (especially since my birthday is at the end of the month).

Get ready for a fun month,

You are all delicious.

TtheAmazing over and out!

Hey undies lovers, today I’ll be reviewing the Fluorescence Latin Brief (5252)  by the Clever brand (furnished by Candyman Fashion). Now, I have been buying allll sorts of underwear for many years now. I have been reviewing for quite a few of those years. Usually, before I try on a pair, I can feel the pouch and just by seeing it, I can predetermine if I’m gonna love it or not. I’ll explain more of the why later. This pair of briefs was on my Level 2 on the Pouch  Awesomeness radar before I even put them on.

Clever Fluorescence Brief 3

First things first, the color is my power color, a deep teal-ly blue. The waistband name, seam piping, and thread are all a bright neon citron. The brief also comes in a sexy red color. The waistband is a nice wide 1 ½” waistband, which sits nicely just above the hips.

The fabric is a rich 85% Nylon/15% Spandex microfiber blend which gives it that smooth hand. Besides the fabrics, my two favorite aspects are the butt coverage, and the pouch. I love sexy cut briefs like nobody’s business. Some of the time (not this time), if the pouch is super sexy. The butt is not cut big enough to actually hold the butt. But it isn’t small enough to be considered a tanga or thong. It’s just NOT a whole butt…I just want my butt to not feel like it has awkward side butt. Well, this brief is the perfect butt coverage. Not so baggy that fabric gets sucked into the crack vortex. Not so skimpy that you feel like stretching it back over your butt multiple times during the day.

Clever Fluorescence Brief 1

Now, early I said this pair rated a Level 2 on my pouch awesomeness radar. That’s quite a good rating. The only thing that would have elevated this pouch to my Level 1 is if the seam under the balls defined the pouch more so it was lifted forward. That is all. I really do love this pouch. It’s comfortable, stretchy enough to make room. Nice front AND profile visibility of the prizes beneath…

Clever Fluorescence Brief 2

This is going in my go-to undies pile for sure. I love the color, the fit, and especially the butt. At $25, it’s a great pair of undies for what you are paying for. I am so happy with the fit of the butt, I am posting my first ever undies selfie (well first ever posted on an underwear blog heehee). Here ya go world:

Clever Fluorescence 4


BRAND: Clever

PAIR: Fluorescence Latin Brief (5252)

COLORS: Blue, Red

FABRIC: 85% Nylon/15% Spandex microfiber


COST: $25



  • Daily Fit:9/10
  • Sizing:10/10
  • Construction:10/10
  • Styling:10/10
  • Daily Performance:10/10
  • Overall Rating:9.8/10 (Yes, I really love this pair!)


Kinksters, Deviants, lend me your ears.

Note: I’m not into ear play. I just needed to start valiantly because this past weekend was the 400th anniversary of Shakespeare’s death (and I’m KIND of a fan). The bard spoke heavily of codpieces, and so shall I. Today, we return to our Maskulo friends with their Men’s Fetish Wrestling Singlet. The kind that they graciously sent to me was the Open Rear option in Red.


Upon opening my package (heehee), I discovered that this is a seriously sexy singlet. It is a very narrow racerback extremely low cut singlet (the torso strap in back and both in front scoop all the way to your belt line. There is a waist band going around the back, but it does not connect in front. The only thing holding the front together is the codpiece. When that comes off, it’s open from your head all the way down the front between the straps, under and behind up to the top of the butt where the waistband sits. That is some easy access shenanigans right there.


I wanna focus on the coolest thing I’ve enjoyed about the Maskulo products. Their creativity and play with the synthetic leather panels is so cool. This company has many products with these leather-like panels on them. They quilt these panels to give them texture and volume (if you know quilting terms, it’s like a trapunto quilt). This gives their work a really sexy rugged texture. It’s in their singlets, shorts, pants, shirts, and they even make forearm gauntlets. I’m really digging this concept, and love their play with it. You can get their stuff with or without the leather panels, but I personally think that’s like going to a world class singer, and asking them just to sing a basic happy birthday. Sure, they can do it, but why not let them go wild.  They just came out with a new leggings that you need to see…seriously hot.


I am really digging this Maskulo brand, and especially their political beliefs as well. Buying their stuff is not only supporting your sexy time, but supporting human rights. These singlets come in open/closed rear, and in Black, Navy, Red and Yellow (purchase at or their U.S. Partner Jockstrap Central. Next week, I will be returning for Part 2 of my Army of Men lovefest. Until then, do something kinky for yourself this week.

TtheAmazing over and out!